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POLYGAMY IS A BLESSINGS FOR MANKIND IF ITS RULES ARE IMPLEMENTED

 THE DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDERS. Yaum Al-Khamis. 20th day of RabeeulAwwal, 1445AH (Thursday, 5th October, 2023).

*_POLYGAMY IS A BLESSINGS FOR MANKIND IF ITS RULES ARE IMPLEMENTED_*. BismilLah. 


AlhamdulilLah for granting us another blessed day of the week. I hope majority are fasting to please ALLAH. 

The sad reality in our so called modern days of wisdom is that you see some Muslims especially sisters leaving Islam and speaking against Polygamy. 


Please note that ALLAH concluded HIS Message to mankind with the religion of Islam, and HE tells us that HE will not accept any religion other than that. ALLAAH says: 

“And whoever seeks a religion other than Islam, it will never be accepted of him, and in the Hereafter he will be one of the losers”[Aal ‘Imraan 3:85]. Clear warning my dear sisters and brothers. 


Also note that ALLAH does not permit ANYTHING if it is not good for us. Thirdly; Its totally wrong to blame ALLAH and Islam due to the wrong actions of some Muslims. Our priority individually is to please ALLAH seeking HIS MERCY and Guidance in return for HIS PARADISE regardless of how your husband or wife treat you. We all know ALLAH permitted polygamy on Conditions to be met else without those conditions polygamy will be forbidden for us. 


We all are aware that FAIRNESS and Financial Power are serious ingredients for polygamy to be permissible. If you are unable to cater and treat your first wife well, do not even attempt a second wife as that maybe a curse in your life and may cause you to hell fire my brother. Sisters must avoid accepting to be second wife without research about how he treat the first wife and if he is not capable financially. Do not blame Islam or ALLAH for the mess in your marriage if you failed to research about the brother or sister. Do not marry a sister if she does not have eemaan to respect polygamy and support you to be fair in your marriage. Rely on ALLAH to guide and change your husband instead of taken the law to your own hands by killing or disrespecting him for cheating or unfairness to you as some does. Polygamy is a blessings if you can afford and apply justice to it so let's not blame ALLAH indirectly by speaking against it but rather blame those men for their ignorance and lack of eemaan and make the right choice from the beginning. 

*_May ALLAH keep guiding us all and protect us from any satanic influences_*.  Aameen.

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