AbdurRahman

  DO OR DIE AFFAIR بِسْمِ اللَّهِ الرَّحْمَٰنِ الرَّحِيمِ Sometimes, good and decent men and women experience difficulties in relationships, whether before or after marriage. Some remain unmarried despite their sincere efforts to find a life partner. Others experience repeated relationship breakups. A man may begin a relationship with a woman on good terms, only to suddenly withdraw without offering any explanation. Some people also experience repeated disappointments just when something good is about to happen in their lives. It may not necessarily concern marriage; it could be a job opportunity, a business venture, an academic achievement or another important aspiration. And then the heart cries: "Why me?" My brother, my sister, this is a question many people ask. Muslims ask it. People of other faiths ask it. Even those without religious beliefs ask it. We must reflect on this question because, when people cannot understand why certain difficulties keep occurring, t...

  FAJR REMINDER: WHEN RELIGION BECOMES A MATTER OF CONVENIENCE Jumādā al-‘Ūlā 25, 1448 AH | Thursday, 5th November 2026 Are We Muslims by Commitment or Convenience? One concerning trend among some Muslims today is the selective practice of Islām. Many accept the teachings that align with their personal interests but struggle to embrace those that demand sacrifice, patience, discipline or a change in lifestyle. Some may be regular in their Ṣalāh yet neglect their responsibilities towards others. Similarly, they may observe religious obligations when convenient but become uncomfortable when those obligations conflict with their personal desires. Unfortunately, some increasingly view religion as something to adjust to their personal preferences rather than a comprehensive way of life that demands sincere submission to Allāh. Yet, Islām calls for wholehearted commitment, not selective obedience. Allāh (ﷻ) warns: “O you who believe! Enter Islām completely and perfectly (by obeyin...

  DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDER Yaum Arbi‘ā’ | 23rd Day of Jumādā al-Awwal, 1448 AH | Wednesday, 4th November, 2026. ACTIONS THAT LEAD TO ALLAH'S MERCY AND BLESSINGS IN OUR LIVES (CONTINUED) بِسْمِ اللَّهِ الرَّحْمَٰنِ الرَّحِيمِ 2. Establishing Our Five Daily Ṣalāh on Time and in Congregation (Jamā‘ah). Never underestimate the importance of Ṣalāh. It is our direct connection with our Creator. We must never allow worldly responsibilities, businesses, work, or entertainment to distract us from observing our five daily prayers at their prescribed times. Muslim brothers should also strive to perform their obligatory prayers in congregation at the masjid whenever possible. ALLAH Azzawajal says: "And establish prayer. Indeed, prayer prohibits immorality and wrongdoing." (Qur'an 29:45). 3. Constantly Repenting and Seeking ALLAH'S Forgiveness. We are human beings, and we all make mistakes. However, the best among us are those who recognise their shortcomings, sincere...

  🔺 TWO MAJOR SINS WE OFTEN BELITTLE 🔺 By: Asma bint Shameem بِسْمِ اللَّهِ الرَّحْمَٰنِ الرَّحِيمِ Allaah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala gives us some very important instructions in Surah Al-Hujuraat. 🍃 He says: يَا أَيُّهَا الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا اجْتَنِبُوا كَثِيرًا مِّنَ الظَّنِّ إِنَّ بَعْضَ الظَّنِّ إِثْمٌ وَلَا تَجَسَّسُوا "O you who believe! Avoid much suspicion, for indeed some suspicions are sins. And do not spy on one another." (Surah Al-Hujuraat 49:12) I am sure most of us have read this Aayah many, many times in our lives. But have we truly read it with the eyes of our hearts? Have we genuinely understood the command that the Lord of the heavens and the earth is giving us? Allaah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala is addressing ME and YOU. He says: "O you who believe!" That includes you and me. So, pay attention! He then commands us: "AVOID SUSPICION... AND DO NOT SPY!" Our Creator and Master is commanding us to refrain from entertaining unfo...

  DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDER Yaum ath-Thulāthā’ | 22nd day of Jumādā al-Awwal, 1448 AH | Tuesday, 3rd November, 2026. ACTIONS THAT LEAD TO ALLAH'S MERCY AND BLESSINGS IN OUR LIVES بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم One of the greatest things a Muslim should constantly seek in this life is not wealth, as many of us often do, fame, status or worldly comfort, but rather the MERCY, PLEASURE AND BLESSINGS OF ALLAH AZZAWAJAL. Why? Because when ALLAH'S MERCY is upon us, we have hope even in difficult times. When ALLAH Azzawajal blesses our lives, even little becomes sufficient. When ALLAH Azzawajal guides us, we find direction. And when ALLAH Azzawajal forgives us, we have hope for success in the Hereafter. ALLAH AZZAWAJAL says: وَرَحْمَتِي وَسِعَتْ كُلَّ شَيْءٍ "And MY Mercy encompasses all things." (Qur'an 7:156). So, what actions can we take to seek ALLAH'S mercy and blessings in our daily lives? 1. Develop Taqwa (Consciousness of ALLAH). Be conscious of ALLAH Azzawa...

  STORY OF A SISTER بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم I read about a Muslim woman who was reportedly suffering from severe spiritual difficulties. Her life became so challenging that she almost lost hope and even contemplated taking her own life. According to the account, powerful evil jinn were tormenting her. As a result, men avoided marrying her, she was dismissed from her job for no apparent reason, and even members of her own family found it difficult to be around her. She experienced several other painful challenges that she could hardly share with anyone. For over five years, she searched for a cure, travelling from one place to another, but nothing seemed to work. One day, she listened to an Islamic radio station where a speaker discussed the virtues of reciting Surah Al-Baqarah, the second chapter of the Noble Qur'an, for protection against Shaytan and spiritual harm. She decided to put this advice into practice with a sincere heart. She began reciting all 286 verses of Surah A...

  ONE BEST CHOICE [[- Episode 11 -]] بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم A previously married woman often knows deep in her heart what she wants to do to make her new relationship better and stronger. She carries this wisdom like a quiet gift, something a woman who has never been married may not yet have experienced. Now, While children can serve as binding agents in first marriages (even troubled ones), stepchildren can sometimes become sources of tension in subsequent marriages. Children from previous marriages, if proper care is not taken, can make subsequent marriages even more complicated. Yes, the more children involved, the more complicated the responsibilities may become. Now, Problems Caused by Stepchildren No. 3: Financial Stress When many of us are searching for a life partner and considering marriage, particularly where stepchildren are involved, how many people actually take the time to discuss who will pay which bills? Couples who build successful marriages often make the...

  FAJR REMINDER: PERMISSIBILITY IS NOT ALWAYS THE WISEST CHOICE (II) By: Umm ‘Affān Jumādā al-Ūlā 22, 1448 AH | Monday, 2 November 2026 It is essential to understand that acknowledging the permissibility of marrying a chaste woman from the People of the Book is different from asserting that it is always the best option for every Muslim man in every situation. A permission granted by the Sharī‘ah does not necessarily mean that pursuing it is advisable in every circumstance. A discerning Muslim does not simply ask, “Is this lawful?” but also considers, “Will this choice safeguard my faith, strengthen my family, and help me fulfil my obligations to Allāh?” In Sūrah Al-Mā’idah, the permission granted by Allāh (ﷻ) specifically concerns chaste women from the People of the Book. This condition must not be taken lightly or reduced to superficial assessments based on appearance, nationality, or religious affiliation. Sound judgment must be exercised rather than relying on hopeful assump...

  FAJR REMINDER: PERMISSIBILITY IS NOT ALWAYS THE WISEST CHOICE (I) By: Umm ‘Affān Jumādā al-Ūlā 21, 1448 AH | Sunday, 1 November 2026 Is every permissible choice automatically the best choice? Just because Islām allows something, does that mean a Muslim should hastily pursue it without considering its implications? These are vital questions for every Muslim to reflect upon, particularly when making decisions that will affect their faith, family, and future generations. One area requiring such contemplation is the marriage of a Muslim man to a chaste woman from the People of the Book, namely Jewish or Christian women. Allāh (ﷻ) has permitted this, stating: “(Lawful to you in marriage) are chaste women from the believers and chaste women from those who were given the Scripture (Jews and Christians) before your time, when you have given their due Mahr (bridal money given by the husband to his wife at the time of marriage), desiring chastity (i.e. taking them in legal wedlock), n...

DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDER. Yaum al-Ithnayn | 21st day of Jumādā al-Ūlā, 1448 AH | Monday, 2nd November, 2026. RECONCILIATION DOES NOT MEAN SACRIFICING OUR EEMAAN OR AQEEDAH. Bismillāh. Question: How Do I Distance Myself from Bad Friends or Relatives Without Displeasing ALLAH Azzawajal? This is a very important question because there is sometimes a misunderstanding among Muslims about reconciliation, maintaining family ties and protecting one's Eemaan. The answer is: NO. Islam does not require us to maintain close friendships or constant social relationships with people whose influence repeatedly weakens our Eemaan or encourages us towards disobedience to ALLAH Azzawajal. You can love someone, forgive them, respect them and maintain family ties without allowing them unrestricted access to your life. In fact, sometimes distancing ourselves from a particular friendship is an important step towards protecting our relationship with ALLAH Azzawajal. However, there is an important...

  DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDER. Yaumul-Ahad | 20th day of Jumādā al-Ūlā, 1448 AH | Sunday, 1st November, 2026. THE CONCEPT OF IṢLĀḤ (RECONCILIATION) IN ISLAM: THE NEGLECTED DUTY CONTINUES . Bismillāh. THE DANGER OF HATRED AND REFUSING TO RECONCILE As Muslims, we must understand the spiritual danger of allowing hatred and enmity to remain in our hearts. The Messenger of ALLAH (Ṣallallāhu 'alayhi wa sallam) taught in an authentic hadith recorded in Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim (Hadith 2565) that deeds are presented on Mondays and Thursdays, and that people who associate no partners with ALLAH Azzawajal may be forgiven, except those between whom there is enmity. Concerning such people, it is said that they should be left until they reconcile. SubḥānALLAH! This is a serious warning. We may be fasting. We may be reading the Qur'an, giving charity, praying at night and making du'a. Yet, we should be deeply concerned if we deliberately nurture hatred and refuse every reasonable opportunity to ma...

  Muslim Faithful, Never underestimate the power of the Qur'an in your life. Make time for its recitation every day. Even if you can only manage five pages, remain consistent. Read Surah Al-Baqarah regularly, understand its message and endeavour to practise what Allah has revealed. Before going to bed, remember Allah, recite Ayatul Kursiyy, the last two verses of Surah Al-Baqarah and the three Quls (Surah Al-Ikhlas, Al-Falaq and An-Nas). Do not merely make the Qur'an a sound playing in your house; make its teachings a reality in your life. Remember, the Qur'an is not a replacement for medical treatment, nor should every difficulty be attributed to spiritual attacks. Seek appropriate treatment, make sincere du'a, practise authentic ruqyah and place your complete trust in Allah. And whenever life becomes difficult, never despair of Allah's mercy. Allah is Ash-Shaafi (The Healer). He alone grants healing, and He is capable of changing your circumstances in ways ...

  ONE BEST CHOICE [[– Episode 10 –]] بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم A woman who has been married before has had the opportunity to learn from her past experiences. Deep in her heart, she understands what she wants to do differently to make her new relationship better, healthier, and stronger. She carries this wisdom as a quiet gift—something a woman who has never been married may not yet have acquired. Now, While children can sometimes serve as binding agents in first marriages, even troubled ones, stepchildren can sometimes become sources of tension and division in subsequent marriages. Children from previous marriages, if not properly managed, can make new marriages even more complicated. Indeed, the more children involved, the greater the potential for complications. Muslim Faithful, A child is a child, irrespective of whether you are the biological parent or stepparent. Now, Problems Caused by Stepchildren No. 3: Financial Stress When many of us consider marriage and begin se...

  DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDER Yaum As-Sabt | 19th Day of Jumādā al-Ūlā, 1448 AH | Saturday, 31st October, 2026 THE CONCEPT OF IṢLĀḤ (RECONCILIATION) IN ISLĀM: THE NEGLECTED DUTY (CONTINUED) Bismillāh. Allāh ‘Azza wa Jall says in Sūrah An-Nisā’, verse 114: لَا خَيْرَ فِي كَثِيرٍ مِّن نَّجْوَاهُمْ إِلَّا مَنْ أَمَرَ بِصَدَقَةٍ أَوْ مَعْرُوفٍ أَوْ إِصْلَاحٍ بَيْنَ النَّاسِ Meaning: "There is no good in much of their private conversations, except for those encouraging charity, kindness, or reconciliation between people." (Qur’an 4:114). Reflect on this beautiful teaching. When people gather privately, their conversations can sometimes become filled with gossip, backbiting, accusations, and plans to hurt one another. However, Allāh ‘Azza wa Jall highlights noble deeds that bring goodness, including charity, kindness, and making peace between people. Perhaps you make a phone call. Perhaps you visit those who are at odds with one another. Perhaps you patiently listen to both si...