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  MUSLIMS TILL DEATH AS-SALAAMU ALAYKUM WA RAHMATULLAAHI WA BARAKAATUHU. Let's begin tonight's Islamic education. OUR TOPIC: THE MUSLIM HOME (EPISODE 7) 🗓️ Thursday, 29th October 2026 18th Jumaadal-Ulaa 1448 AH ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ 📖 PAGE 1 ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ✍🏻 Not allowing into the home anyone whose commitment to Islaam is not pleasing to you. The Messenger of Allaah ﷺ said: “The likeness of a bad companion is like the one who works the bellows. He will either burn your clothes, or you will smell a bad odour from him.” (Reported by Al-Bukhaari, al-Fat-h, 4/323). ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ 📖 PAGE 2 ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ How often has the entry of corrupt and suspicious people into a home been the cause of enmity and division among family members? Allaah ﷻ curses the one who turns a wife against her husband, a husband against his wife, or causes enmity between a father and his children. This is also one of the ways through which Sihr (magic or witchcraft) may be brought...

  DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDER Yaum al-Khamīs | 17th Day of Jumādā al-Awwal, 1448 AH | Thursday, 29 October 2026 THE CONCEPT OF IṢLĀḤ (RECONCILIATION) IN ISLAM: THE NEGLECTED DUTY (CONTINUED) بِسْمِ اللَّهِ الرَّحْمَٰنِ الرَّحِيمِ Understanding the Meaning of Reconciliation in Islam The Arabic word Iṣlāḥ (الإصلاح) comes from a root associated with making things right, correcting what is wrong, and bringing about goodness. In the context of human relationships, Iṣlāḥ encompasses: Reconciling people who are in conflict. Reuniting estranged family members. Resolving marital disputes fairly and compassionately. Settling disagreements between friends, neighbours, and members of the Muslim community. Correcting misunderstandings before they develop into hatred. Restoring rights, rebuilding trust, and addressing the underlying causes of division. Iṣlāḥ is more than simply telling two people to shake hands and move on. It involves working towards genuine peace, justice, and the r...

  FAJR REMINDER: A WIFE’S MAINTENANCE Jumādā al-Ūlā 18, 1448 AH (29 October 2026) بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم In Islām, a husband’s responsibility to provide for his wife is not a favour he grants at his discretion; it is a fundamental obligation. This responsibility includes suitable accommodation, food, clothing, and other reasonable necessities, according to his financial means and what is considered fair. Allāh (ﷻ) says: “Men are the protectors and maintainers of women, because Allāh has made one of them to excel the other, and because they spend (to support them) from their means…” [Sūrah An-Nisā’ 4:34] Sadly, some men overlook this important responsibility, forgetting that fulfilling their wives’ rights is a duty for which they will be accountable before Allāh. O husbands, providing for your families is not merely a worldly obligation; it can also become an act of worship when done sincerely for the sake of Allāh. Abū Mas‘ūd (raḍiyallāhu ‘anhu) narrated that the Prophet (ﷺ...

  ARE YOU THE ONE? بِسْمِ اللَّهِ الرَّحْمَٰنِ الرَّحِيمِ Dear Muslim Brothers and Sisters, Let us talk about something very important today. It is not necessarily about doing a lot of good deeds at once, but about doing good deeds consistently, even if they are small. You see! Allah loves consistency in worship. The Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) said: “The most beloved deeds to Allah are those that are done regularly, even if they are few.” 📚 Source: Sahih al-Bukhari 6464; Sahih Muslim 783. Think about this deeply. Imagine two people. The first person wakes up every night for three years and prays just two rak'ahs of Tahajjud. He remains consistent in this act of worship. The second person wakes up every night for 30 days and prays six rak'ahs. He begins with great enthusiasm, but after 30 days, he abandons the practice entirely. Both have performed acts of worship, but the first person demonstrates something beautiful: consistency, patience and perseverance in obedience ...

  ONE BEST CHOICE [[– Episode 9 –]] بِسْمِ اللَّهِ الرَّحْمَٰنِ الرَّحِيمِ A woman who has been married before has had the opportunity to reflect on her past experiences. She has had time to learn valuable lessons about relationships and to understand what works and what does not. She knows, deep in her heart, what she can do to make her new relationship healthier and stronger. Life has taught her gentle but important lessons about love, patience, understanding, and commitment. She carries this wisdom as a valuable gift. It is an understanding that often comes through experience, although everyone, whether previously married or not, has the capacity to learn and grow. Now, To every sister or brother preparing to marry again, and to those already in their second or third marriage, this message is for you. PROBLEMS CAUSED BY STEPCHILDREN No. 2: BONDING AS ONE FAMILY If the father always handles the activities and schedules of his biological children while the mother takes car...

  FAJR REMINDER: WHO GETS THE CHILDREN AFTER DIVORCE? By: Umm ‘Affān Jumādā al-Ūlā 17, 1448 AH | Wednesday, 28 October 2026 DIVORCE ENDS A MARRIAGE, NOT PARENTHOOD Divorce brings a marriage to an end, but when children are involved, the responsibilities of parenthood remain. Sadly, children often become the victims of disputes between divorced parents, with each parent seeking custody. What does Islām teach us about child custody following divorce? Is custody automatically granted to the mother, or does the father have an overriding claim? Let us examine this important matter in the light of Islamic teachings. What Is Ḥaḍānah (Child Custody) in Islām? In Islamic jurisprudence, ḥaḍānah refers to the care, protection, and upbringing of a child who requires custody following the separation of their parents. The issue is not as simple as declaring that the mother must always have custody or that the father automatically has the right to take the children. Islamic scholars have...

  DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDER Yaum Arbi‘ā’ | 17th Day of Jumādā al-Ūlā, 1448 AH | Wednesday, 28th October, 2026 THE CONCEPT OF IṢLĀḤ (RECONCILIATION) IN ISLAM: THE NEGLECTED DUTY بِسْمِ اللَّهِ الرَّحْمَٰنِ الرَّحِيمِ Today, I want us to reflect deeply on a subject that affects our homes, marriages, families, friendships, mosques, and the entire Muslim community. Given the seriousness of this matter, In shaa Allah, Azzawajal , we shall devote the rest of this week to reminding one another about this important topic. Our theme is: Restoring broken relationships, fulfilling our Islamic responsibilities, and seeking the pleasure and mercy of Allah Azzawajal. My dear brothers and sisters, we live in a time when people may spend years building houses, accumulating wealth, and pursuing worldly success, yet allow relationships with their own brothers, sisters, parents, children, or fellow Muslims to remain broken for years. Some families have not gathered together for years because of ...

  DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDER Yaum ath-Thulāthā’ | 16th Day of Jumādā al-Ūlā, 1448 AH | Tuesday, 27 October 2026 THE REAL MEANING OF “NOTHING CAN HAPPEN TO US WITHOUT THE PERMISSION OF ALLĀH AZZAWAJAL” (CONTINUED) Bismillāh ir-Raḥmān ir-Raḥīm. Let us conclude this topic by reflecting on some important lessons we can apply in our daily lives. Lesson 1: Never become arrogant when life is going well. Our wealth, health, success, and opportunities are blessings from Allāh Azzawajal. Rather than becoming proud or looking down on others, we should remain grateful and use these blessings in ways that please Him. Lesson 2: Never despair when life becomes difficult. Our present circumstances do not define our entire future. Hardships are part of life, but they should never cause us to lose hope in the mercy of Allāh Azzawajal. Let us continue making Du‘ā’, taking the necessary steps, and trusting Him throughout the journey. Lesson 3: Stop destroying your peace by comparing your life wit...

  FAJR REMINDER: THE LESSON OF MANNA AND SALWĀ By: Umm ‘Affān Jumādā al-Ūlā 16, 1448 AH (27 October 2026) One of life's greatest tragedies is not the absence of blessings, but our failure to recognise their value because we have become too accustomed to them. What once brought tears of gratitude to our eyes can gradually become a source of complaints. Likewise, what we once prayed for so desperately can eventually become something we take for granted. This profound lesson is reflected in the story of Banī Isrā’īl in Sūrah al-Baqarah. Have you ever read this passage and wondered, “Honestly, wouldn't I also get tired of eating Manna and Salwā every day?” Before judging their response, let us reflect on the extraordinary favours Allāh bestowed upon them. Allāh rescued Banī Isrā’īl from the tyranny of Fir‘awn, delivered them from slavery and suffering, and allowed them to witness the miraculous parting of the sea. Then, while they wandered through a barren wilderness where f...

  SUFYĀN’S ADVICE TO YOU بِسْمِ اللَّهِ الرَّحْمَٰنِ الرَّحِيمِ It is reported that Sufyān ath-Thawrī (رحمه الله) said before his death: “If you depart for the Hereafter without preparing the provisions of piety, you will meet people who prepared theirs, and you will regret not having done likewise.” My dear brothers and sisters in Islām! Do not allow your appearance, strength, health, wealth, or youth to deceive you. All these blessings are temporary, and the life of this world can be like a mirage: something that appears everlasting until reality reveals otherwise. Health will eventually give way to sickness, youth will be followed by old age, and strength will ultimately turn into weakness. Nothing in this world remains forever except what Allāh wills. Therefore, prepare for the Hereafter while you still have the opportunity. Every good deed you perform—and every temptation you resist for the sake of Allāh—is an investment in your eternal life. Each act of sincerity, pa...

  FAJR REMINDER: A GUIDE TO DIVINE BLESSINGS Jumādā al-Ūlā 15, 1448 AH (26 October 2026) Blessings are among the greatest things we desire in life. We all yearn for the blessings of Allāh in our families, work, worship, health, wealth, and every other aspect of our lives. But how can we attain Barakah (divine blessings) and make it a lasting part of our daily lives? Here are six important practices that can help us seek greater Barakah in our lives, by the permission of Allāh. 1. Remember Allāh Consistently If you desire blessings in your heart, time, home, and life, remember Allāh frequently. Dhikr (the remembrance of Allāh) brings tranquillity to the heart, strengthens faith, and reminds us to remain conscious of our Creator. Allāh (ﷻ) says: “Those who believe and whose hearts find rest in the remembrance of Allāh. Verily, in the remembrance of Allāh do hearts find rest.” [Sūrah Ar-Ra‘d (13): 28] Allāh (ﷻ) also warns against turning away from His remembrance: “But who...

  DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDER Yaum al-Ithnayn | 15th day of Jumādā al-Ūlā, 1448 AH | Monday, 26th October, 2026 _THE REAL MEANING OF “NOTHING CAN HAPPEN TO US WITHOUT THE PERMISSION OF ALLAH AZZA WA JALL” CONTINUES Bismillāh ir-Raḥmān ir-Raḥīm. Does ALLAH’S decree mean we should accept injustice? Absolutely not! This is a very important lesson for every Muslim to understand. If someone abuses you, cheats you, takes your property unjustly, or treats you unfairly, you should not assume that you must remain silent simply because the incident occurred within the decree of ALLAH Azza wa Jall. You are permitted to seek justice, report wrongdoing, protect yourself and your family, and pursue lawful remedies. ALLAH Azza wa Jall commands us to uphold justice in the Glorious Qur’an, particularly in Surah An-Nisā’ (4:135) . The fact that an injustice occurred by ALLAH’s decree does not mean that the injustice itself is morally acceptable or pleasing to Him. Accepting the decree of ALLAH m...

  STEPMOTHER’S EVIL: THE POWER OF TAHAJJUD بِسْمِ اللَّهِ الرَّحْمَٰنِ الرَّحِيمِ Never underestimate the power of turning to Allah SWT in the stillness of the night. There was once a young woman named Zainab whose mother passed away when she was still a child. Before her mother breathed her last, she held Zainab’s hand and gave her some heartfelt advice: “My daughter, never abandon Tahajjud. No matter what life brings your way, always strive to stand before Allah in the quiet hours of the night.” After her mother’s death, Zainab’s father remarried. Unfortunately, her stepmother never accepted her. For twenty long years, she harboured hatred towards Zainab and wished to see her fail in life. She wanted Zainab to remain poor, lonely, unsuccessful, and unhappy. Her resentment grew so deep that she even wished to see Zainab destroyed. Yet Zainab refused to allow bitterness to consume her heart. She remembered her mother’s advice and held firmly to her relationship with Allah. ...

  FAJR REMINDER: NEVER BE OVERCONFIDENT ABOUT YOUR END Jumādā al-Ūlā 14, 1448 AH (25 October 2026) No one knows how their life will ultimately end. What if someone we regard as righteous ends up with an unfortunate end? Conversely, what if someone we consider sinful sincerely repents and meets a beautiful end? Therefore, a Muslim who strives to follow the Straight Path must never become arrogant or presume that a good ending is guaranteed. Instead, we must remain steadfast, fear Allāh, and continually seek His Mercy. ‘Ā’ishah (Raḍiyallāhu ‘Anhā) narrated that the Messenger of Allāh (ﷺ) said: “Follow the right course, seek nearness to Allāh, and give glad tidings. Verily, none of you will enter Paradise by his deeds alone.” They asked, “Not even you, O Messenger of Allāh?” He replied, “Not even me, unless Allāh grants me His Mercy…” [Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 6464; Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 2818] In another narration, Abū Hurayrah (Raḍiyallāhu ‘Anhu) reported that the Messenger of Allāh (ﷺ) said:...