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THE BEAUTY OF GRATITUDE IN MARRIAGE

 FAJR REMINDER: THE BEAUTY OF GRATITUDE IN MARRIAGE By: Umm Affān Muḥarram 17, 1448 (2-July-2026) Have you ever reflected on why the Messenger of Allāh (ﷺ) informed us that the majority of the dwellers of Hell-Fire are women? It is a question that deserves sincere contemplation—not to discourage or frighten women, but to remind us of a habit that can have enormous consequences in this life and the next: ingratitude. Gratitude is one of the finest qualities a believer can possess. It reflects humility, sincerity, and recognition of the blessings Allāh has placed in our lives. A grateful heart appreciates both the Giver of blessings and the means through which those blessings arrive. Ibn ‘Abbās (Raḍiyallāhu ‘Anhuma) reported: The Prophet (ﷺ) said: “I was shown the Hell-Fire and the majority of its dwellers were ungrateful women. It was asked, ‘Do they disbelieve in Allāh?’ (Or are they ungrateful to Allāh?) He replied, ‘They are ungrateful to their husbands and are ungrateful for the...
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TAFSEER OF SUURAH ABASA, QUR'AN 80 continues

 *_DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDER_* Yaum Al-khamis | 17th day of Muharram, 1448 AH | Thursday, 2nd July, 2026. *_TAFSEER OF SUURAH ABASA, QUR'AN 80 continues_*. BismilLah.  Let's begin with our studies of this suurah. Please read the historical/ background and context from yesterday's reminder first. Verse 1. غټش وتوڏ "He frowned and turned away." Meaning: The Prophet sallallahu alaihi frowned and turned his attention elsewhere. Commentary: ALLAH Azzawajal begins with a gentle but powerful correction. The Prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam  did not speak harshly, nor did he insult the blind Companion. Yet ALLAH Azzawajal cared about the feelings and dignity of a believer seeking guidance. Verse 2. أن جاءۀ الأغفى "Because the blind man came to him." Meaning: The reason for the frown was the arrival of the blind Companion. Commentary: ALLAH Azzawajal mentions the man's blindness not as a deficiency but to highlight that he could not even see the Prophet's ...

WHOM DO YOU TAKE YOUR DĪN FROM?

 FAJR REMINDER: WHOM DO YOU TAKE YOUR DĪN FROM? By: Umm Affān Muḥarram 16, 1448 (1-July-2026) The more you learn about Islām from authentic sources, the more convinced you become that it is the true religion revealed by Allāh for all people until the end of time. Islām is a religion that is simple, rational, clear, and comprehensive. Its beauty has no limit because it originates from the Infinite One—our Creator and the Only True God worthy of worship. Among the greatest blessings Allāh has bestowed upon us is that He guided us to this perfect religion. As Allāh (ﷻ) says: “…This day, I have perfected your religion for you, completed My Favor upon you, and have chosen for you Islām as your religion…” [Sūrah Al-Mā’idah (5): 3] Being a Muslim is purely a favor and mercy from Allāh. Therefore, seeking authentic Islāmic knowledge and striving to practice it correctly should be among our greatest priorities. However, every sincere seeker must ask an important question: From whom do I tak...

TAFSEER OF SUURAH ABASA, QUR'AN 80

 *_DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDER_* Yaum Arba'a | 16th day of Muharram, 1448 AH | Wednesday, 1st July, 2026. *_TAFSEER OF SUURAH ABASA, QUR'AN 80_*. BismilLah.  Suurah ‘Abasa was revealed in Makkah. The opening verses refer to an incident involving the Prophet Muhammad ﷺ and a blind Companion, ‘Abdullah ibn Umm Maktum. One day, the Prophet ﷺ was speaking with some influential leaders of Quraysh, hoping that they might accept Islam and that their acceptance would strengthen the Muslim community. During this conversation, Ibn Ummĥĥɓ Maktum رضي الله عنه came seeking guidance and asking the Prophet ﷺ to teach him from what ALLAH had taught him. Because the Prophet ﷺ was focused on the leaders, he frowned slightly and turned away momentarily from the blind man. ALLAH Azzawajal immediately corrected HIS Messenger through revelation, not because the Prophet ﷺ committed a major sin, but to teach the Ummah that sincere seekers of guidance are more honoured in the sight of Allah than arrogant p...

Set Yourself Free [[-- Episode 2 --]]

 Set Yourself Free [[-- Episode 2 --]] ------------------ بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم It hurts the most when the person who cut you is the one you once hugged. You never saw it coming from them. That is why the wound stays fresh for so long. Your mind keeps asking, "How could they?" But here is a hard question: Who is carrying that heavy box of anger right now? Is it them? No. They are sleeping well. You are the one who cannot rest. You are the one holding the hot coal. So, let us talk about a serious reason to let it go. Reason Number 1: A Trade You Cannot Lose The Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) gave us a beautiful promise. He said: 👉 “Whoever suffers an injury and forgives (the person responsible), Allah (swt) will raise his status to a higher degree and remove one of his sins.” 📚(Tirmidhi) Think about that! You let go of the anger ➡️ Allah (swt) raises your rank in Heaven. You drop the revenge ➡️ Allah (swt) drops one of your own mistakes. It is the best trade in the universe. You g...

A FINAL REMINDER TO EVERY HUSBAND AND WIFE

 *_DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDER_* Yaum athalaatha | 15th day of Muharram, 1448 AH | Tuesday, 30th June, 2026. *_A FINAL REMINDER TO EVERY HUSBAND AND WIFE_*. BismilLahir Rahmanir Raheem.  Based on our topic for the past 2 days, let's be reminded that Marriage in Islam is an act of worship (ʿIbaadah), not merely a social contract or a relationship based on emotions. It is one of the greatest trusts that ALLAH Azzawajal places upon two believers. It can become a source of immense blessings in this world and the Hereafter, or it can become a source of hardship and regret if the rights of one another are neglected. ALLAH Azzawajal says: "And among HIS signs is that HE created for you spouses from among yourselves so that you may find tranquillity in them, and HE placed between you affection and mercy. Indeed, in that are signs for people who reflect." (Qur'an 30:21). Every husband will stand before ALLAH Azzawajal and answer for how he treated his wife. Likewise, every wife wil...

Set Yourself Free [[-- Episode 1 --]]

 Set Yourself Free [[-- Episode 1 --]] ------------------ بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم That hurt in your chest? It burns so much because it came from someone you loved. A stranger cannot break your heart like a brother, a friend, or a parent. You never saw it coming. That is why the knife cuts so deep. But here is the painful truth you must face: You keep replaying the movie in your head. You stay angry. You wait for them to feel your pain. But who is really tired here? Not them. They sleep. You cry. They eat. You burn. You are holding a hot coal in your hands, waiting for them to get burned. But the fire is only eating your own skin. Now, here is the mind-blowing secret: Forgiveness is not for them. It never was. You do not forgive to make them feel good. You do not forgive because they asked nicely. You do not forgive because they deserve it. Yes. You forgive because YOU deserve peace. You deserve to sleep again without that knot in your stomach. You deserve to laugh without that heavy...

DEALING WITH A DIFFICULT WIFE WHILE SEEKING THE PLEASURE OF ALLAH AZZAWAJAL

 *_DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDER_* Yaum al-ithnayn | 14th day of Muharram, 1448 AH | Monday, 29th June, 2026. *_DEALING WITH A DIFFICULT WIFE WHILE SEEKING THE PLEASURE OF ALLAH AZZAWAJAL_*. BismilLah.  Every marriage goes through periods of ease and difficulty. A husband may at times find his wife difficult due to disagreements, emotional challenges, misunderstandings, or differences in personality, financial issues etc. During such moments, the believer should remember that his true objective is not to "win" every argument, but to earn the pleasure of ALLAH Azzawajal. A Muslim husband is a shepherd over his family and will be questioned by ALLAH Azzawajal regarding how he fulfilled that trust. ALLAH Azzawajal says: "Live with them in kindness. If you dislike them, it may be that you dislike something while ALLAH has placed much good in it." Qur'an 4:19. This noble verse reminds husbands that temporary frustration should never lead to injustice or oppression. What app...

BUILDING A MARRIAGE THAT LASTS

 FAJR REMINDER: BUILDING A MARRIAGE THAT LASTS By: Umm Affān Muḥarram 14, 1448 (29-June-2026) Marriage, as ordained by Allāh, is meant to be a source of peace, affection, and mercy. It is a relationship in which both husband and wife find comfort, protection, and tranquillity in one another. Allāh says: “They (spouse) are Libās (i.e. garment) for you and you are the same for them.” [Sūrah Al-Baqarah (2): 187] Imām al-Qurṭubī (Raḥimahullāh) commented: “Allāh used the following words to describe marriage as the same as wearing one's clothes to protect oneself from the cold and heat; similarly marriage is a means of safeguarding oneself from sins. Also, marriage provides peace and tranquillity to the heart and there is a physical bond between the husband and wife the same way one's clothes are closely attached to a person.” [Tafsīr al-Qurṭubī (2/209)] By the Grace of Allāh, I dedicate this morning's FAJR REMINDER to every married couple, especially those who have recently begu...

DEALING WITH A DIFFICULT HUSBAND WHILE SEEKING THE PLEASURE OF ALLAH AZZAWAJAL

 *_DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDER_* Yaumul ahad | 13th day of Muharram, 1448 AH | Sunday, 28th June, 2026. *_DEALING WITH A DIFFICULT HUSBAND WHILE SEEKING THE PLEASURE OF ALLAH AZZAWAJAL_*. BismilLah.  To my dear sisters in Islaam, always remember that Marriage is a test from ALLAH Azzawajal for both the husband and the wife. Sometimes a wife may find herself married to a husband who is difficult, harsh, neglectful, or lacking in good manners. At such times, Shayṭān seeks to create hatred, anger, and disobedience. The believing wife should remember that her ultimate goal is not merely pleasing her husband, but pleasing ALLAH Azzawajal. ALLAH Azzawajal says: "Live with them in kindness." (Qur'an 4:19). This command is directed to husbands, reminding them to treat their wives well. However, when a husband falls short, a believing wife should not respond by falling short in her own duties before ALLAH Azzawajal. ALLAH Azzawajal also says: "...Indeed, ALLAH is with those who fe...

THE FIVE DAILY PRECIOUS APPOINTMENTS

 FAJR REMINDER: THE FIVE DAILY PRECIOUS APPOINTMENTS By: Umm Affān Muḥarram 13, 1448 (28-June-2026) Have you ever paused to ask yourself why we observe Ṣalāh (prayer)? Many people would naturally reply, “Because Allāh commanded us to pray.” While that answer is true, it only scratches the surface. There is a deeper wisdom behind the five daily prayers. Why did Allāh prescribe them at specific times throughout the day? To understand this, we must first realize that Ṣalāh is not a burden imposed on us because Allāh needs our worship. He is completely free of all needs. Rather, we are the ones in need of the prayers. Ṣalāh is one of the greatest gifts Allāh has bestowed upon His servants. Out of His Mercy and Love, He did not leave us to wander through the day without constantly reconnecting with Him. Just as our bodies require food and drink to survive, our souls require spiritual nourishment. Prayer cleanses the heart repeatedly, washing away the stains of worldly distractions, anxi...

Look 4 the Lesson

 Look 4 the Lesson ------------------ بسم الله الرحمان الرجيم When you hear about Prophet Zakariyyah or Prophet Musa (A.S), don't just listen. Look at your own life. Yes. Their stories are not old tales. They are Allah's way of teaching you how to live today. Here is how. Sometimes, things don't go your way. You feel sad. This is where your test begins. Look at Prophet Zakariyyah (A.S). He wanted a child. He prayed for a child for so, so long. But did he stopped making Du'a? No! He never gave up on Allah. And when Allah finally said "yes," Allah (swt) did not give him just anyhow child. HE gave him - Yahya (A.S) —a noble Prophet for that matter. The long, painful "delay" was actually Allah preparing a perfect "long-lasting joy." To prove this, Allah (swt) Himself said about Zakariyyah's son in the Quran: *"And affection from Us and purity, and he was fearing of Allah."* 📚(Maryam 19:13)... After all that waiting, Allah (swt) g...

TIE YOUR CAMEL AND TRUST IN ALLĀH

 FAJR REMINDER: TIE YOUR CAMEL AND TRUST IN ALLĀH By: Umm Affān Muḥarram 12, 1448 (27-June-2026)   When Prophet Muḥammad (ﷺ) set out on his migration from Makkah to Madīnah, he demonstrated the importance of careful planning and making use of available means. Since he had never travelled the route before, he hired a highly skilled guide, ‘Abdullāh Ibn Urayqit, who had not yet accepted Islām. Despite his disbelief at the time, he was chosen because of his honesty, reliability, trustworthiness, and exceptional knowledge of the hidden desert routes. It is worth reflecting on the fact that Allāh had the power to make the journey effortless for His Messenger. He could have sent Angel Jibrīl (‘Alaykum Salām) to guide him directly or inspired him with the exact route to Madīnah. Yet, Allāh chose not to do so. Instead, He taught His Prophet (ﷺ) and the Ummah that genuine reliance upon Him does not eliminate the need for human effort. We are expected to take the necessary steps while p...

TAFSEER OF QUR'AN 81, Suurah At-Takwīr continues

 *_DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDER_* Yaum As-sabt | 12th day of Muharram, 1448 AH | Saturday, 27th June, 2026. *_TAFSEER OF QUR'AN 81, Suurah At-Takwīr continues_*. BismilLah.  Let's conclude with our studies of this beautiful suurah At-Takwīr: Verses 26–29 فَأَيْنَ تَذْهَبُونَ ۝٢٦ إِنْ هُوَ إِلَّا ذِكْرٌ لِّلْعَالَمِينَ ۝٢٧ لِمَن شَاءَ مِنكُمْ أَن يَسْتَقِيمَ ۝٢٨ وَمَا تَشَاءُونَ إِلَّا أَن يَشَاءَ اللَّهُ رَبُّ الْعَالَمِينَ ۝٢٩ 26. "So where are you going?" 27. "It is nothing but a reminder to all the worlds," 28. "For whoever among you wishes to take the straight path." 29. "But you cannot will unless ALLAH, the Lord of all the worlds, wills." Commentary: These concluding verses summarize the central message of the suurah. After establishing the certainty of the Day of Judgment, affirming the truthfulness of the Prophet ﷺ, and confirming that the Qur'an is a revelation from ALLAH Azzawajal, the listener is left with a powerful question: Ve...

Khalid's Journey

 *Khalid's Journey* ------------------ بسم الله الرحمان الرجيم Every single day, we fight sleep, fight tiredness. We do it for an appointment with someone - maybe for a job, a flight or for business. We do this even with a headache, fever, and even when our body begs for rest. We do not complain. Why? Because that appointment is important to us. Now, Answer this: What is more important than an appointment with the King of all Kings? The Owner of the Heavens and the Earth? Let me tell you a true story about a man who understood this. Seven years ago, A man called Khalid travelled to a village far from the city. In the night, a very big scorpion stung him. The pain was terrible. There was no hospital. No doctor. He had to find herbal medicine in another village. That night, the pain was so strong he could not sleep. His body was on fire. But when the time for Tahajjud came, he moved. He made dry ablution. He could not stand, so he sat down. In great pain, he prayed two rakaats. He ma...