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ONE BEST CHOICE

  ONE BEST CHOICE Episode 7: Stepchildren and the Challenges of a New Marriage بِسْمِ اللَّهِ الرَّحْمَٰنِ الرَّحِيمِ The Wisdom of a Previously Married Woman A woman who has been married before may have had time to reflect on her past experiences, learn valuable lessons, and understand what she wants to do differently in a new relationship. Life may have taught her what works, what does not, and how to approach certain challenges with greater wisdom and maturity. However, this does not mean that a woman who has never been married lacks wisdom. Every individual has unique experiences and valuable lessons to offer. Stepchildren Issues Marrying someone who has children from a previous marriage or relationship can introduce challenges into a new marriage. When a person sees their child being criticised, neglected, or treated unfairly by a new spouse, it can create emotional pain and resentment. If such issues are not handled wisely, they may gradually damage the relationship b...
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LET US PURIFY OUR HEARTS TO TASTE THE SWEETNESS OF ĪMĀN

  DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDER 🌿 Yaum ath-Thulāthā’ | 9th Day of Jumādā al-Ūlā, 1448 AH | Tuesday, 20th October 2026 LET US PURIFY OUR HEARTS TO TASTE THE SWEETNESS OF ĪMĀN بِسْمِ اللَّهِ الرَّحْمَٰنِ الرَّحِيمِ Dear Fellow Muslims, If we truly desire to taste the sweetness of Īmān (faith), we must strive to purify our hearts from jealousy, envy, hatred, pride, resentment, and the unwillingness to forgive. Let us forgive those who have wronged us, rejoice when Allāh blesses others, sincerely repent from our sins, and love one another for the sake of Allāh (عز وجل). Let us guard our tongues against harmful speech and keep our hearts free from malice and ill feelings. Our beloved Prophet Muḥammad ﷺ said: “Whoever possesses the following three qualities will taste the sweetness of faith: To love Allāh and His Messenger ﷺ more than anything else. To love a person solely for the sake of Allāh. To hate returning to disbelief as much as one would hate being thrown into the Fire.” ...

YOUR REAL COMFORT

  YOUR REAL COMFORT بِسْمِ اللَّهِ الرَّحْمَٰنِ الرَّحِيمِ We spend our lives chasing comfort. We invest in homes, build relationships, accumulate wealth, and seek security, all in an attempt to protect ourselves from the hardships of this world. Yet, there is one journey we will all undertake alone—a journey into a realm of silence and darkness where our worldly possessions cannot accompany us. That journey is life in the grave. It is for this very reality that we must prepare ourselves through righteous deeds, including the blessed voluntary prayer of Tahajjud. Ibn Rajab رحمه الله said: “How many people who stood in prayer at night will rejoice because of their night prayers in the darkness of their graves, and how many people who slept through the night will regret their long sleep.” Read that wise saying again. Pause and let it sink deeply into your heart. Muslim Faithful! While many people spend their nights sleeping, those who sincerely strive to stand before Allāh i...

A MESSAGE TO THE STRANGERS

  FAJR REMINDER: A MESSAGE TO THE STRANGERS By: Umm ‘Affān Jumādā al-‘Ūlā 8, 1448 AH | Monday, 19 October 2026 بِسْمِ اللَّهِ الرَّحْمَٰنِ الرَّحِيمِ Bismillāh-ir-Raḥmān-ir-Raḥīm In the Name of Allāh, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful. Alḥamdulillāh! In times when corruption spreads, misconceptions abound, and temptations surround us, those who sincerely strive to uphold the authentic teachings of Islām may feel like strangers among their own communities. Yet, this is not a new reality. The Messenger of Allāh (ﷺ) foretold it: “Islām began as something strange, and it will return to being strange. Then, blessedness is for the strangers.” 📚 Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 145 WHO ARE THE STRANGERS? They are those who remain righteous when wrongdoing becomes widespread, strive to correct corruption with knowledge and wisdom, and remain committed to the truth even when those who reject it outnumber those who accept it. ‘Abdullāh ibn ‘Amr (رضي الله عنهما) reported that the Messenger of All...

SEEKING ALLĀH’S HELP IN WORSHIP

  DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDER Yaum al-Ithnayn | 8th day of Jumādā al-Awwal, 1448 AH | Monday, 19th October, 2026. SEEKING ALLĀH’S HELP IN WORSHIP بِسْمِ اللَّهِ الرَّحْمَٰنِ الرَّحِيمِ Never think that you can worship ALLĀH ‘Azzawajal through your own strength alone. We are always in need of HIS help and guidance to pray on time, wake up for Tahajjud, recite the Qur’an, fast, avoid sins, and remain steadfast until our final breath. Our beloved Messenger, Prophet Muhammad ﷺ, taught us this beautiful du‘ā’: اللَّهُمَّ أَعِنِّي عَلَى ذِكْرِكَ وَشُكْرِكَ وَحُسْنِ عِبَادَتِكَ Allāhumma a‘innī ‘alā dhikrika wa shukrika wa ḥusni ‘ibādatik. “O ALLĀH, help me to remember You, thank You, and worship You in the best manner.” 📚 Sunan Abī Dāwūd 1522 Dear brothers and sisters, let us sincerely call upon ALLĀH, repent from our sins, keep righteous company, and remain consistent in doing good, even when our deeds seem small. Never give up simply because you feel weak. Turn to ALLĀH ‘Azzawaj...

WHEN ALLĀH IS WITH YOU (III)

  FAJR REMINDER: WHEN ALLĀH IS WITH YOU (III) By: Umm Affān Yaumul Aḥad | 7th day of Jumādā al-Ūlā, 1448 AH | Sunday, 18th October 2026 بِسْمِ اللَّهِ الرَّحْمَٰنِ الرَّحِيمِ NEVER DESPAIR, FOR NO POWER CAN OVERRIDE THE WILL OF ALLĀH. Alhamdulillaah! All praise belongs to ALLĀH, the Most Powerful, the All-Wise, whose Authority encompasses the heavens and the earth. In our previous reflections, we considered how ALLĀH demonstrated His Supreme Power through the people of the elephant, Ṭālūt and his believing followers, Prophet Mūsā (عليه السلام), and the Muslims at Badr. These remarkable accounts teach us that no enemy, regardless of strength, numbers, wealth, or worldly resources, can escape the Authority of ALLĀH. But what lessons should we, as Muslims, draw from these events when facing powerful adversaries, overwhelming challenges, and situations that appear impossible? Let us reflect on the following lessons of Eemān, Tawakkul, patience, obedience, and steadfastness. ?...

A LEGACY OF COURAGE AND COMPASSION

  FAJR REMINDER: A LEGACY OF COURAGE AND COMPASSION By: Umm Affān Yaumul Aḥad | 7th day of Jumādā al-Ūlā, 1448 AH | Sunday, 18th October 2026 بِسْمِ اللَّهِ الرَّحْمَٰنِ الرَّحِيمِ THE COURAGE OF A WOMAN, THE PAIN OF LOSS, AND THE BEAUTY OF PATIENCE. Alhamdulillaah! All praise belongs to ALLAH, who has preserved for us the stories of those who came before us, offering lessons in faith, courage, compassion, and perseverance. Among the remarkable female Companions of the Prophet ﷺ was Ḥamnah bint Jaḥsh (رضي الله عنها) , a woman whose life reminds us that true courage is not merely demonstrated on the battlefield, but also through service to others and patience in the face of profound grief. Ḥamnah was the sister of Zaynab bint Jaḥsh (رضي الله عنها), one of the Mothers of the Believers, and ‘Abdullāh ibn Jaḥsh (رضي الله عنه). She was also the wife of Muṣ‘ab ibn ‘Umayr (رضي الله عنه). During the Battle of Uḥud, she was among those who served the Muslim community by providing wa...

WHAT SHOULD A TERMINALLY ILL PERSON DO, AND WHAT CAN OTHERS DO FOR THEM?

  🔺 WHAT SHOULD A TERMINALLY ILL PERSON DO, AND WHAT CAN OTHERS DO FOR THEM? 🔺 By Asma bint Shameem بِسْمِ اللَّهِ الرَّحْمَٰنِ الرَّحِيمِ Every soul has an appointed time. None of us knows when our journey in this world will end, but we know that we will eventually return to ALLAH Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala. A serious or terminal illness can be an opportunity to reflect, repent, put things right and prepare for the Hereafter. However, we should never assume that every illness is a sign that death is near. Illness is a test, and we ask ALLAH to make it a means of mercy, forgiveness and reward. 🔺 WHAT SHOULD A TERMINALLY ILL PERSON DO? 1️⃣ Make sincere Tawbah. Turn to ALLAH in sincere repentance for past sins, regret them and resolve not to return to them. 2️⃣ Seek forgiveness from others. Apologise to anyone you may have wronged and make amends where possible. 3️⃣ Forgive those who have hurt you. Free your heart from hatred and resentment, seeking the reward of ALLAH. 4️...

DEVELOP THIS HABIT

  DEVELOP THIS HABIT ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ بِسْمِ اللَّهِ الرَّحْمَٰنِ الرَّحِيمِ THE BEAUTY OF SECRET GOOD DEEDS Dear servants of ALLAH Azzawajal, One beautiful habit every Muslim should strive to develop is concealing righteous deeds whenever possible, seeking only the pleasure of ALLAH Azzawajal. Zubayr ibn al-Awwam (رضي الله عنه), one of the ten Companions promised Paradise, was among the noble Companions whose lives remind us of the importance of sincerity and devotion to ALLAH. On this subject, the Prophet ﷺ said: “Whoever among you can have hidden deeds of righteousness, let him do so.” 📚 Reported by al-Khatib in Tārīkh Baghdād (11/263); authenticated by al-Albani in al-Silsilah al-Sahihah (2313). WHY SHOULD WE CONCEAL OUR GOOD DEEDS? Servants of ALLAH, not every act of worship needs to be announced or displayed before people. Some of the most valuable deeds are those performed privately, when nobody is watching and no human praise is expected. A secret act of ch...

PROPHET MUHAMMAD (ṢALLALLĀHU ʿALAYHI WA SALLAM): THE ROLE MODEL FOR ALL MANKIND

  DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDER Yaumul Ahad | 7th Day of Jumaadal Awwal, 1448 AH | Sunday, 18th October, 2026. PROPHET MUHAMMAD (ṢALLALLĀHU ʿALAYHI WA SALLAM): THE ROLE MODEL FOR ALL MANKIND Bismillāh. My beloved brothers and sisters in Islam, if we truly desire success in this Dunya and everlasting happiness in the Aakhirah, let us look to the life of our beloved Prophet Muhammad (Ṣallallāhu ʿalayhi wa sallam), the finest example of mercy, patience, humility, excellent character and obedience to ALLAH Azzawajal. ALLAH Azzawajal says in the Glorious Qur’an: “Indeed, in the Messenger of ALLAH you have an excellent example for whoever has hope in ALLAH and the Last Day and remembers ALLAH often.” 📖 Qur’an 33:21 WHAT CAN WE LEARN FROM OUR BELOVED PROPHET (ṢALLALLĀHU ʿALAYHI WA SALLAM)? 🌹 His Mercy: He showed compassion and kindness, even towards those who mistreated him. 🌹 His Patience: He endured trials and hardships while remaining steadfast in his trust in ALLAH Azzawajal. ...

WHAT WILL OUR EXCUSE BE BEFORE ALLAH AZZAWAJAL?

  DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDER Yaum As-Sabt | 6th Day of Jumaadal Awwal, 1448 AH | Saturday, 17th October, 2026 WHAT WILL OUR EXCUSE BE BEFORE ALLAH AZZAWAJAL? بِسْمِ اللَّهِ الرَّحْمَٰنِ الرَّحِيمِ Today, we are alive. We can pray, repent, give charity, seek forgiveness, reconcile with our families, and return to ALLAH Azzawajal. But what if tomorrow never comes for us? When we stand before ALLAH AZZAWAJAL on the Day of Judgement, what will our excuse be for neglecting our Ṣalāh? What will we say about the Qur’an we abandoned, the sins we refused to leave, the people we hurt, and the good deeds we kept postponing? ALLAH AZZAWAJAL says: “Read your record. You yourself are sufficient this Day to take account of yourself.” 📖 Qur’an 17:14 On that Day, wealth will not save us, status will not benefit us, and worldly excuses will not change the truth of what we did. My beloved brothers and sisters, do not wait until death approaches before you remember ALLAH AZZAWAJAL. Do not wait ...

FIGHTING THE FIGHT: THE BEAUTY OF TAHAJJUD

  🌙 FIGHTING THE FIGHT: THE BEAUTY OF TAHAJJUD 🌙 بِسْمِ اللَّهِ الرَّحْمَٰنِ الرَّحِيمِ Every single night, an incredible opportunity awaits you! While the world sleeps, Allah has granted His servants a special time to call upon Him, seek His forgiveness, ask for their needs, and draw closer to Him through voluntary night prayers. The Prophet ﷺ said: “Our Lord, Blessed and Exalted is He, descends every night to the lowest heaven when the last third of the night remains and says: ‘Who is calling upon Me, so that I may answer him? Who is asking Me, so that I may give him? Who is seeking My forgiveness, so that I may forgive him?’” 📚 Sahih al-Bukhari 1145; Sahih Muslim 758. Pause and reflect! The last third of the night is not merely a time to sleep. It is an opportunity to stand before your Lord, pour out your worries, confess your shortcomings, and ask Him for whatever goodness you need in this life and the Hereafter. Yet, what do many of us do? We remain comfortably i...

LET US MAXIMISE OUR FRIDAY REWARDS

  DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDER Yaumul Jumu‘ah | 5th of Jumaadal Awwal, 1448 AH | Friday, 16th October 2026 LET US MAXIMISE OUR FRIDAY REWARDS بِسْمِ اللَّهِ الرَّحْمَٰنِ الرَّحِيمِ Alhamdulillaah! All praise is due to Allaah, ‘Azza wa Jall, for blessing us with another Friday. Let us not allow this blessed day to pass without striving to earn His pleasure and abundant rewards. 🌿 LET US MAKE THE MOST OF THIS BLESSED DAY: 📖 Read Surah Al-Kahf. 🤍 Increase our ṣalawaat upon our beloved Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ). 🤲 Make abundant du‘aa and sincerely seek Allaah’s forgiveness. 💝 Give ṣadaqah, no matter how little. 🕌 Attend Ṣalaatul Jumu‘ah with humility and devotion. ❤️ Reconcile with those we have wronged, seek forgiveness and maintain good relations with others. Allaah, the Most High, reminds us: “So whoever does an atom’s weight of good will see it.” 📚 [Qur’an 99:7] Dear brothers and sisters, we do not know whether we will live to witness another Friday. Let us therefore sei...

UTTERING THE INTENTION FOR ṢALĀH

 🔺 FAJR REMINDER: UTTERING THE INTENTION FOR ṢALĀH 🔺 Jumādā al-‘Ūlā 5, 1448 AH (16 October 2026) Did the Prophet (ﷺ) instruct us to verbalise our intention aloud before Ṣalāh? There is no authentic evidence establishing a specific verbal formula, such as “I intend to pray four rak‘ahs of ‘Asr,” as a prescribed requirement before beginning the prayer. When teaching the Companions how to pray, the Prophet (ﷺ) said: “Pray as you have seen me praying.” 📚 Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī; Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim. Yet, no authentic report establishes that he instructed them to announce their intentions verbally before Ṣalāh. 🌿 WHERE DOES NIYYAH (INTENTION) RESIDE? The place of intention is the heart. The Prophet (ﷺ) said: “Actions are judged by intentions.” 📚 Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 1; Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 1907. Therefore, when you stand to pray, knowing in your heart which prayer you are about to perform is sufficient. You do not need to pronounce a formula such as “I intend to pray…” before beginning. 🌿 WHAT SHOULD WE DO...

ṢALĀT AL-JANĀZAH ACCORDING TO THE SUNNAH 🔺 A

  🔺 ṢALĀT AL-JANĀZAH ACCORDING TO THE SUNNAH 🔺 A Step-by-Step Guide to the Muslim Funeral Prayer بِسْمِ اللَّهِ الرَّحْمَٰنِ الرَّحِيمِ WHAT IS ṢALĀT AL-JANĀZAH? Ṣalāt al-Janāzah is the funeral prayer offered for a deceased Muslim. It is Farḍ Kifāyah (a communal obligation). If some Muslims perform it, the obligation is fulfilled for the community; if everyone neglects it, those responsible may bear the sin. A deceased Muslim deserves this prayer, even if they committed major sins, provided they died as a Muslim. It is also a means of earning immense rewards. 🌿 THE GREAT REWARD OF ATTENDING A FUNERAL The Prophet ﷺ said: “Whoever attends a funeral until he offers the funeral prayer will have one Qīrāṭ of reward, and whoever attends until the burial is completed will have two Qīrāṭs.” It was asked, “What are two Qīrāṭs?” He replied, “Like two great mountains.” 📚 Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī and Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 🌿 THE MORE PEOPLE WHO PRAY, THE BETTER The Prophet ﷺ said that when a M...