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FOR THE BROTHERS IN ISLAM

 _*FOR THE BROTHERS IN ISLAM*_


Dear correct brothers,

Here are Few tips to win your wife's heart:


Women are the easiest thing to control like a remote to your important gadgets *only if you understood how best to treat them. Many* times, they just wanted to be told they are loved and cherished even though you said it as recently as five minutes ago. The thing is, women are so emotional that you can only treat *them like a baby to be able to walk straight* into their heads.


Your wife is not like mine, remember, so don't compare them. I mean, don't compare your wife with anybody, she's never going to like it. *Whenever she's still asleep when you have woken up, give her* such a gentle innocenlty romantic kiss on the forehead and I'm sure she's going to wake up ready to do as you command. smiles....


Watch your wife’s *beauty secretly even though the beauty is travelling already* beyond repairs, just remember she lost the beauty while becoming the best homemaker she could be, or the best mother she could be to your children. Hence, *whenever you have the opportunity, offer her a flower or a* bouquet of flowers with a smile but I'm sure she wouldn't mind a few cash too. Soq


Rather than trying to satisfy her too much, feel and say that you *are satisfied with her. Your own satisfaction will satisfy her. On* coming back home every time, give her a hug and a kiss on the forehead but if she's already asleep, don't bother wake her up, just get your self ready for bed and sleep too except she is the one to open the gate.


Don’t look for her body. That’s already yours. Rather llook for her mind, that's where her secrets lies. She’s looking for opportunities to offer it to you but she wishes to know if she could trust you too. Sometimes act like a *child and let her teach you something, even if it's something* you already know.


Don't ignore an opportunity to have a shower together, it's a cure to marital malaria like malice, boredom and others. 

_*May Allah Guide us all and Give us Spouses that are a Calmness for our Souls and Eyes.*_

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