*Advice of the Day*
*I admire married women whom no matter what they go through with their husbands, they never speak bad of them. They stand in being the cover of them even if their emotional state is unsteady. May Allāh keep them firm in the religion. But such thing cannot only be applied by married muslimāt. It can also be applied in our other relationships, redirecting the definition of friendship and family to how to it really is from them being slowly redefined by the society.*
*We should be protectors of the people that we care for, moreover in their absence. We should not put our family, friends, and everyone around us on shame by telling the world how bad everything is going, and how someone is falling short from his or her responsibility. We should keep our private matters in the lane outside the publicity. We should keep our privacy steady and firm.*
*Remember that publicizing what you cherish is putting it at stake. After all, evil eye is real. You are making the world binge on watching your supposedly private affairs, making your relationships vulnerable to the judgment of the public. Imām Ibn Al—Jawzī said in his book 'Captured Thoughts,' "when the reality of a matter is unknown, it can neither be praised nor criticized."*
*No matter how hard the situation is, let's discipline ourselves not to vent out things on the public. It quite is a hard thing to do if you have no one to listen to your rants in life, but managing our affairs in private is a lot safer than managing them while having the public eye directed towards us.*
*Every situation is hard,*
*but choose your won hard.*
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