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POLYGAMY, IS A TEST and BLESSINGS FROM ALLAAH

 THE DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDERS. Yaumul Jumuat. 9th day of Swafar, 1445AH (Friday, 25th. August, 2023).

*_POLYGAMY, IS A TEST and BLESSINGS FROM ALLAAH_*. BismilLah. 


As a Muslim, It's important to remember that, ALLAH does not permit anything for us if it does not contain blessings. All blessings also comes with a test or trial from ALLAH to test our eemaan. 


Narrated Abu Musa (radhi-allaahu 'anhu): The Prophet (sallahu 'alayhi wa sallam) said, "A faithful believer to a faithful believer is like the bricks of a wall, enforcing each other." While saying that the Prophet (sallahu alayhi wa sallam) clasped his hands, by interlacing his fingers.  (Bukhaari vol. 1, hadith # 468). This basically means we must share what we love most with our fellow Muslim brother or sister as our eemaan can never be good enough if we dont love for our sister or brother what we love for ourselves. 


Here is the reality, we were placed upon this earth to worship ALLAH 

alone. We are going to have trials and we must call on ALLAH to help us with them. You sisters that feel anger and jealousy, think more about the grave, think more about your meeting with ALLAH, ask youself, is harboring ill feelings worth wasting precious time that could be spent on good deeds to try and please ALLAH. Remember, you will die one day and leave your husband and children and wish you had a co-wife to help take care of your children and husband for you. This is a reality, we all must die, who is the first to say that they are ready and that they don't have anything to worry about? Do we really have time to spare on anything other than worshipping and trying to please ALLAH? And if polygyny is in the Qadr for you then accept it, deal with it. Read about how the Mothers of the Believers dealt with it. Read about how the Sahaabiyaat dealt with it. Turn to the Book of ALLAH and the Sunnah of our Prophet (sallallahu 'alayhi wa sallam) to deal with it. Throw your hands up in sincere du'a and ask ALLAH to help you to deal with it, for sure ALLAH, subhaanahu wa ta'aala, is the best of Planners. HE knows what we do not know and HE knows what is best for us. Do not oppose what ALLAH has made halaal else you will be coming a grave sin challenging ALLAH.


*_May ALLAH  bless us with good in this world and in the next, and may HE save us from the hellfire and the torment of the grave_* Aameen.

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