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MARRIED COUPLE ARGUING IN FRONT OF THEIR KIDS

 THE DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDERS. Yawm As-Sabt. 25th day of Jumaadal Awwal, 1445AH (Saturday, 9th December, 2023). *_MARRIED COUPLE ARGUING IN FRONT OF THEIR KIDS_*. BismilLah. Let's conclude on our topic today.  It was narrated that ‘Abdullah ibn ‘Abbaas said: The Messenger of ALLAH (blessings and peace of ALLAH be upon him) said: “Shall I not tell you about your wives among the people of Paradise: the one who is loving, fertile, and beneficial to her husband, who if she is upset or annoyed, she comes and takes her husband’s hand, then she says: ‘By ALLAH, I shall not sleep until you are pleased with me.” Narrated by an-Nasaa’i in as-Sunan al-Kubra (9094); classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in as-Saheehah (287). What is well-established in psychology, and what is known from experience, is that stubbornness and arguing with a husband who is not patient with lengthy discussions and arguments will only result in bad consequences for the marriage and will increase resentment between the spou

MARRIED COUPLE ARGUING IN FRONT OF THEIR KIDS

 THE DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDERS. Yawmul Jumuat. 24th day of Jumaadal Awwal, 1445AH (Friday, 8th December, 2023). *_MARRIED COUPLE ARGUING IN FRONT OF THEIR KIDS_*. BismilLah.  We are advised as married couples not to respond to criticism with more arguments and stubbornness from the other half because this will put more strain on the connection between you, which can easily break the marriage. Being more easygoing and diplomatic is something that is required from both parties. It is required from the husband, in the form of kindness, overlooking mistakes and showing compassion, and it is required from the religiously committed, smart and wise wife to put up with the annoyance of her husband, and not to be so harsh with him if he is harsh with her; rather you should be easy-going, as much as you can, avoid provoking his anger and not be confrontational. You should be as gentle as you can and be soft with him.  As the saying goes, beyond every successful married man is a good wife.  ALLAH b

THE STORY OF CALIPHATE UTHMAN (r.t.a) (Episode 51)

 ASSALAAMU ALAYKUM WARAHMATULLAH WABARAKAATUHU . LET'S START TONIGHT'S EDUCATION. OUR TOPIC IS 👇.                                                                            *THE STORY OF CALIPHATE UTHMAN (r.t.a) (Episode 51)*                                                           _______PAGE 1_______ Uthman gave his defense, but this did not make Ali change his views. On the other hand Uthman stuck to the view that he had done no wrong, and he had become a victim of false propaganda. The differences between Uthman and Ali pointed to the fact that something had gone wrong with the Muslim polity, and that the Muslims were no longer a united community. Such disruption in the ranks of the Muslims forebode some catastrophe. That set Uthman thinking, and in order to overcome the crisis Uthman decided to summon a council of his Governors. _______PAGE 2________ The Council of Governors met at Madina. Uthman apprised them of his concern at the virulent propaganda that was being carr

THE STORY OF CALIPHATE UTHMAN (r.t.a) (Episode 50)

 ASSALAAMU ALAYKUM WARAHMATULLAH WABARAKAATUHU . LET'S START TONIGHT'S EDUCATION. OUR TOPIC IS 👇.                                                                            *THE STORY OF CALIPHATE UTHMAN (r.t.a) (Episode 50)* _______PAGE 1_______ In a letter addressed to the people of Kufa, Uthman hoped that as he had acceded to their demand there would be no more trouble from their side. On assuming office as Governor Abu Musa Ashari warned the people to desist from their subversive activities. He said that he would not lead them in prayer until they had assured him of their loyalty to Uthman. The people assured him of their loyalty to Uthman and gave a solemn undertaking that they would maintain peace and would not indulge in any agitation. 'Aamir b Abdullah Tamimi was an eminent Muslim. He settled at Basra. _______PAGE 2_______ He was intensely religious, and would pray the whole night. Being too much absorbed in religious devotions, he was cut off from the world around

MARRIAGE ADVISE FOR WE THE BROTHERS IN PARTICULAR

 THE DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDERS. Yawm Al-Khamis. 23rd day of Jumaadal Awwal, 1445AH (Thursday, 7th December, 2023). *_MARRIAGE ADVISE FOR WE THE BROTHERS IN PARTICULAR_*. BismilLah.  AlhamdulilLah for granting us another blessed day of the week and I hope and pray that majority of us are fasting. May ALLAH accept it from us all. Aameen.  Just to remind  myself and you the reader that marriage is a trust from ALLAH. You first married her because you love her and she loves you. Be aware that Satan will strive to bring misunderstandings in the marriage because he is our enemy and also a trial from ALLAH. We all know that  marriage is an act of worship which then means we will face satanic influences and trials from ALLAH so let's not fail. Let's be firm and accept her mistakes as a test from ALLAH. Let's be patient with her for better moments and for worse moments. Never shout at her or touch her in anger, never speak against her parents etc bcs these are satanic tools to make he

THE STORY OF CALIPHATE UTHMAN (r.t.a) (Episode 49)

 ASSALAAMU ALAYKUM WARAHMATULLAH WABARAKAATUHU . LET'S START TONIGHT'S EDUCATION. OUR TOPIC IS 👇.                                                                            *THE STORY OF CALIPHATE UTHMAN (r.t.a) (Episode 49)* _______PAGE 1_______ The Muslims made several raids on the Byzantine coasts. The Byzantine capital itself was now threatened by a two pronged attack, one from the east via Syria and Asia Minor, and the other from the west via Spain and Europe. The foreign powers became nervous at the success of the Muslim arms under the leadership of Uthman, and now their only hope lay in aiding and patronizing subversive movements within the territories of Islam. Ibn Saba's movement began as a religious movement. It aimed at the subversion of Islam by creating doubts among the Muslims with regard to certain matters of their belief. _______PAGE 2_______ Ibn Saba's movement was patronized by the Jews, and had its links with foreign countries. With the triumph of th

EXCELLENCE and ETIQUETTES of SINCERE LOVE FOR THE SAKE of ALLAH

 THE DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDERS. Yawm Ath-thalaatha. 21st day of Jumaadal Awwal, 1445AH (Tuesday, 5th December, 2023). *_EXCELLENCE and ETIQUETTES of SINCERE LOVE FOR THE SAKE of ALLAH_*. Bismillah. Anas bin Malik (May ALLAH be pleased with him) reported: The Prophet (sallallaahu ’alayhi wa sallam) said, "There are three qualities whoever has them, will taste the sweetness of eemaan: To love ALLAH and HIS Messenger (sallallaahu ’alayhi wa sallam) more than anyone else; to love a slave (of ALLAH) only for (the sake of) ALLAH; and to abhor returning to infidelity after ALLAH has saved him from it as he would abhor to be thrown into the fire (of Hell)". [Al-Bukhari and Muslim]. In this Hadith, the love of ALLAH signiffies the sweetness of eeman. The love of ALLAH and HIS Prophet (sallallaahu ’alayhi wa sallam) is the cornerstone of the Faith. When it is said that this love should exceed one's love for everything else in the universe, it means that what is enjoined by ALLAH and