THE DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDERS. Yawm Al-Khamis. 23rd day of Jumaadal Awwal, 1445AH (Thursday, 7th December, 2023). *_MARRIAGE ADVISE FOR WE THE BROTHERS IN PARTICULAR_*. BismilLah.
AlhamdulilLah for granting us another blessed day of the week and I hope and pray that majority of us are fasting. May ALLAH accept it from us all. Aameen.
Just to remind myself and you the reader that marriage is a trust from ALLAH. You first married her because you love her and she loves you. Be aware that Satan will strive to bring misunderstandings in the marriage because he is our enemy and also a trial from ALLAH. We all know that marriage is an act of worship which then means we will face satanic influences and trials from ALLAH so let's not fail. Let's be firm and accept her mistakes as a test from ALLAH. Let's be patient with her for better moments and for worse moments. Never shout at her or touch her in anger, never speak against her parents etc bcs these are satanic tools to make her disrespect you.
Note that only ALLAH can grant children not by our efforts. ALLAH has created some women barren as HE clearly said in the Quran as such in case you are not getting a child from ALLAH, please accept it as a test not her fault or your fault. This is only an advice and I pray that ALLAH grant everyone pious children and grant us the means to cater for them. Lets strive to visit her parents with her much regular atleast once each month if possible and talk to them regularly to seek their dua and blessings. Get her to do the same to your parents. Don't call her by her name but sweet words like princess, sweetheart etc. Let's be patient in all matters and avoid being upset with little mistakes that arise from her part. She is only human and you must expect mistakes from her. Seek her advise in all you intend doing. Never do things as you wish bcs you are the husband. ALLAH love those who are submissive. Take her as your sister not only a wife. Aim to please ALLAH in all you do. Ensure she is happy all the time bcs her happiness creates lots of blessings in the marriage. Call her regularly when you are away from home or chat with her. Make her the most beautiful sister you have. Don't chat or talk to any lady in front of her or whilst at home in particular. Have time for her all the time at home. Help her during cooking, washing, cleaning etc. These are all sunnah of the prophet who helped his wives in such ways. Always bath with her, eat with her and go out with her whenever possible. That's the little advice I have for you all this Thursday morning. You can ask any questions in regards to marriage and will do my best in shaa ALLAH.
*_May ALLAH keep guiding us all and protect us and our marriages and offspring from any satanic influences_*. Aameen.
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