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Ettiquettes of life

*Ettiquettes of life*
📌 Qualities Allah loves & dislikes

After learning the Beautiful Names and details of Allah and His Rights, it should be a part of the Etiquettes of a Muslim to do things that Allah Love & stay away from things that Allah dislikes.

*_THE QUALITIES THAT ALLAH LOVE_*
 The note look a bit lengthy, because it contains ayah and Hadith so in sha Allah it would be a good read 🌺

🦋  *Tawbah (Repentance)*

"For Allah loves those who turn to Him constantly (in repentance)" (Surah Al Baqarah 2:222)
Repentance is a form of detoxification – Sincere repentance cleanses and beautifies the Iman (faith).

We all commit sins but Allah loves those who after committing sins, seek forgiveness with deep sorrow and regret.

🦋 *Taharah*  (Purification)*

"Allah loves those who keep themselves pure and clean." (Surah Al Baqarah 2:222)

This is the external purification. The secret to this is performing the acts with the intention of following the example of the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him).

The removal of filth from the body by performing wudhu (ablution) and ghusl (ritual bath) and removal of filth from the garment, body and place of prayer. They are acts that purify the body and radiate the Iman. It is a means by which Almighty Allah will wipe out our sins and raise our ranks.

🦋 *Taqwa (Piety)*

"for Allah loveth the righteous (the pious)." (Surah Al Tawbah 9:4)
The fear of Allah is the source of a pure soul – it is borne out of love and obedience. Thus, a pious person is constantly driven to do good only.

He/She is humble and does not flaunt piety in front of others. The fear of Allah beautifies the Iman and is the origin of all good as one continues to strive to do only what pleases Allah and stay away from the things that would displease him.

🦋 *Ihsan (Goodness & Perfection)*

"for Allah loves those who do good..." (Surah Ali 'Imran 3:134)

 Prophet Muhammad(pbuh) says,
"Ihsan is to worship Allah as if you see Him, and if you cannot achieve this state of devotion then you must consider that He is looking at you." (Sahih Bukhari, Book #2, Hadith #47)

🦋 *Tawakkul (Trust in Allah)*

"For Allah loves those who put their trust (in Him)." (Surah Ali 'Imran 3:159)

The secret and reality of trust in Allah is the reliance of the heart on Allah alone. Therefore trusting in Allah by word of mouth is different from trusting in Him by the heart.

Reliance is doing and hoping; doing everything necessary within one's capability to achieve one's aim and hoping with tranquility of heart and soul and putting one's trust in Allah with firm belief that whatever the outcome might be, it is as a result of the Will of Allah and His Decree.

One should never feel that too much time has passed by without supplications being answered; rather we should always place our hope on the One who is able to do all things. Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him ) says, "If you all depend on Allah, with due reliance, He would certainly give you provision as He gives to birds who go forth hungry in the morning and return with full bellies at dusk. (At - Tirmidhi)

🦋 *Qist (Justice)*

"for Allah loveth those who judge in equity." (Surah Al Ma'idah 5:42)

"for Allah loves those who are fair (and just)." (Surah Al Hujurat 49:9)

Justice is a prerequisite to peace which is missing in our contemporary society. It involves giving other people the right we give ourselves, treating people the way we would like to be treated.
Justice sounds like a word meant for the leaders alone but rather it affects us all.
It means:

- To be equitable in speech and in actions.

- With no degree of discrimination or false testimony.

- It involves being fair with regards to one's family and those who are in our custody.

- Justice between children by not giving one preference over the other.

- By not committing wrong against oneself such as engaging in sinful practices and immoral acts.

- Justice with Allah in not associating any being with Him in worship and obedience.

🦋 *Sabr (Patience)*

"And Allah Loves those who are firm and steadfast (As-Sabirin (the patient))." (Surah Ali 'Imran 3:146)

Patience is one of the most noble of virtues and traits. It is to endure what one dislikes with a sense of acceptance and submission and anticipating Allah's reward.

Ali (may Allah be pleased with him) said: "patience to Iman is like the head to a body: if the head is cut off, the body perishes as well." (Gems and jewels – wise sayings, interesting events & moral lessons from the Islamic history, compiled by Abdul-Malik Mujahid (Darussalam))

Muslims should adhere to patience when afflicted with calamity and should not yield either to desperation nor despondence because if we are patient, everything that was destined and preordained for us will occur and we will be rewarded. If we complain and are hopeless, then all that was destined for us will still occur, but we will be blamed for our impatience at Allah's Will.

🦋 *Kindness*

Ayesha (RA) narrated: The Messenger of Allah (SAW ) said: “Allah loves kindness in all matters.”(Bukhari)

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🦋 *Humility of the Rich*

Sa’d Ibn Abi Waqqas (RA) said: Allah’s Messenger (SAW ) said: “Allah loves the believer who is pious and rich, but does not show off.” (Muslim)

🦋 *Belief and Work*

Al-Tabarâni narrated: Allah’s Messenger (SAW ) said: “Allah loves the slave who believes and acquires a career (or work).”

🦋 *A sense of Honour*

Al-Tirmidhi narrated: Allah’s Messenger (SAW ) said: “Allah loves from amongst his slaves, the one who has a sense of zeal or honour.”

🦋 *Magnanimity*

Al-Hakim narrated: The Messenger of Allah (SAW ) said: “Allah is All-Generous and He loves generosity in sale, purchase and judgment.”

🦋 *Virtuosity*

The Messenger of Allah (SAW)said: “Allah loves the believer who is poor but virtuous enough to refrain from begging though he has many children.” (Muslim and Ahmed)

🦋 *Strength*

Allah’s Messenger (SAW ) said: “The strong believer is better and more loved by Allah than the weak one, but they are both good.” (Muslim)

So we should try and stay fit for the Sake of Allah and encourage our children for sports more than playstation.


🦋 *Love for the Sake of Allah*

Al-Tabarâni, Ibn Ya’lâ, Ibn Hibban and Al-Hakim narrated: Allah’s Messenger (SAW ) said: “If two individuals love each other for the sake of Allah, the stronger in love to his brother will be more loved by Allah.”


🦋 *Continuous Performance of Righteous Deeds*

Allah’s Messenger (SAW) said: “The best loved deeds to Allah are the ones that are continuous even if they are not very many.” (Bukhari and Muslim)



🦋 *Good Manners and Conduct*

Al-Tirmidhi narrated: Allah’s Messenger (SAW) said: “The best loved by me and the nearest to me on the seats on the Day of Resurrection are those who have the best manners and conduct amongst you, who are intimate, are on good terms with others and are humble, and the most hated by me and who will be on the furthest seats from me are those who are talkative and arrogant.”


🦋 *Dua*

Allaah loves to be asked, and He encourages that in all things. He is angry with the one who does not ask of Him and He encourages His slaves to ask of Him. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):

“And your Lord said: “Invoke Me [i.e. believe in My Oneness (Islamic Monotheism) and ask Me for anything] I will respond to your (invocation)” [Ghaafir 40:60]

Du’aa’ is very important in Islam, so much so that the Prophet (pbuh) said :Duaa is worship (Narrated by al-Tirmidhi3372)

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