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ANGER MANAGEMENT WHILST FASTING

 THE DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDERS. Yawmul Ahad. 14th day of Ramadhan, 1445AH (Sunday 24th March 2024).

*_ANGER MANAGEMENT WHILST FASTING_*.

BismilLah. 


Once, a young man approached the Prophet (sallallahu alaihi wasallah) and asked him for some advice. The Prophet replied, “Do not become angry,” and he repeated this three times. On another occasion, the Prophet asked his companions, “Do you know who the strong person is?” His companions replied, “The one who is able to wrestle others down.” The Prophet responded, “No, it is the one who is able to control their anger. There are so many wisdoms from the Prophet specifically advising against anger, all reflecting the Qur’anic description of the righteous as those who “hold in check their anger” (3:134). 


This advice is much needed. Indeed, some of the worst actions committed by human beings, from killing to domestic abuse, especially in marriages, are, at least partly, a result of anger. Lots of marriages have collapsed/ collapsed because of anger. Any form of abuse in marriage by any of the couple is strictly forbidden in Islam and leads to divorce in many cases. 


This month is the right time to fight out the evil of anger from our ways of life. May ALLAH protect our marriages from any satanic influences and repair any broken marriages only if it will be beneficial to both couples. Aameen. JazaakumulLaahu for your support for the Ramadhan Sadaqah, which is ongoing successfully AlhamdulilLah. 


*_May ALLAH aid us through our little efforts to please HIM and accept our little efforts_*. Aameen.

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