Most Precious Gift* [[---Final Episode---]]

 *Most Precious Gift*

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بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

It is incorrect to believe that one has been humiliated by being granted a girl; rather it is an honour, a bounty and a gate towards Paradise.

How many girls have been far more merciful and beneficial to their parents than their brothers? How many times has a son been a source of grief for his parents, to the point that they wished he was never born?

It is enough of an honour for girls that the Prophets, may Allah exalt their mention, had daughters and that most of the children of our beloved Prophet  were daughters, namely: Zaynab, Ruqayyah, Umm Kalthoom and Fatimah.

Therefore,

Children are no doubt a great gift from Almighty Allah to all parents.. And parents must think of their children as such treasures that all the wealth and material resources are worthless as when compared to one’s children.. Yes.. We, as parents, should thank and be grateful to Almighty Allah for blessing us with children whether they are boys or girls.

*Few More Virtues of Daughters to Parents & Guardians:*

1️⃣ Anas (RA) reported that the prophet (PBUH) said:

“Whoever brings up two girls till they reach the age of puberty, he and I will come on the Day of Resurrection like this,” (and the prophet joined his blessed ✌️ fingers.). 📚 Authentic

2️⃣ The beloved Prophet (PBUH) has stated that:

“When a boy is born, then he brings one Noor (light) and when a girl is born, then she brings two Noors (light).” 📚 Authentic

3️⃣ It has been narrated in a Hadeeth that the Holy Prophet (PBUH) has stated that:

“If parents are kind and generous towards their daughters, then they will be so close to Him (The Holy Prophet Peace and Blessings of Allah be Upon Him) in Jannah, like one finger is to the next ✌️.” 📚 Authentic

4️⃣ Ibn ‘Abbas reported that the prophet (PBUH) said:

"...and whoever brings up three daughters or a like number of sisters, training them well and showing kindness to them till Allah enriches them (i.e. till they reach the age of puberty), Allah will guarantee Paradise for him.” A man asked: “O Messenger of Allah! Does this apply to two also?” He said: “even to two.” If they had asked whether to one also, the Messenger of Allah would have said that, “even to one…” 📚 Authentic

*Parents, especially mothers:*

It's not "Love" to be inside kitchen or do housework by ourselves while our female children sit to watch TV or chat with friends on social media. Yes. Many mothers today do cheat themselves and cheat their female children by over-pampering them with so-called "love".

These types of female children will grow to adulthood and become COMPLETE TROUBLE to their husbands and children. Yes, because any female child who get married without getting used to cooking, cleaning of house, washing of clothes and the likes,....🙆🏻‍♀️. Even her husband will not respect you as a good in-law, because you have failed in your responsibility.

Therefore, give them the training and NO man will insult you as a parent and insult them as a wife in regard to cooking, cleaning of house, and her children duties.


سبحانك اللهم وبحمدك نشهد ان لا اله الا انت نستغفرك ونتوابوااليك