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KIND TREATMENT OF OUR WIVES IS OBLIGATORY

THE DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDERS. Yaum As-Sabt, 19th day of Shawwaal (Saturday 22nd June, 2019).
*_KIND TREATMENT OF OUR WIVES IS OBLIGATORY_*. *Bismillah*

ALLAH ordered believers not to treat their wives harshly and live with them honourably. If you dislike them for some reasons, it may be that you dislike something and ALLAH brings through her a great deal of good"(Quran 4:19) and ALLAH says again: "And among HIS signs are that: He created for us wives from among ourselves that we might find rest in our wives, and HE ordained between us love and mercy. Verily, in that are indeed signs for people who reflect" (30:21). Thus wise men. Let's note that women are a blessings for us and a trust for us from ALLAH. Treating our wives with kindness is an obligation and must be taking care of for ALLAH sake.

Our wives are not slave girls and even during times of slavery, ALLAH commanded Muslims to treat them with dignity, marry them, treat them like we will do to non slave wives, free them etc. Let's note that our little mistakes can cause our wives to be disobedience to us and that's natural, *you reap what you sow* as elders says. Accept some sort of responsibilities for their disobedience to you and change your ways to get the best out of them and ALLAH will bless you for your efforts, patience on them and treating them kindly.

*_May ALLAH aid us to cater and handle our wives with dignity_*. Aameen.

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