Let's Change Our Mindsets About Marriage* *Episode 115* *SPECIAL PIECES OF ADVICE FOR MY SISTERS IN ISLAM

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*Let's Change Our Mindsets About Marriage*

*Episode 115*

*SPECIAL PIECES OF ADVICE FOR MY SISTERS IN ISLAM*

Money, Status, Fame, Job, Looks, Perfect body will not guarantee you a happy marriage but rather his or her Deen, because that is what get you through life's ups and downs and will eventually lead you both to Jannah!

Balance of both needed but don't sell your Akhirah for the Dunya.

O!Muslims brothers. Please do not enter a woman's life to explore her, her heart, her character and so on.. If you have no good intention about her Stay away! She's not even for rent. Shame on such men who plays with the piety & chastity of the muslimah You are Protectors of your sisters in islam not the destroyer of their Eamaan. Allaah is watching you.

O'Allaah, Make marriage easy and grant the suitable spouses to those in need.

Dear Single Muslimah (Sisters), Ten (10) Recommends #Naseehah(Advice)/#Tips Before Saying Yes To A Man.

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1. Never fail to pray before saying yes to a man... Don’t be in a hurry to get married... (Istikhara will do)... If you rush in, you may rush out with a lot of injuries.

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2. Discover Your Purpose before marriage... Learn a trade. If possible and worry not if none... Don’t wait for a man before you start living... Add value to yourself and leave a good life.

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3. Don’t run after a man because of his money, cars connection, position, talent, or family background. #Marry a man on the basis of his taqwa or righteousness not leaving out his Love for you.

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4. Develop a healthy eating habit... You can reduce your flatness through exercise. It takes discipline to do that.

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5. Dress well: First Impression counts. Don’t expose any of your body, private part for men to see otherwise you might only attract a player not a responsible

man.

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6. Don’t beg or force a man to marry you. You are too precious to do that. And don’t try to hook and keep a guy with sex or unwanted pregnancy. Many ladies who do that end up in shame

and regrets.

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7. Your character is your marriage... It makes a man want to spend the rest of his life with you. So Work on your character. Beauty is not everything. If it is all you have, you’ll lose your place to someone more beautiful and more matured than you.

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8. Never fail to learn how to cook good food. Men usually love a woman who feed them with good food because one of the easiest way to a man’s heart is through his stomach.

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9. Never fail to read books about marriage and family before your #Nikaah... The marriage you don’t prepare for will confuse you when you get there.

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10. Never fail To rely on Allaah (Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala) before Marriage... A Marriage Without Allaah Is Bound To

Experience Marital Crisis.

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May Allaah grant us a righteous spouse who will be the coolness of our eyes and may He keep guiding us all always to the straight path. Ameen

*{To be continued In-sha-Allāh (If Allāh Wills)...}*

*"And keep reminding, because reminding benefits the believers."* (Qur-ān 51:55)