Let's Change Our Mindsets About Marriage* *Episode 125* *NEVER ALLOW LOVE DESTROY YOU

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*Let's Change Our Mindsets About Marriage*

*Episode 125*

*NEVER ALLOW LOVE DESTROY YOU*

This is a Repeat of the POST, it can always help many in distress.

Sermon on Liberty Radio by Mallam Nuhu Tahir 

Nuhu Tahir, is one Scholar I so much admire and willing to listen to if possible 24 hours non-stop. His sermon today is on the need for spouses to stop being unnecessarily suspicious and one story he narrated touched my heart and I wondered why should women allow the men have their ways all the time.

He talked about a lady who suddenly developed high Blood Pressure (BP) and eventually led to stroke few weeks ago (last year) because her husband took another wife. 

For God sake, when will women stop being at the receiving end, when would the women understand that life continues without them, when would the women get to know that it is better to live for their kids than becoming a vegetable or die for the sake of the men, and why not always have it at the back of their minds that men are always full of surprises?

Some of this happens because we have women who still believed their husbands are just meant for them and nobody or woman can take them away, my sisters, daughters, this assumption is just a complete illusion, a big fat lie and dream that most times hardly come true. A man is yours when he has got no reason to look out, and the reason(s) could be genuine or flimsy but of course to the man, whatever reason(s) is/are genuine and he does not mind if he is about to hurt you or not, all he wants as at that time is self fulfillment and satisfaction. 

Women must learn and understand the minds of the men to avoid been sent to their grave or long dragging ailments that makes you almost useless to yourself and the family.

When you die, your children becomes orphans with nobody that can ever stand for them like you, for the man you are gone and as far as he is concern he only loss the mother of his kids but he has more women to give him that thing you have gone with.

My advise to all women out there, even if your husband promised that you will remain the only woman in his life, the only mosquito in his net, the apple of his eyes,  just listen and drop the thought off your mind set immediately, it is all story of fresh love, 99.9% of men never or hardly keep to that promise. Don't be foolish to take him 100% by his words, those word changes immediately there is a change in you or in him that can tune his mind away. 

"My Husband Cannot" am sorry sisters with this phrase because, Your Husband 'Can' if he gets to what and where will make him 'CAN.'

 In conclusion of his sermon, Mal. Nuhu Tahir advised that men holds the main solution to most of the problems and should do what is right to avoid the rate of divorce which has become like Pure Water.

May Allāh help all loving wives and protect their marriages.

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*{To be continued In-sha-Allāh (If Allāh Wills)...}*

*"And keep reminding, because reminding benefits the believers."* (Qur-ān 51:55)