Let's Change Our Mindsets About Marriage* *Episode 124* *LOVEAHOLIC

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*Let's Change Our Mindsets About Marriage*

*Episode 124*

*LOVEAHOLIC*

Dear Brothers,

Please do not put too much pressure on your wives because they are in Polygyny. Do not make any of them feel insecure  .

Do not compare and contrast..... It has effect on their psyche. Deal with each according to their personality. 

Correct lovingly, guide gently,  let each know your expectations of her without reffering to the other. 

Do not make them compete for your love and attention. 

It is some of these pressure that is pushing some of them out of the boundary of Islam. 

It is in a bid to win the "competition " that some of them are staking their akhira. 

It is because of injustice that some of them have become a woman they themself hardly recognize .

You should not just be concerned about how they are serving you, but most importantly how they are serving their Lord. The one to whom they will return. 

In an attempt to be the favorite wife, some sisters are already crossing the boundaries. 

Show up as a sincere and God fearing man and they will show up as same. 

Give love and attention freely and it will come back to you in manifolds.

"is there any reward for good other than good? ""

Its hard enough sharing a man.... Don't make it harder with comparison.

*{To be continued In-sha-Allāh (If Allāh Wills)...}*

*"And keep reminding, because reminding benefits the believers."* (Qur-ān 51:55)