Let's Change Our Mindsets About Marriage* *Episode 121* *VIRGINITY IN ISLAM

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*Let's Change Our Mindsets About Marriage*

*Episode 121*

*VIRGINITY IN ISLAM*

No doubt a virgin woman is better than a non-virgin when it comes to marriage. Nevertheless, not all non-virgins are bad. Some were victims of circumstance. So before you make a conclusion on not marrying her, give her a listening ear and allow her to explain. Or when you intimate on your first night and see that she is not virgin, dont rush to conclusion. 

Here is why:

There are different types of women islamically and scientifically:

1- A woman whose hymen is intact. When you sleep with her on your first night, you see drops of blood coming out of her private area. That means she was a virgin before you touched her. 

2-A woman whose virginity is broken right from childhood. Some girls due to the nature of activities they carried out when they were little (such as running, sports, horse riding), they gradually  lose their virginity. By the time they become full adults, their hymen is already broken. So when you intimate them they feel the pain but you wont see any blood. Yet, they were never touched by a man.

3- A woman whose hymen is sealed and intact. Yet when you intimate her, her hymen is broken, but blood does not come out. Yet, she is a virgin. Bcos naturally she does not shade blood when losing her hymen.

4- A woman who was sexually abused when she was little. There are many of us who got molested or abused as kids. So they are definitely not virgins. But you cant blame them. 

5- Finally, women who misused their gift. They intentionally or unintentionally broke it. Before they get married, they try to fix it, and wallahi it gets fixed as if they were virgin. And you still see blood. Yet they are not virgins. 

The above facts came in many islamic books and scholars have agreed upon their existence.

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*{To be continued In-sha-Allāh (If Allāh Wills)...}*

*"And keep reminding, because reminding benefits the believers."* (Qur-ān 51:55)