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 *Most Wisest First Lady*

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بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

Bcos women (wives) have the ability & capability to turn around every activities in her home to make life meaningful for the family members, people call them names like - First Lady, a homemaker, a stay-at-home-mom etc, but this does not make her *"The Senate President of The Family"* - yes. This rank is for the husband and he should be allowed to act like one 

"A woman asked the Prophet (saw): 👉🏻 'What is the duty of a woman with regard to her husband?' The Prophet (saw) replied: 👉🏻 'She must obey him and must not violate his orders'." 

Madam First Lady!

Every institution, factory and organization needs a responsible manager. Yes. In any sociological unit and organization, cooperation between the staff is important.. However, running the affairs of such a unit needs a manager who can coordinate the duties. And one of the very important social units is the 'family'.

Undoubtedly,

There must be a deep understanding, and cooperation among the members of a family, but there must also be a manager who can act as Senate President with regard to the family matters. Needless to say, if a family does not enjoy a person who can organize others, it would suffer from disorder and chaos.

However,

Since the logical aspect of men is dominant over their emotional aspect, they can be better managers. This is why Almighty Allah states in the Holy Qur'an: 

الرِّجَالُ قَوَّامُونَ عَلَى النِّسَاءِ بِمَا فَضَّلَ اللَّهُ بَعْضَهُمْ عَلَىٰ بَعْضٍ وَبِمَا أَنْفَقُوا مِنْ أَمْوَالِهِمْ ۚ فَالصَّالِحَاتُ قَانِتَاتٌ

"Men are the maintainers of women because Allah has made some of them to excel others and because they spend out of their money; the good women are therefore obedient..." 📚(Q4:34)

Now,

Reflecting on the above Quran verse, it is in the interest of the members of a family to regard the man as their guardian and the one in charge, and to seek his supervision in their deeds.

However, one should not conclude that the status of a woman in the house is belittled.. NO❗ but it is a fact that maintaining the order and discipline in the house requires the management of the husband. Yes. Women, who can think without being biased, would confirm this act.

Naam,

It is true that, the everyday preoccupations of life do not allow man to participate in all the family affairs and that, in practice the First Lady (ie - the wife) runs almost all the house according to her desires, but nevertheless, the rank of family Senate President remains with the man. And as such he should be respected.

For these reasons,

Madam❗Accept the authority of your husband. Seek his supervision in your household affairs. Do not violate his orders. Do not resist or oppose his participation in the household and family matters. Do not reject his participation even in those matters that you have more expertise. Do not practically make him powerless. Let him participate in your work occasionally... Teach your children to respect his authority, and ask them to get permission from their father in their affairs. Your children must learn not to violate his orders from an early age. This way your children will be brought up as obedient to their parents.

Madam❗Bcos you are supporting your husband financially in house-keeping activities, does not give you license to under-rate him, let alone talking about trying to over-throw his government by acting as Senate President of the family directly or indirectly. Yes. You maybe earning morethan he is earning, but he is still the boss OR have u forgotten the prophet's first wife Nana Khadeejah and the support she gave to her husband with her wealth? Does that make her to disobey her husband in any way?

TO BE CONTINUED.....

Allah alone knows best

سبحانك اللهم وبحمدك نشهد ان لا اله الا انت نستغفرك ونتوابوااليك

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