The Senate President* [[----------1️⃣8️⃣----------]]

 *The Senate President*

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بسم الله الر حمان الر حيم

*Telephone & Mobile Phone issues:*

Your wife also needs some privacy. Yes. If you want to live a long life free of hypertension, please remove your eyes🙄 from your wife's phone. Yes. The husband has no right to enquire into his wife’s private matters or her correspondence or phone conversations with her female friends, so long as everything is normal, and there is no cause for doubt or suspicion.

Mr Senate President!

Even loving partners need space.. Yes.. We may always want to share every experience, BUT not everything has to be shared,, and not all that is mine is yours😀. We need to protect some certain level of privacy, a domain that is mine and mine alone. Yes. Every couple should try to create a balance between intimacy and privacy that is right for them.

 *Sharing passwords is not a sign of love but what opens door for negative assumptions/suspicion:* 

♻Qur'an: Al-Hujuraat (49:12)

يَٰٓأَيُّهَا ٱلَّذِينَ ءَامَنُوا۟ ٱجْتَنِبُوا۟ كَثِيرًا مِّنَ ٱلظَّنِّ إِنَّ بَعْضَ ٱلظَّنِّ إِثْمٌ ۖ وَلَا تَجَسَّسُوا۟...... 

O you who have believed, avoid much [negative] assumption/suspicion. Indeed, some assumption/suspicion is sin.. And do not spy..."

Oga Senate President!

Snooping through your wife's phone, will give you nothing other than mistrust and fraustration. Yes. Even if you snoop, your partner could have a hidden contacts and messages which you can not see. Yes. Doing that will not give you any satisfaction or awareness, as there are ways to hide  chats/messages/contacts. Yes. You can see a *woman* saving a *man's phone number* in her phone with *woman's name.*  If this is possible, then why would you worry urself over *strict-close-marking* your wife's phone activities❓Snooping on your partner will not save your relationship either. Rather, a wise spouse should use the technology to enhance their love for each other. 

As far as *i'm concerned,* We are separate individuals,, therefore our phones are private, and I don’t think partners should be snooping on each other’s phone. Yes. There has to be some space between you and your partner, no matter what. And this, *I believe, should be respected* by the *wise* majority.

Now,

*Few reasons why women should be left to enjoy privacy when it comes to the issue of mobile phone:*

1. Maybe your wife might have used her phone to begged one of her uncles to give her money, which she used to support the family, but bcos, you are either - not in good time with the particular uncle or you are the type of men who doesn't welcome financial help from ur In-laws, she may not like that you see the SMS or chats or alert she received from the uncle

2. She might have used some money from her salary to help one of her relatives secretly. And if you get to know about the transaction through her phone, you will be annoyed with her.

3.Wrong-Number-Wahala:- Sometimes,  a number from a stranger man,, may be disturbing your wife with calls, and the person may think, he was given the correct number of someone he knew. So, he may persist calling for days or even weeks.. In situation like this,, a wise loving man believe  the explanation given by his wife.

4. etc etc etc.

To the Madam of the house!

1. Men love those who can keep secrets and maybe, u are not one them.

2. Your Oga may not like that,, you see his credit salary alert😀, bcos you are not an economical and wise in spending if u get to know what he receives as monthly salary. You might not even allow him to save for the rainy day or future projects like building his own personal house etc.

3. Sometimes, men borrow money to solve some family problems, which ordinarily, if they should consult their wife b4 going for the money,, she won't approve of it.

4. etc etc etc.

All these informations are stored in the phone

*Where do one spy or suspect his/her spouse's phone activities:*

If your wife keep rejecting incoming calls when you are around her without giving satisfied reasons for doing that OR pick her calls but run away 🏃 from your reach to answer the calls without satisfied reasons.. Or she she goes out of house anytime at will and return anytime at will without your permission.. Or you caught her several times receiving calls or chatting with a strange man... etc etc

If your husband is caught several times on calls or chatting with a strange ladies or women he is not *sincerely* planning to marry legally..  

It's not possible to say everything here.. Few example should just serve as a pointer to all we are trying to say that - husbands should remove their eyes from *what comes in or goes out* of their wife's phone and vice versa.. Except if there's is a need to spy or suspect.

Madam❗

If you are unwise to an extent that you made your hubby lose trust and confident in you, your own is not only finished completely but completely finished😀. Yes. Try to be honest with him all the time. Tell him the truth all the time. Let him trust you so much that even if you tell him a lie, he should tell people with confident that you are right.

TO BE CONTINUED....

Allah alone knows best

سبحانك اللهم وبحمدك نشهد ان لا اله الا انت نستغفرك ونتوابوااليك

Share for Allah's sake