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 *Most Wisest First Lady*

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بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

A Woman, whatever name she calls herself - First Lady, The Princess, a homemaker, a stay-at-home-mom etc, being a housewife is a full-time job. In fact, amongst the duties of a good wife is to run or manage everybody & activities of the family members:~ children and the entire members of the family, especially the Senate President *(ie - the husband)*.

And,

To explain how dedicated a wife should be towards making her husband happy, 👉 The Prophet (saw) said: “Were i to order anyone to prostrate himself before anyone else, i would have ordered the woman to prostrate herself before her husband.” 📚 Authentic hadeeth

This is why i wish to start addressing issues and responsibilities a good wife should take very serious regarding her husband. 

One of these responsibilities is - *"Turning the house into home"*. and this is necessary because, for every woman to be a successful wife, she should win over her husband's heart ❤ and be a source of comfort to him by turning her house into a home.

Madam First Lady!

The burdens of life weigh heavily upon the shoulders of men since they are responsible for maintaining and supporting their families.. In fulfilling this responsibility, the man of the household must confront many problems and obstacles outside of the home.. It is no wonder that the average lifespan of a man is less than that of the woman.

Naam,

In order for the human being to be able to cope with the burdens of life, it is necessary to have someone to listen to and sympathize with him, and your husband is no exception.. It is natural that the man looks towards his wife and family as a source of comfort and relief.. Try not to overwhelm him by criticizing him the minute you see him. 

Madam First Lady!

Number of children u have should not be used as an excuse to abandon ur husband if he return home. Yes.

When your husband comes home, endeavor to drop everything u are doing, give him attention, start by forwarding some romantic smiles 😊 to him and a warm greeting😳. Yes. Drop ur ego. Give him more than he deserve interms of what will make him happy.. It is suprising that if some women have visitors, they greet him/her many times in a day, but if it comes to the Oga of the house, who deserve more....🙆‍♀️. What is good for Mr A is also good for Mr B 😀.

At times of difficulty, your husband is in need of your attention and love.. You should come to his aid and nurse him like a sympathetic psychiatrist and wife. He would be able to draw strength from your devotions to him and cope with his problems which will relieve his emotional and mental pressures.

👉 Allah (swt) say:

وَمِنْ ءَايَٰتِهِۦٓ أَنْ خَلَقَ لَكُم مِّنْ أَنفُسِكُمْ أَزْوَٰجًا لِّتَسْكُنُوٓا۟ إِلَيْهَا وَجَعَلَ بَيْنَكُم مَّوَدَّةً وَرَحْمَةًۚ إِنَّ فِى ذَٰلِكَ لَءَايَٰتٍ لِّقَوْمٍ يَتَفَكَّرُونَ 

And of His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquillity in them; and He placed between you affection and mercy. Indeed in that are signs for a people who give thought. 📚Ar-Rum 30:21

Madam First Lady!

Even if he is worried about things needed in the family, please tell him,, even by PRETENCE that, they are nothing to u, and he should not worry about that.. Consequently, the mutual bond of respect and love would also be greater which can only lead towards strengthening your marital relationship

TO BE CONTINUED.....

Allah alone knows best.

سبحانك اللهم وبحمدك نشهد ان لا اله الا انت نستغفرك ونتوابوااليك

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