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Bedtime Stories: inspired by real events Episode 19: Incest in our Family

 Bedtime Stories: inspired by real events 

Episode 19: Incest in our Family

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⚘ I feel very ashamed to share this story. I am indirectly exposing my family. But I have to, because many people fall victim to this circumstance. Sadly, not many can talk about it. I need to talk about it. 


⚘ First of all, I m Bee, that's how my siblings and friends call me. I grew up in a very conservative Muslim family. Our father is Ahlus sunnah. A very strict man with knowledge and intellect. In our home, we have 6 siblings, 4 girls, and 2 boys. The girls are aged 13, 18, 26, 33 and the boys are 21 and 27 respectively. Our father has 2 wives. Each one of them has kids. 


⚘ We grew up to learn to live with every rule our father made. Such as boys not playing with girls and vice versa, boys cannot sit on the same chair where girls were sitting. We didn't like these rules but we learned to adapt them over time. Most importantly, all females including our mothers wear Hijab at home. Whether there is a visitor or not. Everyone is conscious of their dressing and other private stuff. We don't talk about our menses or sexuality with our parents. It is made haram by other father. 


⚘ Astaghfirullah each time our father travel, we felt very free. We wore shorts, skirts and revealing clothes. We didn't care much to cover in front of our other male siblings. As soon as he returned, life goes back to its original place. One day our grandmother came and saw how we were overprotected by our father. She scolded him and told him to let us live freely at home. So our father had to reduce the level of strictness. 


⚘ However, gradually, we started to adopt some bad habits, such as entering the males' rooms and vice versa. We started to dress carelessly. We stopped observing those limits. Our father was not very happy about it. But he couldn't go against his mum, so he let go of his strictness. 


⚘ Soon, however, we became free to watch erotic movies together. That opened door to nuisance and nonsensical talks. Our mothers cared less; especially when our father was at the office. Alhamdulillah all of us, the ladies, were grown-ups and we are blessed with attractive bodies 🧐 and anyone who comes in and out could notice how our Boobs have developed. 


⚘ We didn't care about whether someone would see us or get attracted. We had this belief that siblings are not sexually inclined to one another. We thought even if we go naked in the house nothing will happen to our male siblings. Unfortunately, we were wrong. They (our siblings) watch every move we made, every dress we wore, even the bras we wore. Hmm! one day I caught my immediate brother smelling my panties (underwear) outside the laundry area. I couldn't get hold of what he was doing until later. 


⚘ One day, our sister and brother were not picked from school on time. So they were left alone in school. They were lonely and helpless. Shaitan got the better of them and pushed them to get naked and started doing stuff. Surprisingly a nanny passed by and saw them. She quickly reported and they were sent home and reported, then suspended.


⚘ When our father was told, he swore by Allah that it was impossible. Both my siblings were severely beaten. So they confessed everything. That day wasn't the first. They had intercourse many times at home, at madrasa, etc. When asked why, the brother said, it was Shaitan, as he always sees her chest and movement of her nipples on her upper garment. So he lost his patience. I surprisingly said to our mother, I thought blood relatives don't think about stuff like this. My mum said, even I thought so too.


⚘ That evening we all got separated. New rules were set. It got stricter. One day I decided to share what happened with my husband. To my surprise he said, we all feel that inclination, only that we fight it Internally. Men are not robots or wood trees, they are humans, most especially teenagers. Hence, do not for once, think we (men) don't get enticed by our sister's body. We do, only that we control ourselves.


**Note**

Dear parents and sisters, watch over yourselves. Dressing modestly at home is the best. If you wish to go naked, do that at your husband's house, no problem. At home we are not alone, some of us are in the midst of uncles, cousins, brothers, and so on. We hear stories about fathers sleeping with their daughters, brothers too, uncles too, housemaids, and so on. I think the way we dress at home plays a very important role in how others react.


May Allah protect us from having this experience again. Amin.


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