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WHO IS YOUR FRIEND AND HOW DOES HE OR SHE INFLUENCE YOU POSITIVELY TOWARDS ALLAH

 THE DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDERS. Yaumul Jumuat. 20th day of Dhul-Qa'adah, 1444AH (Friday, 9th June, 2023).

*_WHO IS YOUR FRIEND AND HOW DOES HE OR SHE INFLUENCE YOU POSITIVELY TOWARDS ALLAH_*. *Bismillah.


I'm sure most of us has noticed that whenever you are with well mannered and mature people who fear Allah, automatically your manners become greater, and you become closer to their level of faith and maturity. However, when you are with people who are still immature and don't have the best of manners and faith, your manners, faith and level of maturity also drops without you actually realizing it. 


The way it works is amazing. Your friends will influence you in a dramatic way whether you like it or not. It’s not a hypothesis, nor is it a theory; it’s a law or fact. Let's be careful with whom we go out with, who you chat with, and who you gift your companionship to. 


Because whether they are good people or not, they will always gift you back some of their manners. If you agree with me then please  take an inventory of your friends, List them down, and ask yourself, who among them is helpful *_emaaniously_*!. Don't be caught off guard please, Friends do influence us. Consciously or unconsciously. Can you mention to yourself who your real true friend is?  It's hard sometimes to accept the bitter truth but it's the best way to succeed. Please remember today is Friday as such we should strive and prepare well for it. 


*_May ALLAH make us and surround us with friends who remind us of HIM_*. Aameen

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