Today's Husbands* [[--Third Show--]]

 *Today's Husbands*

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بسم الله الرحمان الرجيم

One evening, Ismail came home to a delayed dinner. His wife, Aisha, looking flustered, explained the day had been difficult with the children. Ismail said nothing. He did not shout. He simply… withdrew. For days, he built a wall of silence. His love became a ghost, present only in its painful absence. He called this his "quiet correction."

Aisha’s heart withered. Her slight mistake had become an unpardonable crime. This pattern continued. Every of Aisha's mistake was given the same chilling punishment: emotional abandonment.

One day, Ismail’s young son, watching his father ignore his mother’s gentle attempts at conversation, built a tall, transparent wall of Lego blocks between two of his bicycle toys. He placed a wooden material between the toys.

“What are you building, habibi?” Ismail asked.
The boy, without looking up, replied softly, “A house like ours, Dad!. A house of glass where everyone can see the people inside, but they can’t hear or touch each other.”

Ismail’s soul froze. In that moment, he saw the truth. He was not a disciplinarian; he was an architect of loneliness. His silence was not a lesson; it was a slow-acting poison, and his children were already learning its formula.

Muslim Faithful,

Allah commands in the Qur'an:

“And live with them in kindness.” 📚(An-Nisa, 4:19)

Your neglect is the very opposite of living with them in kindness. Yes. And a tree that provides no shade is only fit for the fire😃. What is your value to your family if you provide a roof but no warmth, food but no affection, a name but no companionship?

On the Day of Judgment, your wife will not be asked about the meals she burnt or mistakes she made while trying to please you, but you will be held to account for the hearts you broke. She will stand before Allah, the All-Seeing, with her rights against you. The silence you imposed will become a deafening testimony of your oppression. The emotional hunger you forced upon her will be evidence that you failed in your sacred trust (Amanah).

Now,

*CHOOSE:* Will you be the man who built a home of mercy, or the man who presided over a museum of silent regrets?

To be continued...

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