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 ﷽ ➖➖➖ *THE POWER OF QUR'AN* ➖➖➖ *Is your heart sealed?* ➖➖➖ Allah ﷻ says in Surah Hashr *لَوۡ أَنزَلۡنَا هَـٰذَا ٱلۡقُرۡءَانَ عَلَىٰ جَبَلࣲ لَّرَأَیۡتَهُۥ خَـٰشِعࣰا مُّتَصَدِّعࣰا مِّنۡ خَشۡیَةِ ٱللَّهِۚ* _Had We sent down this Quran upon a mountain, you would have certainly seen it humbled and torn apart in awe of Allah.._ [59:21] If this is the case with a mountain which is hard and huge, that if it was made able to comprehend and understand this Qur'an, will feel humble and crumble from fear of Allah ﷻ Then what about you *O mankind?* Why do your hearts not feel softness and humbleness from the fear of Allah ﷻ, not even attempting to understand or comprehend the Kalam of Allah ﷻ even though you have the ability to do so!  *وَتِلۡكَ ٱلۡأَمۡثَـٰلُ نَضۡرِبُهَا لِلنَّاسِ لَعَلَّهُمۡ یَتَفَكَّرُونَ* _We set forth such comparisons for people, ˹so˺ perhaps they may reflect._ [59:21] In another Ayah, Allah ﷻ asks *أَفَلَا یَتَدَبَّرُونَ ٱلۡقُرۡءَانَ أَمۡ عَلَىٰ قُلُوبٍ أَقۡفَالُهَا...

 DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDERS.  Yaum Al-Khamis, 25th day of Shaw'waal. (Thursday, 26th of May, 2022). *_IMPORTANCE OF BASMALAH (saying: Bismillahir Rahmaanir Raheem OR BismilLah)_*. BismilLah.  The Holy Messenger for Mankind Muhammad(sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam) is reported to have said: "Any action of importance not begun with basmalah(BismilLahir Rahmaanir Raheem) is devoid of blessing and therefore incomplete." The basmalah begins the Surah al-Fatihah and therefore opens the whole Quran.  The Almighty describes HIMSELF by means of HIS Attributes. The Attributes of ALLAH are a means of us becoming knowledgeable about HIM. ALLAH , in this respect, does not only introduce the Quran but HE also introduces HIMSELF. The basmalah is an invocation of the Divine Being by HIS supreme Name (ALLAH), followed by two of HIS most beautiful names (Al-Rahman and Al-Rahim), which are in fact two of His principal Divine attributes, The Most Merciful to all HIS creation and especially Merc...

 ﷽🔞🔞🔞  Guidelines To Intimacy In Islam Episode 36 Foreplay Once a couple are psychologically and physically prepared and in the mood for  sex, the union should begin with foreplay.  Foreplay comprises all the sexual activity that precedes actual penetration. Verbal expressions of love and desire that the couple exchange between each other are  included in this; however, this section will only examine the physical aspects of  foreplay. Importance of Foreplay Engaging in foreplay is immensely important and a vital constituent of a happy  marriage, and as a consequence, it should never be disregarded. Both spouses should arouse each another, as it will result in a more pleasurable  union. Although foreplay is important for both spouses, it is of greater importance for  the husband to sexually arouse his wife before having sex. Women generally take longer to become fully aroused. If the husband has sex with her when she is  unprepared, he...

 *أعظم الظلم The* *Greatest Oppression* ✍️ إن من أعظم الظلم أن يجعل الظالم نفسه في مكان الصالح. وإن يرى نملة قال "قد جاء عدوي أيضا"... فكله في أعمال ظلمه فسيلقى جزاء ما كسب...  In deed, one of the greatest oppression (bad deed) is when the oppressor (bad doer) placed himself to the place of faithful (good doer). If he see an ant he says "my enemy has come again".... Leave him in  his oppressive deed, he will soon meet the reward of his bad deed. كل نفس ذائق الموت Every soul shall taste death. نسأل الله تعالى أن يرزقنا بالأعمال الصالحات وحسن الخاتمة. We ask The Supreme Allah to provide good deed for us with good ending🤲  *ابن محلى عبد الحميد* *أديولى*   *Ibn Mualiy, 'Abdul Hameed Adewale*✍️

 ﷽🔞🔞🔞  *Guidelines To Intimacy In Islam* Episode 35 SEDUCTION AND FOREPLAY Introduction In this section we will discuss those alluring and sensuous whisperings as well as those enjoyable pleasurable actions that ought to take place so that coitus can be relished by both husband and wife. They are: Seductive Language To set the scene, the husband should be gentle and affectionate, expressing his  love for her with words that will seduce her. He should remember that women  get "turned on" by what is said and the meaning behind the words is as important  as the words itslef. It is all about how his words make her feel. It's a set of actions,  and every small thing the husband does matters, and will help contribute to a  healthy sexual encounter. There is a subtle indication of the usage of seductive language in the Qur'an also.  Allaah Ta’aala says: ''Your wives are tillage for you to cultivate. So approach your tillage from where  you wish, ...

 ﷽🔞🔞🔞  *Guidelines To Intimacy In Islam Episode 34 *Kind Treatment of Wife* A very important aspect of a husband's psychological preparation is preceding  sexual relations with good treatment, kind words, playfulness and affection. Islam  generally commands the husband to treat his wife honourably at all times. Allaah  Ta’aala saysin Surah Nisaa’: "Live with them in kindness (treat them well). If you dislike (anything in) them then (be tolerant because) it may be that you dislike something whereas Allaah places abundant goodness in it" (Qur'an 4:19) Allaah is teaching husbands in this verse that they should not be hasty in passing judgement regarding their wives. They should  patience and what they find disturbing to them today might turn out to be a boon for them later in life. My teachers told us that in this verse Allaah is arguing the case on behalf of our  wives. He is their representative. What a powerful representative do they not have? How d...

 ```TDIR NETWORK``` 🤝 👇 *Advice of the Day!* *Mocking or laughing at those who are physically or mentally challenged, or those of different sizes & colours has serious consequences. Neither would we like to be thrown into a similar condition as a result of our misdeeds nor would we like that for our own children or family members. It is important that we thank the Almighty for whatever He has blessed us with & ask that those who are in such conditions be granted goodness too. At times we forget to teach our children to be helpful to the disabled & treat them with a special kindness instead of staring at them as though they were aliens. The same applies to those of different sizes or races. It takes all types of people to make up the wonderful world we live in, so let us respect & care for them all.* 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹

 DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDERS.  Yaum Ath-thalaatha, 23rd day of Shaw'waal. (Tuesday, 24th of May, 2022). *_REAL SUCCESS LIES IN OUR DAILY ACTS OF WORSHIP_*. BismilLah.  As Muslims and mankind in general are truly in great need of continual good and the removal of hardships through a strong relationship with our Creator that makes life flow easily, peacefully, and blessedly. SALAAT (Our 5 daily Prayers) guarantees all this to a believer. Along each day’s route, Islam designated five gracious pauses for ALLAH, distributed at specific times throughout the day, during which mankind is directed to meet their Lord, open their hearts, and speak their minds to HIM, starting by praising HIM and acknowledging HIS blessings and guidance followed by requesting HIS blessings and the averting of evils, asking for HIS help and seeking HIS contentment, and shoring up our deficient knowledge with HIS perfect knowledge and their inadequate power with His Supreme Power. If you are addicted to wr...

 DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDERS.  Yaum Al-ithnayn, 22nd day of Shaw'waal. (Monday, 23rd of May, 2022). *_ENJOINING GOOD AND FORBIDEN EVIL_*. BismilLah.  Enjoining good and forbidding evil is a very important topic worthy of attention, because welfare and salvation of the Ummah (nation based on one creed) lie in it; whereas, neglecting it causes great danger and corruption and disappearance of virtue and the spread of vice.  We Muslims, particularly at the present time, are in bad need to be active in the obligation of enjoining good and forbidding evil due to the prevalence of sins and forms of Shirk (associating others with ALLAH in HIS Divinity or worship) soothsaying, pride, arrogance, backbitting etc and Bid‘ahs (innovations in the religion) on earth. Let's not forget what ALLAH said that HE Will NOT help or change our bad condition till we change our bad ways of life. So we hold our own downfall, let's get up and change our own ways of life first then start talking to ...

 DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDERS.  Yaumul Ahad, 21st day of Shaw'waal. (Sunday, 22nd of May, 2022). *_DO NOT DELAY IN DOING ANYTHING GOOD_*. BismilLah.  Our beloved Messenger of ALLAH (Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam) instructed us never to delay in doing anything good especially our Salaat, Marriage, burial, paying our zakaat, Hajj and anything which is fard upon us.  Some things are time sensitive and beneficial. The prayer should be performed at its time because nobody is promised the next hour and if you die whilst owing a specific salaat you could have prayed but delayed it, trouble for you in your grave. The burial of a believer should be conducted swiftly after death so that the creation can return to the Creator and to delay a sister marrying is a pathway for satanic influences to commit zina etc. Similarly a Muslim must not delay in doing a good deed such as the 6t shawwal and paying off our Ramadhan debts as you are not guaranteed another day to live.  *_May ALLAH ...

 DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDERS.  Yaum As-Sabt, 20th day of Shaw'waal. (Saturday, 21st of May, 2022). *_THE BEST FORM OF INVESTMENT IN ISLAM_*. *BismilLah*. If you find yourself constantly prioritizing dunya over akhirah (Hereafter), it is time to strike a balance: So you have decided you want to be productive for the Hereafter?  Alhamdulillah, making that intention is the first step! If you are still breathing, the doors of repentence are still open and it is not too late to make it to Jannah. The best form of investment is to do whatever you can to please the CREATOR especially with our acts of worship! Begin now, review how to correctly pray and establish your daily prayers, make a daily habit of reading The Qur’an and then acting upon it, learn sunnah actions and lessons from the life of the Prophet (Peace be upon him). Have eeman in ALLAH and work righteous actions, and take small consistent steps to improve. You will enjoy super productivity in this world and joy in the ne...

 ✒ *The Worst Women* Prophet Muḥammad Ṣallallāhu-ʿAlaihi Wa Sallam said: “The worst women of yours are those who display their beauty to strangers (Mutabarrijāt) and are arrogant, and they are hypocrites, *NONE* of them will enter Jannah *EXCEPT* the likes of red-legged crow (a rare bird) i.e only a few.” ● [سلسلة الأحاديث الصحيحة ١٨٤٩]

 ╔✽̤̥̈̊‎​​ When you see a wrong act ✽̤̈̊╗ On the authority of Abu Sa'id al-Khudri, radiyallahu 'anhu, who said: I heard the Messenger of Allah, sallallahu 'alayhi wasallam, say: "When any one of you sees anything that is disapproved (of by Allah), let him change it with his hand. If he is not able to do so, then let him change it with his tongue. And if he is not able to do so, then let him change it with his heart, though that is the weakest (kind of) faith." [Muslim] Lessons learned Scholars say that before using the hand, we should start with advice, warning the people of the consequence of evil and encouraging and motivating them to good actions. When this method has been fully utilised and there is no change in the people, only then is it permissible to use the hand. If it is very likely that, as a result of attempting to change the evil, the Caller himself or another person will be harmed, then changing the situation is no longer obligatory upon him. Here ha...

 ﷽🔞🔞🔞  Guidelines To Intimacy In Islam Episode 33 Clipping Nails In a similar manner, the husband should clip his nails and not let them grow too long, given that dirt is easily gathered under the nails. Clipping the nails is also from the matters of fitra. As such, it is blameworthy to leave the nails uncut beyond two weeks, and sinful beyond forty days. (Ibid) Sayyiduna Anas Ibn Mālik relates: "A time-limit was prescribed for us [by Rasulullaah صلى الله عليه وسلم [for shortening the moustache, clipping the nails, plucking armpit hair and shaving the pubic hair, that it should not be left for more than forty nights." (Sahih Muslim 258)

 ﷽ ➖➖➖ *THE DESTROYER OF PLEASURES* ➖➖➖ *What have you prepared for it?* ➖➖➖ Allah ﷻ says  *كُلُّ نَفْسٍ ذَائِقَةُ الْمَوْتِ ۗ* _Every Soul shall taste Death._ [3:185] _ We shall all taste Death, none of us can escape the certain departure from this world.  No matter how much we run or we delude ourselves by planning for tomorrow, or next week or 20,30,40 years ahead... We must remember that *Death will touch us.* _ And this is a remedy to crush our love for this Dunya and its delights. As Prophet ﷺ said _"Remember often the destroyer of pleasures ( i.e *death*)_ [Sunan al-Tirmidhī 2307] _ How many people do you see flying out, departing from Dunya and landing in the Dunya?! _ And how many people do we know that have departed with the Angel of Death and landed in the grave?! _ So when we remind ourselves of Death, It is important to then reflect on what we have prepared to take with us, What we have packed away in our baggage to journey into the Akhirah?  _ The weal...