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Let's Change Our Mindsets About Marriage* *Episode 148* *OUR MARRIAGE OF TODAY* (Copied

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*Let's Change Our Mindsets About Marriage*

*Episode 148*

*OUR MARRIAGE OF TODAY* (Copied)

An hadith of Abu hurayrah (r.a) saying,
I heard the prophet (s.a.w) saying,
There will come a time where you will follow some people inch by inch, pit by pit that even if they are to fall into the lizard's hole, you will follow them. The sahaba asked are they the Jews and Christians? He (s.a.w) said then who?
Saheeh Muslim.

Today we are copying the western style and we see it as civilisation even if it is against our deen.
Our marriages are full of evil and corruption and that is why there is high divorce.
Today a Muslim marriage has become wedding where two married couples will come out and dance infront of their wali. There is no shyness.
Putting ring in the hands of one another.
Sending pictures on social media for likes.
Kissing around and videotaping.
All these are evil of our marriage today.
The prophet (s.a.w) said,
Allah (s.w.t) takes away the blessings of anything that is done against him.
If so then many marriages have no blessings.
There is showoff of wealth while the couples are poor.
The woman is not allowed to come out for people to see her.
She is to be covered even her face and the father or some two women can accompany with songs of marriage to the house of the husband.
But the bride dancing around with her awrah outside in the name of civilisation.
Rasulullah (s.a.w.) said the dayyuth will not enter paradise.
The sahaba asked who is dayyuth? He s.a.w said anyone who is not jealous of his wife exposing her awrah to other men. Saheeh by tirmidhee.

May Allah guides us to the right path. Ameen




{To be continued In-sha-Allāh (If Allāh Wills)...}


"And keep reminding, because reminding benefits the believers." (Qur-ān 51:55)

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