Skip to main content

Let's Change Our Mindsets About Marriage* *Episode 153

*Let's Change Our Mindsets About Marriage*

*Episode 153*

*A woman who cannot submit to a man should not marry and a man who cannot tolerate the 'nonsense' of a woman should not marry*.#DEAR #SISTERS : Before Nikkah (marriage) Dont trust Anyone..

1) I advice every sister who started to build dreams on a boys attention to her; dear sisters, if a boy is interested in you that doesn't mean that he will consider you as a future wife...

2)Now adays very less people have the fear of Allah taala. They try to be nice with all the girls they meet with, and then the more a girl encourages him and becomes friendly with him, the more he keeps up flirting with her and builds her up with his sweet words.

3)He may like you now,but he liked many girls before you.And he will like others after you who will be nicer, prettier than you.

4) A boy like that, will always move on in his life, trying to search for nice girls, but at the end of the day he will choose that girl for marriage who will be innocent, pure who never had a boyfriend before.

5) Dear sisters wake up, turn to Allah azzawa jal, the door of repentance is still open! FIGHT TEMPTATION; TEACH YOUR HEART TO BE CHASTE AND PURE.

6)Dont waste it on feelings which displeases Allah azzawa jal preserve it for the only one who deserves it, your husband . In shaa Allah.

7) Remember that, if you want to have a righteous husband then teach your heart to be righteous first.

Make Nikkah simple remember you have a life to start not a community to impress.. What makes it halal is khutbah not food💪❤💯


(Copied)


{To be continued In-sha-Allāh (If Allāh Wills)...}


"And keep reminding, because reminding benefits the believers." (Qur-ān 51:55)

Comments

Popular posts from this blog

NOTHING HAPPENS WITHOUT THE PERMISSION OF ALLAH

 DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDERS. Yawm Arba'a. 29th day of Shaw'waal, 1445AH (Wednesday 8th May 2024). *_NOTHING HAPPENS WITHOUT THE PERMISSION OF ALLAH_*. BismilLah.  Even though feelings of Panic, stress/worries etc are part of life, they must not reduce our acts of worship or trust in ALLAH. The more a man turns to ALLAH and focuses on HIM, the more he will feel a sense of peace and comfort, to an extent that no one knows except ALLAH. Hence those who know ALLAH, are close to HIM and fear HIM are the happiest of people, to such an extent that one of them said, in a well-known expression: “If the kings and the sons of kings knew what joy we have, they would fight us for it with the sword.” This is also what is expressed in the Qur’an, as ALLAH says: “Whoever works righteousness, whether male or female, while he (or she) is a true believer (of Islamic Monotheism) verily, to him ALLAH will give a good life (in this world with respect, contentment and lawful provision), and ALLAH will ...

HELPING OTHERS WITH INTENTION FOR ALLAH'S HELP IN RETURN

 DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDER. Yaum Al-Khamis, 22nd day of Jumaadal Uula 1447AH, Thursday, 13th November, 2025.  *_HELPING OTHERS WITH INTENTION FOR ALLAH'S HELP IN RETURN_*. BismilLah.  When we help our brothers and sisters in Islam, in reality, we are helping ourselves. The Messenger of ALLAH (S.A.W) said: He who relieves the hardship of a believer in this world, ALLAH Azzawajallah will relieve his hardship on the Day of Judgment. He who makes easy what is difficult, ALLAH ALLAH Azzawajallah will make it easy for him in the world and the hereafter. He who conceals the faults of a Muslim, ALLAH ALLAH Azzawajallah will conceal his faults in this ALLAH Azzawajallah world and the Hereafter, for ALLAH helps the servant as long as he helps his brother. Source: Ṣaḥīḥ "Muslim 2699. AlhamdulilLah.  With this I hope with immediate effect we will all strive to help each other in any possible way such as making dua for each other, supporting our relatives and those in need in ou...

THE MUSLIM WOMAN AND HER OWN SELF

 DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDER. Yawm athalaatha, 3rd day of Rabeeul Awwal 1447AH, Tuesday, 26th August 2025. *_THE MUSLIM WOMAN AND HER OWN SELF_*. BismilLah.  Islam encourages Muslims in general to stand out among people, readily distinguishable by their dress, appearance and behaviour, so that they will be a good example, worthy of the great message that they bring to humanity. According to the hadith narrated by the great Sahabi Ibn al-Hanzaliyyah, the Prophet (sallallahu alaihi wasallam ) told his Companions, when they were travelling to meet some brothers in faith: "You are going to visit your brothers, so repair your saddles and make sure that you are dressed well, so that you will stand out among people like an adornment, for ALLAH (SWT) does not love ugliness." Reported by Imam Abu Dawud, 4/83, in Kitab al-libas, bab ma ja'a fi isbal al-izar. The Prophet (sallallahu alaihi wasallam) considered an unkempt and careless appearance, and scruffy clothes and furnishings, to be...