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A KEY INGREDIENT TOWARDS A SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE

 THE DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDERS. Yawm Ath-thalaatha. 30th day of Rabeeu ath-thaani, 1445AH (Tuesday, 14th November, 2023).

*_A KEY INGREDIENT TOWARDS A SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE_*. BismilLah.  


I always remind each other that Islam is a complete ways of life. We have signed a covenant with ALLAH to live in this world by HIS rules and in return, HE promised to reward our efforts with Paradise. As Muslims, we must focus on this basic  fact and ensure we strive to please ALLAH in all we do through patience and perseverance and through the teachings and ways our beloved Messenger of ALLAH sallallahu alaihi wasallam. 


Marriage is a very important covenant between us and ALLAH. Both couple must go into the marriage with one very important reason which is to earn Paradise base on how we handle each other. When we focus on pleasing ALLAH then we may ignore each others errors in the marriage and ensure our enemy (Satan), does not get any space into the marriage. 


One most important causes of marriage divorce is marrying the wrong partner or marrying with wrong intentions. If your intentions are wrong, then the divorce started the day the marriage started. First ask yourself why you want to marry him or her and make sure the reason include gaining Paradise through him or her. If this ingredient is missing then you have no solid foundation to the marriage. 


*_May ALLAH keep guiding us all and increase us in beneficial knowledge_*. Aameen.

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