What I Have Learnt* [Episode 1 - of - 60]

 *What I Have Learnt*

[Episode 1 - of - 60]

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بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

الحـمد لله والصلاة والسلام على رسول الله وعلى آلـه وصحبه ومن والاه

There is something we all know we should do, but in real life many of us don’t, because our hearts are ill. Yes. It is one of the purest forms of acts of ibadah - *Love for Others What You Love for Yourself* 

The Prophet (peace be upon him) said:

 لا يُؤْمِنُ أَحَدُكُمْ حَتَّى يُحِبَّ لأَخِيهِ مَا يُحِبُّ لِنَفْسِهِ

“None of you will *have faith* until he loves for his brother what he loves for himself.”

وفي رواية أخرى قال حَتَّى يُحِبَّ لِجَارِهِ مَا يُحِبُّ لِنَفْسِهِ

In another narration, the Prophet said, “Until he loves for his neighbor what he loves for himself.” 📚Source: Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 13, Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 45

Oh My People!

It is easily said, but sometimes hard to practice, because our selfishness, stinginess, weakedness and ego gets in the way. Yes. It is clear that being able to love for your brother or sister what you love for yourself is a characteristic every true Muslim should train their heart upon.

 *What does this mean?* 

 *Firstly* it is the golden rule to treat others how you want to be treated (husband, wife, neighbours etc).. You don’t want to be backbitten, so don’t backbite others.. *Backbitting* means discussing about someone in his/her absent, in which the person will not like if heard about it😳, yes even if what u discussed about the person is true.. And the sin is even worse if what u discussed about the person is not true.

 *Secondly* it means you place yourself in someone else’s shoes and think: - what would I have desired? And then desire the same for him/her.. Yes.. Imagine if every Muslim would live by this hadeeth,, then most of the problems between people (husband, wife, neighbours etc) would be solved and we would know true brotherhood!

So,

On the ABOVE hadeeth, here are some Tips on Learning How to Love for Others What You Love for Yourself because....

TO BE CONTINUED

Allah alone knows best.

سبحانك اللهم وبحمدك نشهد ان لا اله الا انت نستغفرك ونتوابوااليك