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*Let's Change Our Mindsets About Marriage*
*Episode 52*
*YOU CAN NEVER REPAY YOUR WIFE IN THIS WORLD*
Read the checklist and tell me.
First sacrifice - She leaves her family and friends to join you and your family. It is hurtful to lose a family, yet she didn't think twice. She gave them up everyone to be with you.
She conceives for you, nurses the child in her belly for 9 months, then deliver the child, in the process, her V opens wide and loses it tightness, at times she has to undergo surgery, at times she will lose blood, at times you will lose her heartbeats, then get revived. Who else can do this?
She let your child suck her beautiful breasts. No matter how beautiful they look, your child will make sure he leaves nothing left for her.
She gets fat and heavy due to childbirth. She practically becomes old, all because of you and your children.
She does all the home chores. You never care to check or ask how this is done, or how that is done. You just see things getting done.
She nurtures your kids, trains them, feeds them, prepares them to school, wakes up early every day for years just to make sure your kids go to school early.
She nurses you too, she feeds you, at times wash your dirty underwears, clean your dirty room, give you the best.
At times you bring your friends unannounced, she has to quickly go to the kitchen and make the food, prepare everything, just to make you happy.
You ask for sex at night, in the morning, in the afternoon, every hour of every day, you don't care whether she is sick, you don't care whether she enjoys it.
Some women even take care of their husband's old parents. Does everything for them, make sure your parents get what they want.
Some women stays at home from morning to night guarding the house, guarding the properties in the house, guarding the children.
Some women would wait at night for their stupid husband to come home drunk, or from party or friends, she will wait her eyes open, feel very uncomfortable.
With all the above sacrifices.
Some men beat their wives,
some men cannot spend $1 on their wives,
some men cannot say thank you for once,
some men think when they feed and cloth her that's it,
some men think she is just a slave girl or maid kept for them,
Some men can't even have sex with their wives and satisfy them, some would even skip home in order not to sleep with their wives,
He can't respect her parents or family,
By Allah, for Allah to say that any woman who obeys and follows her husband will enter Jannah, it means women have a special status in the sight of Allah. So who are you to disrespect or devalue women? Allah will surely punish those men who don't have regards for women. So you can never repay your wife for her sacrifices. The only way to get even closer is by praying for her, loving her, caring for her, making her feel comfortable. I want you to read these points and reflect about it. For sure, we need to do a lot in terms of our relationships with our wives.
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*{To be continued In-sha-Allāh (If Allāh Wills)...}*
*"And keep reminding, because reminding benefits the believers."* (Qur-ān 51:55)
*Let's Change Our Mindsets About Marriage*
*Episode 52*
*YOU CAN NEVER REPAY YOUR WIFE IN THIS WORLD*
Read the checklist and tell me.
First sacrifice - She leaves her family and friends to join you and your family. It is hurtful to lose a family, yet she didn't think twice. She gave them up everyone to be with you.
She conceives for you, nurses the child in her belly for 9 months, then deliver the child, in the process, her V opens wide and loses it tightness, at times she has to undergo surgery, at times she will lose blood, at times you will lose her heartbeats, then get revived. Who else can do this?
She let your child suck her beautiful breasts. No matter how beautiful they look, your child will make sure he leaves nothing left for her.
She gets fat and heavy due to childbirth. She practically becomes old, all because of you and your children.
She does all the home chores. You never care to check or ask how this is done, or how that is done. You just see things getting done.
She nurtures your kids, trains them, feeds them, prepares them to school, wakes up early every day for years just to make sure your kids go to school early.
She nurses you too, she feeds you, at times wash your dirty underwears, clean your dirty room, give you the best.
At times you bring your friends unannounced, she has to quickly go to the kitchen and make the food, prepare everything, just to make you happy.
You ask for sex at night, in the morning, in the afternoon, every hour of every day, you don't care whether she is sick, you don't care whether she enjoys it.
Some women even take care of their husband's old parents. Does everything for them, make sure your parents get what they want.
Some women stays at home from morning to night guarding the house, guarding the properties in the house, guarding the children.
Some women would wait at night for their stupid husband to come home drunk, or from party or friends, she will wait her eyes open, feel very uncomfortable.
With all the above sacrifices.
Some men beat their wives,
some men cannot spend $1 on their wives,
some men cannot say thank you for once,
some men think when they feed and cloth her that's it,
some men think she is just a slave girl or maid kept for them,
Some men can't even have sex with their wives and satisfy them, some would even skip home in order not to sleep with their wives,
He can't respect her parents or family,
By Allah, for Allah to say that any woman who obeys and follows her husband will enter Jannah, it means women have a special status in the sight of Allah. So who are you to disrespect or devalue women? Allah will surely punish those men who don't have regards for women. So you can never repay your wife for her sacrifices. The only way to get even closer is by praying for her, loving her, caring for her, making her feel comfortable. I want you to read these points and reflect about it. For sure, we need to do a lot in terms of our relationships with our wives.
(Copied)
*{To be continued In-sha-Allāh (If Allāh Wills)...}*
*"And keep reminding, because reminding benefits the believers."* (Qur-ān 51:55)
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