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Let's Change Our Mindsets About Marriage* *Episode 55*

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*Let's Change Our Mindsets About Marriage*

*Episode 55*

*ASKED MY WIFE, "WHAT IS IT THAT YOU LOVE ABOUT ME?"*

She said I love the  beard on your face, the khol in your eyes and the perfume of your body.

I love when you wear white jubba above ankles and walk lowering your gaze with humility - because you remind me the sunnah and teachings of my Nabi ﷺ.

I love when you remind me to recite Surah Mulk and Sajdah before going to bed. I love when you make wudhu, read Du'ās and sleep on your right side.

I love when you stand before me in Tahajjud and we pray together. I love when you and I recite Qur'an and share hadiths.

I love when you place a feathery kiss on my forehead before going to masjid; when you excite me, intrigue me, fascinate me and love me when I don't even deserve it.

I love when you stop me from sharing our photos online to restrain me from spreading fitnah among mankind and to protect our happiness from the evil eye.

I love when you are jealous of other guys looking at me. I love when you draw niqab on my face and say - "You're only mine".
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I love when you ask me how was my day; when you care about my physical, mental and emotional health. I love when you give importance to my feelings.
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I love when you see me exhausted with days work - you don't demand me to do something for  nor for my body but you comfort me and ask me to take rest.
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I love when you silently eat my salty and spicy curries without complaining. I love when you forgive me and praise my bad cooking just not to make me feel upset.

I love when you give a smile from your heart and saying bismillah - you enter home with the right leg. I love when you give "Salam" and whisper to my ears - 'I Missed You, Wifey’
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I love you, it would take a lifetime and more to describe to you how much I love you because you're Masha Allāh wonderful from inside and out.

Your manner, your kindness - generosity, your patience, your respect, your mindset, your concern for this life and the hereafter is what I love.


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*{To be continued In-sha-Allāh (If Allāh Wills)...}*


*"And keep reminding, because reminding benefits the believers."* (Qur-ān 51:55)

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