First, Second and Third Hadīth Of The Day

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*First Hadīth Of The Day*

حَدَّثَنَا أَصْبَغُ، عَنِ ابْنِ  وَهْبٍ، قَالَ أَخْبَرَنِي عَمْرٌو، عَنْ سَعِيدِ بْنِ الْحَارِثِ  الأَنْصَارِيِّ، عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ عُمَرَ ـ رضى الله عنهما ـ قَالَ  اشْتَكَى سَعْدُ بْنُ عُبَادَةَ شَكْوَى لَهُ فَأَتَاهُ النَّبِيُّ صلى  الله عليه وسلم يَعُودُهُ مَعَ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنِ عَوْفٍ وَسَعْدِ  بْنِ أَبِي وَقَّاصٍ وَعَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ مَسْعُودٍ ـ رضى الله عنهم ـ  فَلَمَّا دَخَلَ عَلَيْهِ فَوَجَدَهُ فِي غَاشِيَةِ أَهْلِهِ فَقَالَ ‏"‏  قَدْ قَضَى ‏"‏‏.‏ قَالُوا لاَ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ‏.‏ فَبَكَى النَّبِيُّ  صلى الله عليه وسلم فَلَمَّا رَأَى الْقَوْمُ بُكَاءَ النَّبِيِّ صلى الله  عليه وسلم بَكَوْا فَقَالَ ‏"‏ أَلاَ تَسْمَعُونَ إِنَّ اللَّهَ لاَ  يُعَذِّبُ بِدَمْعِ الْعَيْنِ، وَلاَ بِحُزْنِ الْقَلْبِ، وَلَكِنْ  يُعَذِّبُ بِهَذَا ـ وَأَشَارَ إِلَى لِسَانِهِ ـ أَوْ يَرْحَمُ وَإِنَّ  الْمَيِّتَ يُعَذَّبُ بِبُكَاءِ أَهْلِهِ عَلَيْهِ ‏"‏‏.‏ وَكَانَ عُمَرُ ـ  رضى الله عنه ـ يَضْرِبُ فِيهِ بِالْعَصَا، وَيَرْمِي بِالْحِجَارَةِ  وَيَحْثِي بِالتُّرَابِ‏.‏

 Narrated `Abdullah bin `Umar:                       
Sa`d bin 'Ubada became sick and the Prophet (ﷺ) along with `Abdur Rahman bin `Auf, Sa`d bin Abi  Waqqas and `Abdullah bin Mas`ud visited him to inquire about his health. When he came to him, he  found him surrounded by his household and he asked, "Has he died?" They said, "No, O Allah's  Apostle." The Prophet (ﷺ) wept and when the people saw the weeping of Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) they all  wept. He said, "Will you listen? Allah does not punish for shedding tears, nor for the grief of the heart  but he punishes or bestows His Mercy because of this." He pointed to his tongue and added, "The  deceased is punished for the wailing of his relatives over him." `Umar used to beat with a stick and  throw stones and put dust over the faces (of those who used to wail over the dead).


Sahih Bukhari
 (Funerals (Al-Janaa'iz))
Reference : Sahih al-Bukhari 1304
In-book reference : Book 23, Hadith 63
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*Second Hadīth Of The Day*

حَدَّثَنَا  مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ حَوْشَبٍ، حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ  الْوَهَّابِ، حَدَّثَنَا يَحْيَى بْنُ سَعِيدٍ، قَالَ أَخْبَرَتْنِي  عَمْرَةُ، قَالَتْ سَمِعْتُ عَائِشَةَ ـ رضى الله عنها ـ تَقُولُ لَمَّا  جَاءَ قَتْلُ زَيْدِ بْنِ حَارِثَةَ وَجَعْفَرٍ وَعَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ  رَوَاحَةَ، جَلَسَ النَّبِيُّ صلى الله عليه وسلم يُعْرَفُ فِيهِ  الْحُزْنُ، وَأَنَا أَطَّلِعُ مِنْ شَقِّ الْبَابِ، فَأَتَاهُ رَجُلٌ  فَقَالَ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ إِنَّ نِسَاءَ جَعْفَرٍ وَذَكَرَ بُكَاءَهُنَّ  فَأَمَرَهُ بِأَنْ يَنْهَاهُنَّ، فَذَهَبَ الرَّجُلُ ثُمَّ أَتَى فَقَالَ  قَدْ نَهَيْتُهُنَّ، وَذَكَرَ أَنَّهُنَّ لَمْ يُطِعْنَهُ، فَأَمَرَهُ  الثَّانِيَةَ أَنْ يَنْهَاهُنَّ، فَذَهَبَ، ثُمَّ أَتَى، فَقَالَ وَاللَّهِ  لَقَدْ غَلَبْنَنِي أَوْ غَلَبْنَنَا الشَّكُّ مِنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ  حَوْشَبٍ ـ فَزَعَمَتْ أَنَّ النَّبِيَّ صلى الله عليه وسلم قَالَ ‏"‏ فَاحْثُ فِي أَفْوَاهِهِنَّ التُّرَابَ ‏"
‏‏.‏  فَقُلْتُ أَرْغَمَ اللَّهُ أَنْفَكَ، فَوَاللَّهِ مَا أَنْتَ بِفَاعِلٍ  وَمَا تَرَكْتَ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم مِنَ الْعَنَاءِ‏.‏
 Narrated Aisha:                       
When the news of the martyrdom of Zaid bin Haritha, Ja`far and `Abdullah bin Rawaha came, the  Prophet sat down looking sad, and I was looking through the chink of the door. A man came and said,  "O Allah's Messenger (ﷺ)! The women of Ja`far," and then he mentioned their crying . The Prophet (p.b.u.h)  ordered him to stop them from crying. The man went and came back and said, "I tried to stop them but  they disobeyed." The Prophet (p.b.u.h) ordered him for the second time to forbid them. He went again  and came back and said, "They did not listen to me, (or "us": the sub-narrator Muhammad bin  Haushab is in doubt as to which is right). " (`Aisha added: The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "Put dust in their  mouths." I said (to that man), "May Allah stick your nose in the dust (i.e. humiliate you)." By Allah,  you could not (stop the women from crying) to fulfill the order, besides you did not relieve Allah's  Apostle from fatigue."


Sahih Bukhari
 (Funerals (Al-Janaa'iz))
Reference : Sahih al-Bukhari 1305
In-book reference : Book 23, Hadith 64
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*Third Hadīth Of The Day*

حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ  عَبْدِ الْوَهَّابِ، حَدَّثَنَا حَمَّادُ بْنُ زَيْدٍ، حَدَّثَنَا  أَيُّوبُ، عَنْ مُحَمَّدٍ، عَنْ أُمِّ عَطِيَّةَ ـ رضى الله عنها ـ قَالَتْ  أَخَذَ عَلَيْنَا النَّبِيُّ صلى الله عليه وسلم عِنْدَ الْبَيْعَةِ أَنْ  لاَ نَنُوحَ، فَمَا وَفَتْ مِنَّا امْرَأَةٌ غَيْرَ خَمْسِ نِسْوَةٍ أُمِّ  سُلَيْمٍ وَأُمِّ الْعَلاَءِ وَابْنَةِ أَبِي سَبْرَةَ امْرَأَةِ مُعَاذٍ  وَامْرَأَتَيْنِ أَوِ ابْنَةِ أَبِي سَبْرَةَ وَامْرَأَةِ مُعَاذٍ  وَامْرَأَةٍ أُخْرَى‏.‏

 Narrated Um 'Atiyya:                       
At the time of giving the pledge of allegiance to the Prophet (ﷺ) one of the conditions was that we would  not wail, but it was not fulfilled except by five women and they are Um Sulaim, Um Al-`Ala', the  daughter of Abi Sabra (the wife of Mu`adh), and two other women; or the daughter of Abi Sabra and  the wife of Mu`adh and another woman.


Sahih Bukhari
 (Funerals (Al-Janaa'iz))
Reference : Sahih al-Bukhari 1306
In-book reference : Book 23, Hadith 65