Let's Change Our Mindsets About Marriage* *Episode 90* *WHY I THINK YOUR WIFE SHOULD BE MORE INTELLIGENT THAN YOU OR EQUALLY INTELLIGENT
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*Let's Change Our Mindsets About Marriage*
*Episode 90*
*WHY I THINK YOUR WIFE SHOULD BE MORE INTELLIGENT THAN YOU OR EQUALLY INTELLIGENT*
Disclaimer: Don't crucify me, this is from my personal research.
As a man, it is factual if I say most of your life is spent outside with people and strangers. If you calculate the hours you spend at home and the hours you spent outside, the gap is very wide and unbeatable. So most of the times your kids spend more time with your wife. If you are lucky to have an intelligent wife, then this is how your life is going to be.
1. She will raise the best out of your children.
2. If your children are good, then we will have more good children outside because any child they mingle with would directly or indirectly mimic their good conduct.
3. Intelligent wife saves you from a lot of embarrassments. She knows how to talk and make decisions.
4. While busy at work, she is bush building your home. So you can sleep and snore without any concern.
5. Intelligent wife is less troublesome because she knows every tactics to handle you. Therefore, she is a life time asset.
6. Sometimes she can even assist you in making difficult decisions arising from your work place or business. Till today, Hafsa the wife of Rasoulillah remains a figure in Islamic history for her famous advice to the Prophet which changed the face of history till date.
7. Intelligent wife knows how to handle and manage your wealth, including how you spend and how not to spend.
8. Intelligent wife challenges you where you go wrong and support you where you have strength.
9. While you are busy pursuing your career she is also busy planning your future for you. By the time you retire, she becomes handy.
10. Lastly, most intelligent wives don't just work as housewives, they do one or two things to support you, themselves and your children. They don't wait for you to provide. They also make an effort to assist you.
In conclusion, an intelligent wife can only work as mentioned above only if you support and motivate her. Without motivation, she becomes wasted and rotten at home. She becomes a mere sex machine and babies production company. So allow your wife to pursue her dreams as long as they conform with Shari'ah (Islamic Law). Allow them to go to decent school if they want. Allow them to work if it will not affect anything, especially their Imān (faith). Two good heads are always better than one.
*{To be continued In-sha-Allāh (If Allāh Wills)...}*
*"And keep reminding, because reminding benefits the believers."* (Qur-ān 51:55)
*Let's Change Our Mindsets About Marriage*
*Episode 90*
*WHY I THINK YOUR WIFE SHOULD BE MORE INTELLIGENT THAN YOU OR EQUALLY INTELLIGENT*
Disclaimer: Don't crucify me, this is from my personal research.
As a man, it is factual if I say most of your life is spent outside with people and strangers. If you calculate the hours you spend at home and the hours you spent outside, the gap is very wide and unbeatable. So most of the times your kids spend more time with your wife. If you are lucky to have an intelligent wife, then this is how your life is going to be.
1. She will raise the best out of your children.
2. If your children are good, then we will have more good children outside because any child they mingle with would directly or indirectly mimic their good conduct.
3. Intelligent wife saves you from a lot of embarrassments. She knows how to talk and make decisions.
4. While busy at work, she is bush building your home. So you can sleep and snore without any concern.
5. Intelligent wife is less troublesome because she knows every tactics to handle you. Therefore, she is a life time asset.
6. Sometimes she can even assist you in making difficult decisions arising from your work place or business. Till today, Hafsa the wife of Rasoulillah remains a figure in Islamic history for her famous advice to the Prophet which changed the face of history till date.
7. Intelligent wife knows how to handle and manage your wealth, including how you spend and how not to spend.
8. Intelligent wife challenges you where you go wrong and support you where you have strength.
9. While you are busy pursuing your career she is also busy planning your future for you. By the time you retire, she becomes handy.
10. Lastly, most intelligent wives don't just work as housewives, they do one or two things to support you, themselves and your children. They don't wait for you to provide. They also make an effort to assist you.
In conclusion, an intelligent wife can only work as mentioned above only if you support and motivate her. Without motivation, she becomes wasted and rotten at home. She becomes a mere sex machine and babies production company. So allow your wife to pursue her dreams as long as they conform with Shari'ah (Islamic Law). Allow them to go to decent school if they want. Allow them to work if it will not affect anything, especially their Imān (faith). Two good heads are always better than one.
*{To be continued In-sha-Allāh (If Allāh Wills)...}*
*"And keep reminding, because reminding benefits the believers."* (Qur-ān 51:55)
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