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Let's Change Our Mindsets About Marriage* *Episode 94* *WHAT ARE THE CONDITIONS OF A VALID MARRIAGE?*


*Let's Change Our Mindsets About Marriage*

*Episode 94*

*WHAT ARE THE CONDITIONS OF A VALID MARRIAGE?*

Nikah is not only an agreement between two people. It has social and familial results. The traditions and the rules of the society play a role on the marriage.  Therefore, no nikah can be performed secretly.

Islamic and civil marriages are not two distinct concepts. Civil marriage is performed under the supervision of civil authorities. Islamic marriage similarly requires supervision, and the primary supervisor is sought to be the bride’s father. If the father and other male relatives renounce the duty of supervision or object to the marriage without Islamic basis, the supervisor becomes the civil or other lawful authority.

Islamic marriage has the additional condition of “mehr” which must be supervised while being determined and written down.

An Islamic marriage (nikah) can be performed under the following conditions:

1- Both sides must be free of obstacles to marry and have legal capacity.

2-  Both sides or their guardians or representators must be present at the same time during the proposal and acceptance.

3- The prohibitions of marriage in verses An-Nisa 23,24 and An-Noor 3, which include the prohibitions about blood and milk kinship must be observed.

4- There must be no other conditions demanded by any of the the sides which may prevent the nikah .

5- The bride and the groom must have reached the age of maturity (this may come true at the same age or after the puberty.

6- In compliance with the verses An-Noor 24:3,5 ; Al-Maidah 5:5 and An-Nisa 4:24 both the bride and the groom must be chaste.

A nikah is valid from Islamic point of view under the following conditions:

1- Supervision and testimony : See the explanation below

2- Consensual agreement to marry:  No girl/boy or woman/man can be wed against her/his will.

3- Announcement: Marriages, especially the ceremony of nikah is performed in order to announce the marriage. Therefore, nikah must be announced to everybody.

4- Mehr : Legal Share of Bride is given to the bride by the groom. It is not a condition for the nikah to be valid, but the right of mehr arises as a natural result of the nikah for the bride.

The Messenger of Allah says:

“There is no marriage without a supervisor (Wali) and two reliable witnesses. A marriage performed without these is void. If they couldn’t agree, the authorized officials are the supervisor.” (Abu Dawood, Nikah/Marriage, 20; Tirmidhi, Nikah/Marriage, 14; Ibn Majah, Nikah/Marriage, 15; Ahmad Ibn Hanbal, Musnad, 6/66)


*{To be continued In-sha-Allāh (If Allāh Wills)...}*


*"And keep reminding, because reminding benefits the believers."* (Qur-ān 51:55)

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