CHAPTER FIVE
The Man Who Beats His Wives Because She Couldn't Give Him a Child
The marriage of Ibrahim and Aisha had begun like a dream—full of love, blessings, and hope. Alhamdulilah, the wedding had been a success, and the first months in their new home were filled with peace, laughter, and gratitude. The small house, gifted by Aisha’s father, was now alive with the presence of the young couple, their prayers and dreams filling every corner.
For two years, they lived in harmony, side by side, supporting each other, working together, and building a life that both could be proud of. Aisha continued to care for Ibrahim with unwavering dedication. She managed the house, ensured the business was running smoothly, and treated him with respect and love. Her sacrifices and efforts were numerous, yet she never let them become a burden to him.
However, there was a shadow in their happiness. Despite their love and prayers, the couple remained without children. They sought help, consulted doctors, and prayed fervently, yet nothing seemed to change. The longing for a child grew heavier with each passing month, and slowly, Ibrahim’s patience began to wane.
At first, it was subtle—an annoyed sigh, a passing comment, a frustrated glance. Aisha endured each small annoyance with grace, never retaliating, never speaking a harsh word. She knew that her love and respect for him went beyond the hardships, and she reminded herself that Allah tests the hearts of believers in many ways.
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The First Signs of Tension
Gradually, Ibrahim began saying things that chipped away at the peace they had shared. His words, though subtle at first, became sharper, cutting into Aisha’s heart.
“You are like a man sometimes,” he muttered one evening, frustration in his voice.
Aisha paused, swallowing the sting of his words. She took a deep breath and replied gently, “I am your wife, Ibrahim. I am here for you. Always.”
But his comments did not stop. “I wonder if I made the wrong choice,” he said on another day. “Maybe I need someone who can… give me a child.”
Aisha’s heart sank, yet she remained silent. She reminded herself of everything she had done for him, the house she had helped provide, the sacrifices she had made, and the endless support she had given to both him and his family.
“Allah tests us,” she whispered in her prayers at night, tears streaming down her face. “Grant me patience, and guide him to mercy. Keep our hearts together, O Allah.”
She bore the insults, the frustration, and the verbal jabs without ever taking revenge or speaking ill of him. Her patience was a shield, her prayers a balm. She loved him not for what he gave her in return, but because her heart had chosen him, and her faith reminded her of the sanctity of her vows.
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The Breaking Point
For months, the tension simmered. Ibrahim’s words grew harsher, laced with impatience and anger. “You have given me nothing,” he said one night, his voice low but sharp. “Do you know what I’ve sacrificed? And still… nothing!”
Aisha remained composed, though her heart trembled. She had tried everything: patience, understanding, encouragement, and prayers. But his relentless criticism was becoming unbearable.
One evening, after a particularly harsh exchange, Aisha’s patience finally snapped. Her voice, firm and full of righteous anger, cut through the tension:
“Do you know what I have done for you, Ibrahim? Do you know how I stood by you when your own family turned away? Do you know how I built this house with my father’s help, sacrificed my own comfort for your success, and honored you in every way?”
Her words hung in the air, trembling with the weight of truth. She looked into his eyes, demanding recognition for everything she had done.
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The First Act of Violence
For a moment, silence reigned. Ibrahim’s face twisted with anger, disbelief, and humiliation. Before Aisha could retreat, he slapped her. The force of his hand sent her stumbling, her cheek burning with shock and pain.
Aisha fell to the ground, tears mixing with rage and hurt. She had never imagined that the man she loved—whom she had cherished and supported through every hardship—could turn to violence. Her heart ached, yet her spirit refused to break.
“You… you dare speak to me like that?” he shouted, his voice trembling with fury.
Aisha, trembling but resolute, looked up at him. “I am your wife! And I deserve respect! I have given everything to you, and you repay me with anger and violence?”
But Ibrahim’s frustration, fueled by disappointment and societal pressures about children, overcame reason. He struck her again, and the room became a scene of chaos, the love they had nurtured now overshadowed by pain.
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The Beginning of the Fight
This was the moment when the cycle began. The gentle, loving marriage of Ibrahim and Aisha had fractured, replaced by fear, tension, and conflict. Aisha, though bruised in body and spirit, did not retaliate with anger. Instead, she prayed silently, calling upon Allah for strength, justice, and patience.
Yet she could not deny the fear that had taken root. The home she had once built as a place of love and sanctuary now echoed with violence and frustration. Every corner of the house—the very walls she had helped erect—bore witness to the first act of cruelty that would mark the turning point in their marriage.
From that day onward, the dynamics of their relationship began to shift. Aisha’s patience would be tested in ways she had never imagined. Ibrahim’s frustrations, rooted in fear, disappointment, and societal expectations, began to manifest as anger and control.
The love that had once been their greatest strength now faced the first true test: could it withstand betrayal, violence, and the corrosive pain of unmet expectations?
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Reflection and Prayer
That night, as Aisha tended to her wounds and prayed quietly in the corner of their home, she whispered to Allah:
“O Allah, guide my husband. Grant him mercy, patience, and understanding. Protect our home, protect my heart, and help me to endure with wisdom and dignity. Do not let the darkness of anger destroy the love we once had.”
Her prayer was a testament to her strength and faith. She knew that the path ahead would be difficult, yet she refused to give up. Her love for Ibrahim, though tested, remained steadfast. Her resolve to maintain her dignity and patience became the cornerstone of her survival in a home that had transformed from a sanctuary into a battleground.
To be continue.........
© AHMAD ZAHIR ENAGI ABU KHALIF STORY
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