AbdurRahman

 ﷽ ➖➖➖ *WATERING DOWN THE DEEN!* ➖➖➖ *Are You Ashamed of Your Religion?* ➖➖➖ *Watch on YouTube:* https://youtu.be/F1HRLy99JD8 ➖➖➖ How sad is our situation now The Muslims are ashamed of their religion While Non-muslims will openly tattoo Kufr on their skin. _ What is wrong with us? You're ashamed because the same society that hated homosexuals 50 years ago, now likes them and calls you Homophobic because Prophet ﷺ spoke against homosexuality?  _ You're ashamed because they say Polygamy is Misogynistic and Prophet ﷺ encouraged it?  _ You're ashamed because you have been fed the filth of liberal democracy and you can no longer stomach a Khilafah?  _ You're ashamed and repulsed because your religion says cut off the hand of the thief, stone the married adulterer and execute or imprison the Person who doesn't pray Salah?  _ You're embarrassed because your Religion doesn't permit you to deal in Ribaa (Interest)? Because it orders you to have Gheerah over your wom...

 ﷽🔞🔞🔞  Guidelines To Intimacy In Islam Episode 30 Haircuts As far as hairstyles are concerned we as men should bear the following in mind: a) It is permissible for one to shave off all the hair or trim the hair of the head. b) Qaza’ is not permissible (partially shaving one’s hair and leaving the rest  unshaven.  c) It is not permissible to have hair that are attributed and affiliated with a specific  religious group, cult or clique.  d) It is not permissible for a person to don a certain hairstyle with the intention of imitating a non-Muslim or sinner. e) It is not permissible for one to have unusual hair, i.e. hair that make one ‘stand out from the crowd’.

 THE DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDERS.  Yaum al-ithnayn. 25th day of Sha’abaan. (Monday, 28th of March, 2022). *_DIFFICULTIES MAY BE BLESSINGS FOR US_*. BismilLah.  For those who are under Allah's test and going through any sort of difficulties or suffering, I say be patient and still say Alhamdulillah in all situations because as muslims all our sufferings expiate for our sins says the prophet. Alhamdulillah.  Sheikh Al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah said: 'A calamity that makes you turn to Allah is better for you than a blessing which makes you forget the remembrance of Allah.' Thus in our times of trouble, when we go through pain and suffering and in our times of loss, we need to trust ALLAH. We need to keep in mind that as long as we fear HIM and try our best to obey HIM, HE will never do us wrong. HE will protect us and guide us and do the best for us, no matter what the situation apparently looks like. lets trust ALLAH sincerely, HE is enough for us. ALLAH says: 'And when someone p...

 ﷽🔞🔞🔞  Guidelines To Intimacy In Islam Episode 29 Dye It is also permissible, rather recommended, for a man to dye the hair of his head and beard, provided the ingredients used in the hair-dye are Halaal. The best form of hair dye to be applied to the head or beard is henna.  Sayyiduna Abu Dharr relates that Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam said: 'The best dye to change [one's] old age (grey hair), is henna (a red plant dye) and katm (a type of grass-Katam is a plant that is used to dye the hair. When mixed with henna it gives the hair a colour between black and red.)." (Sunan al-Tirmidhi 1753 and others) However, using pure black hair-dye is not permitted or at the least disliked according to most Hanafi and Shafi jurists (fuqaha), even for the purpose of adorning oneself for one's wife. (Radd al-Mukhtar and Al-Majmu') Rasulullaah صلى الله عليه وسلم said, " ... Abstain from using black dye." (Sahih Muslim 2102) The hair which grows on the cheeks ...

 PREPARING FOR RAMADHAAN-THE MONTH OF MERCY As the dawn of Ramadhaan approaches, offering us glimpse of its golden rays of purity, every Muslim around the world prepares to experience the warm ambience which only this month can bring. From Suhoor to Iftaar to Taraaweeh Salaah, Ramadhaan brings together brothers, sisters, parents and children. In order to derive the utmost benefit from the sacred month of Ramadhaan, it is crucial to recognize the spiritual significance and importance of this month. A Hadith so beautifully encapsulates:"The reward for every good deed of Adam will be multiplied anywhere between ten and seven hundred times. ALLAH said: 'Except for fasting, because it is for ME and I MYSELF will give recompense for it. He gives up his food and his passion for ME.' For the one who fasts, there are two times of rejoicing, one when he breaks the fast, and one when he meets his Lord. Verily the smell that comes from the mouth of one who is fasting is more pleasing ...

 ﷽🔞🔞🔞  Guidelines To Intimacy In Islam Episode 28 PERSONAL HYGIENE In terms of personal hygiene, the husband should keep the following points in mind: a) Make Istinjaa. After relieving himself, he should clean his genital area properly  with water (Istinja). Rasulullaah صلى الله عليه وسلم included istinja amongst the ten matters of upright natural disposition (fitra), as mentioned earlier. Sayyida 'Ā'ishah (R.A.) addressing Muslim women, said: "Tell your husbands to wash their private parts with water, for I am too shy to tell them so. Rasulullaah صلى الله عليه وسلم used to do that." (Sunan al-Tirmidhi 19) The hands should be washed thoroughly after one relieves oneself, preferably using soap until all traces of impurity (najaasa) are removed. After urinating, a man is required to ensure that drops of urine are completely removed from his urine passage. b) The husband should take special care that he does not have bad body odour. In order to remove bad body odour, ...

 THE DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDERS.  Yaum As-sabt. 23rd day of Sha’abaan. (Saturday, 26th of March, 2022). *_Should I say “Bi-idhnilLah (by ALLAH’s leave)” or “In shaa ALLAH (if ALLAH wills)”? Which of them is better to use if you intend to do something?_*. BismilLah.  One of our respected sheikhs has said that there is no much difference between you saying “In Shaa ALLAH” or “Bi-idhnilLah.”  What is meant by both phrases is very similar, so making something conditional upon ALLAH’s WILL is similar to making it conditional upon HIS LEAVE or PERMISSION. This is because both the general WILL of ALLAH and HIS universal leave and decree are both characteristics of divine Lordship that belong to the Creator, may HE be glorified and exalted. Whatever ALLAH WILLS, HE has permitted it to happen, and whatever HE has permitted to happen, HE has willed that it be created and brought into existence. Thus, the two meanings are synonymous even though ALLAH instructed we say In Shaa ALLA...

﷽ ➖➖➖ *GLORIOUS QUR'AN - THE GUIDING LIGHT* ➖➖➖ *A reminder to those who fear* ➖➖➖  *Watch on YouTube:* https://youtu.be/mSDxM1CrUs8 ➖➖➖ Allah ﷻ says   *طه* _Ta-Ha_ *مَآ أَنَزَلْنَا عَلَيْكَ الْقُرْءَانَ لِتَشْقَى* _We have not sent down the Qur'an unto you to cause you distress,_ [20:1-2] Juwaybir reported that Ad-Dahhak said, "When Allah sent the Qur'an down to His Messenger, he and his Companions adhered to it. Thus, the idolators of the Quraysh said, `This Qur'an was only revealed to Muhammad to cause him distress.' Therefore, Allah revealed this Ayah. Qatadah said "No, by Allah, He did not make it a thing of distress. Rather, He made it a mercy, a light and a guide to Paradise" *إِلاَّ تَذْكِرَةً لِّمَن يَخْشَى* _but only as a Reminder to those who fear_ [20:3] Allah ﷻ revealed His Book and sent His Messenger as a mercy for His servants, so that the person who reflects may be reminded. Thus, a man will benefit from what he hears of the Book of Al...

 THE DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDERS.  Yaumul Jumuat. 22nd day of Sha’abaan. (Friday, 25th of March, 2022). *_THE RIGHT WAY TO RESPOND TO THOSE WHO OFFEND US_*. BismilLah.  If you are having trouble with your family, In laws? Spouse? Relatives?..... The best way to maintain a healthy relationship is to always forgive and forget. No one is perfect. All perfections ONLY belongs to ALLAAH. Whether people speak evil of us, in our presence or behind our back, or they do evil to us in either of those ways, all is known to ALLAH Almighty. It is not for us to punish. Our best course is not to do evil in our turn, but to do what will best repel the evil. Two evils do not make a good. ALLAH Almighty in the Noble Qur'an commands us in several places to return the evil that is done to us by others to not only with good, but with best! ALLAH says in the Quran; "The good deed and the evil deed cannot be equal. Repel (the evil) with one which is better (i.e. ALLAH orders the faithful believers ...

 Pls read   *Can you promise your self to send it to your loved one's if you find the below message beneficial to them* *Rasulullah  Sallallaahu-Alaihi-Wasallam* said  "It Is Better for A Man That A Steel Nail Be Driven Through The Centre Of His Head Rather Than If He Touches The Palm Of A Strange Woman." *Rasulullah  Sallallaahu-Alaihi-Wasallam* said  "I Only Curse 3 Types Of People: *1.* Those People Who Do Not Look After Their Parents When They Are In Old Age *2.* Those People Who Do Not Take Full Advantage Of The Blessed Month Of Ramadan *3.* Those People Who Do Not Say, *"Sallallaahu-Alaihi-Wasallam'* When My Name Is Mentioned." *Rasulullah  Sallallaahu-Alaihi-Wasallam* said  "A Woman Who Reveals Her Body,Wears Tight Fitting Clothes And Flirts With Men Other Than Her Husband Wont Even Have Access To The Fragrance Of *Jannah* (Heaven)." *Rasulullah Sallallaahu Alaihi-Wasallam*   said "An Intelligent Person Is 1 Who Is Constantly...

 ~~~~~~~ Dealing with loveless Marriage ~~~ Disclaimer: This article is long, only those with patience can read, but trust me, it is worth reading. Subhanallah, today we see that there are more loveless marriages than love marriages in our ummah, and this syndrome is breaking our homes and destroying our children. Which is why I chose to comment on this issue today. For starters, it is crucial to understand what a loveless marriage is.  According to Dr Wyatt Fisher, a famous and well-decorated relationship therapist, a loveless marriage is a union of two where one or both partners do not feel in love. Instead of being romantic lovers, they often feel more like roommates or siblings. Being in a loveless marriage often breeds isolation, resentment, and hopelessness.   Lots of factors have contributed to loveless marriages in today's world. It does not matter whether it is a Muslim or non-Muslim home. it can become a cup of tea for anyone. We see how loveless marriages ...

 ﷽🔞🔞🔞  *Guidelines To Intimacy In Islam* Episode 27 MASCULINE BEHAVIOUR Psychological and Physical Preparation Just as she uses her Halaal ways to attract him to her, he too should use Halaal ways to attract her to him. This is her right. Allaah Ta’aala says: ُ "And women shall have rights similar to the rights against them." (Qur'an 2:228) Nevertheless, certain specific issues need to be addressed and examined from the point of view of the husband also: Cleanliness and Personal Hygiene for Men A husband is seriously mistaken if he thinks that his wife will be sexually attracted to him at all costs, even if he is in a dirty, unkempt state, giving off bad odours from his mouth and body. A woman is a sentient (sensitive) creature with feelings and sensitivities even more delicate than that of a man. At times, she may only be  prevented by bashfulness from making her feelings known to her husband. As such, the husband must ensure that he takes the means to keep himself cl...

 ﷽🔞🔞🔞  Guidelines To Intimacy In Islam Episode 26 Her Voice Another natural attractive feature that can be employed by women to sexually arouse her husband is her voice. This is a reality which cannot be denied. Many psychologists also agree, stressing that the voice of an individual plays a great role in arousing sexual desires. This is the reason why Allaah commanded the wives of Rasulullaah صلى الله عليه وسلم in particular, and all Muslim women in general, to abstain from conversing with non-mahram men in a soft and sweet tone. Allaah Ta’aala says: "0 wives of Rasulullaah صلى الله عليه وسلم !You are not like other women, if you are Allaah- fearing. So do not be too soft in your speech, lest someone having a disease in his heart should be moved with desire." (Qur'an 33:32) The above verse commands women not to speak too softly with non-mahram men, and when talking to them, both the content and manner of conversation must be appropriate and free of anything inciting.T...

 ﷽🔞🔞🔞  *Guidelines To Intimacy In Islam* Episode 25 Keeping Fit Part of a woman's adornment for her husband is also keeping fit, in shape and healthy. The wife should look after her body-figure and maintain its beauty as much as possible. Not only will this be a means of her husband being attracted to her body, it will also help her remain healthy. As far as going to a gym is concerned the following points must be borne in mind: 1. It is not permissible for women to go to a mixed gym where the rules of hijab and concealing oneself are not taken into consideration and where there is free intermingling of the sexes. 2. To go to a gym where there are Muslim and non Muslim women leads us to the issue of Hijab or pardah in front of Muslim and non-Muslim women.Bear in mind that the area below the navel and above the knees cannot be exposed in front of Muslim women. (Hidayah p.461 v.4) 3. As far as the non-Muslim Women are concerned, majority of the scholars say that her pardah is...

 ﷽🔞🔞🔞  *Guidelines To Intimacy In Islam* Episode 24 *Unlawful Adornment* However, certain so-called means of adornment that distort one's image are prohibited, even if done for the husband. These include: -cosmetic surgery for the purpose of beautification,  -shaping eyebrows, (trimming them, to make them look neat, is no problem, but turning into question marks is itself a question mark the answer of which is no) -wearing tattoos,  -piercing the body other than the ears and nose,  -and wearing hair extensions and wigs made out of human hair.  As such, these things must be avoided.