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Deepthinking 63/64

 *Deepthinking 63*


Assalamu alaikum warhamatullah wabarakatuhu...  


Hmmmm... 


Astaghfirullah..  

SubhanaAllah...  


One of the worst crime we could do to ourselves is to be lying to ourself..  


I mean lieing to others is quite understandable..  Perhaps you may be doing it for a personal gain...  


But... 


Lieing to your own self... 🤔🤔🤔


What do u stand to benefit??  


On this note I will say..  One who is doing good knows..  And one who is doing bad knows as well...  


And the One who is most aware of that which we do is Allah subhanahu wa taala..  


No matter how beautiful we paint wrong, it's still *Wrong*... 


No matter how ugly the world may paint right...  It's still *Right*... 


You can never..  I mean *NEVER* satisfy humans..  So, don't even sweat it...  


You don't need to lie to yourself..   Face reality and do what is right.. Even if they go against it..   


May Allah subhanahu wa taala make us firm in truth, and goodness..   Aameen Aameen Aameen Aameen 


May Allah azza wa jaal help the oppressed believers... Aameen Aameen Aameen Aameen 


#Ponder 

#Reflect

#Deepthinking 

#Pray4Syria


Ibn Musa

 *Deepthinking 64* 


Assalamu alaikum warhamatullah wabarakatuhu 


Dear brothers and sisters in Islam..  


We should fear Allah subhanahu wa taala regarding the way we treat our in-laws... 


For example we come online to praise our mothers, fathers, husbands and wives as the case may be...  


But please how many of us come online to praise our in-laws???  🤔🤔🤔


Are we saying in-laws are always that bad or they don't deserve praise?? 


When will we begin to post something like..  "my mother in-law is the best", "my father in-law is outstanding" "my in-laws rock"... Etc 


The same way we post for our parents...  Especially spouses..  


Our in-laws passed through a lot just like our parents to ensure they give the best to our spouse, making him/her the best we enjoy today..  


After marriage we shouldn't throw them away..  


They are an important part of what has become of our spouse..  


They have sacrificed and passed through pain for the sake of your husband/wife.. 


Why then do you think they are the part of your problem when you are not doing the right thing??  


They loved their daughter so much yet gave her to you in marriage..  And for years you deprived her of visiting them and you didn't invite them...  


They were supportive to see your marriage to their son come through..  Yet, you think he should give you the whole time he has and stop going to the family house...  


Fisabilillah are we been fair...  


We treat our parents highly, yet our in-laws are not too important..  


Are they not like parents to you??  


Perhaps when we correct our relationships with our in-laws we would have less marital problems..  


Give your in-laws gifts..  Visit them and encourage your spouse to treat them well...  


It's natural that they react when they realize you seem to be taking their child (son/daughter) away completely..  While they are both alive..  


Your management however is essential..  

Call them on phone..  Greet them and be nice to them just like you do to your parents.. 


May Allah subhanahu wa taala bless our homes..  Aameen Aameen Aameen Aameen




#Ponder

#Reflect

#Amend

#Change 

#Deepthinking 


Ibn Musa

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