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Deepthinking 71/72

 *Deepthinking 71*


_*Do you know who I am😡?*_


This question usually comes rhetorically..  Only to  let the other person feel frightened and alert them perhaps that we are someone..  


Someone great, important, influential and can do or undo... 


We make it seem like we have the power to make their life miserable or a living hell...  


But in reality.. 


Who are we??  


We are that person whom like others go to toilet..  


We are that person who is in need of food and can do nothing when hungry..  


We cannot even produce the oxygen we breath..  


We can do nothing when outnumbered.. 


Common mosquito will deal with us at night and we are helpless..  


We walk today but will become old and helpless tomorrow..  


Now tell me...  


Who are you? Other than the slave of Allah azza wa jaal and born of a woman??  


From dust to dust..  


Your grave awaits o sons of man..  


Humility pays... 


You don't own your life..  


Bragging about it is too much pride..  


You can't create a fly..  You don't even have license to produce money..  


May Allah subhanahu wa taala grant us all understanding and increase us in humility..  Aameen Aameen 


Be humble son of man, born of a woman..  




#Ponder

#Reflect

#Humility

#No_Pride

#Deepthinking 


Ibn Musa

 *Deepthinking 72*


Assalamu alaikum warhamatullah wabarakatuhu.. 


Their can't be smoke without a fire as they use to say...  


In our previous broadcast, we looked at how we as spouses should treat our in-laws..  We established that we should understand that they are like a family to us..  Our father and mother in-law especially..  Are like parents to us and we should treat them as we would want our spouse to treat our own parents..  


O in-laws..  Fear Allah..  Your daughter in-law is not your slave... She is not your maid..  Your son married her as his companion, not to serve the entire family..  


Their is no such thing as "our wife".. 


It's his wife..  How many of us pray that our daughters are treated the way we treat our daughter in-law...??  


And to you the in-laws of the man..  He is not your ATM..   He is not there to begin to carry responsibilities of the entire family or even pay for the school fees of a third cousin..  Habaa fear Allah..  


If we all keep to limits..  Then we would have a better and peaceful extended family..  


Don't force others to chew things you won't even take close to your nose..  


Their was life before your son/daughter in law came..  There would be life after they are gone..  Live in peace..  Don't make the other take what you won't take..  


May Allah subhanahu wa taala forgive our shortcomings and bless our homes...  Aameen Aameen Aameen Aameen 


Keep your ties..  Do not severe ties..  



BarakaAllahu feekum.. 


Jazakumullahu khairan 


Assalamu alaikum warhamatullah wabarakatuhu 


#Ponder

#Reflect

#Deepthinking 

#In-laws 

#Peace

#Love


Ibn Musa

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