Name Ur Child Aisha* [[---- Part 5-of-16 ----]]

 *Name Ur Child Aisha*

[[---- Part 5-of-16 ----]]
---------------------------------

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

Nana Aʾishah is *"An ideal Wife"*. Yes. As a wife of the Prophet (PBUH), She adopted a great position. She became a model for all women anywhere and in any time. She relieved the Prophet's grief when he was suffering the hardship of life and whenever he faced opposition in spreading the message of Allah.

She endured poverty and hunger with the Prophet (PBUH). According to many sources, it is said that they both spent two or three months without cooking. All what they feed on were just dates and water.

*Lessons:*

Endurance in marriage and it's benefits

Marriage is an act of worship and its success depends on the sacrifices and endurance exhibited by the couples especially wives. Yes. Gone are the days when the successes of every marriage depends on the husband's patient, endurance and support. Today, the opposite is the case. The success of every marriage depends on the patient, endurance and how supportive the wife is.

Being supportive does not completely mean a wife contributing financially to the smooth running of the family, No!.. It means having abilities to swallow every hardship in marriage. If the husband's pocket is wet, she shower love. If the pocket is dry, she shower more love.

My People!

The earlier we understand and believe that marriage is not a business institution where a man or woman pick up "Calculator" to calculate profit & loss, then, the better for everyone. Yes. Everything in marriage institution is profit profit profit and profit (if the parties prepare their minds beyond worldly gains).

▪️ Children or no children, if the couples are God conscious in their union and do alot of good deeds together, the profit of gaining access to entering Paradise is bigger than any other profit. After all, Nana Aʾishah did not give birth to any child, yet she was an examplary figure no one can compete with.

▪️ Whether there's good food or not, whether there's comfortable accommodation or not, whether your husband buy you good clothes every festive period or not, what awaits you in the Hearafter as compensation for enduring and supporting your husband is bigger and better.. After all, *(1)* Nana Aʾishah reported that there used to be 2 to 3 months without cooking in the Prophet Muhammad's house. They used to survive ONLY on dates and water, *(2)* If the room of Nana Aʾishah is spacious enough, the Prophet Muhammad will not be pushing her legs before he sees space for sujood during Tahajjud time, *(3)* The glorious Qur'an have told us that, there was a time a woman brought items and clothes for sale to the Prophet's house. All his wives pick different items and asked the Prophet Muhammad to buy it for them, and it happens that the Prophet was not having money. Allah (swt) revealed a verse immediately telling Prophet Muhammad's wives to choose between Paradise and those items. All of them immediately dropped those items.

Evidence:

"O Prophet, say to your wives, "If you should desire the worldly life and its adornment, then come, I will provide for you and give you a gracious release." 📚Al-Ahzab 33:28

"But  if you should desire Allah and His Messenger and the home of the Hereafter -  then indeed, Allah has prepared for the doers of good among you a great reward." 📚Al-Ahzab 33:29

Now,

All these happened in our beloved Prophet's house, not because Allah (swt) can't make him rich, but so that we pick lessons from it.

My People!

Even though you're unfortunate to be married to a weeked, irresponsible or ill mannered man, if you swallow his mischief with the intention of expecting compensation from Allah (swt), Wallahi you will never see your marriage as a failure.

My Sister In Islam!

Due to the patient, enduring nature if Nana Aʾishah exhibited in her marriage.......

TO BE CONTINUED