Name Ur Child Aisha* [[---- Part 9-of-16 ----]]

 *Name Ur Child Aisha*

[[---- Part 9-of-16 ----]]
---------------------------------

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

A group of ‘munafiqs’ (hypocrite's) leader, Abdullah bin Ubai along with other hypocrites, made use of simple incident which happened when Nana Aʾishah forgot her necklace and returned back to search for it, which made her missed walking with the group of army. They expressed their evil intention by Slandering Nana Aʾishah that she stayed behind to commit zina with a pious companion of the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH)

But,

Nana Aisha (r.a.) was neither afraid nor worried about these rumors. She knew that she was innocent and that Allah (swt) would not treat her unjustly.

Then,

Allah (swt) sent Revelation to the Prophet (PBUH) to wash Nana Aʾishah off the allegations.

Allah clearly declared in the verses of Quran (Surah Nur-24: Verses 11-20) that Aisha (r.a.) was innocent. Thus, Allah told His Messenger (PBUH) in these verses that what was said about Aisha bint Abi Bakr (r.a.) was nothing but slander.

*Lessons:*

The above event provided many key lessons.

*Lesson No 1:* The Prophet’s ordeal and challenge until the verses were revealed

The Prophet's conduct and attitude proved beyond any doubt his moral purity, nobility, fairness, tolerance and forbearance. If he had wished, he could have punished the people responsible for the attack severely. But he bore everything with patience until the Divine injunction came down from Allah (swt). Later, he enforced the punishment only on those three Muslims whose guilt was established, and spared the hypocrites who were responsible for spreading the mischief.

My People!

Sometimes, we may found ourselves in a similar situation. We are not supposed to jump into conclusion to crucifying our spouse. The husband or wife should give little time to verify whether our partner is guilty of any allegation or not guilty. Yes. If the Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him did not calm down, he wouldn't have found out the truthfulness of the matter.

Today, upon hearing the sad news about our spouses (husband or wife), we will just jump into believing the rumors. Yes. Forgetting that our enemies, who want to tear our marriage may not be known by face.

*Lesson No 2:* Aisha (R.A.)’s family’s response

Abu Bakr and his family responded to the slander against their daughter with dignified silence in spite of being convinced of their daughter’s moral character and the falsity of the accusation.

Abu Bakr’s financially supported his own relative, Mistah bin Uthatha.. So, after the revelation of verses 11-21 of Surah Nour absolving her from the accusation, Abu Bakr swore that he would no longer support Mistah bin Uthatha. This was because the man had shown no regard for the relationship nor for the favors that Abu Bakr had all along been showing him and his family. At this verse 22 of Surah Noor was revealed:

وَلَا يَأْتَلِ أُو۟لُوا۟ ٱلْفَضْلِ مِنكُمْ وَٱلسَّعَةِ أَن يُؤْتُوٓا۟ أُو۟لِى ٱلْقُرْبَىٰ وَٱلْمَسَٰكِينَ وَٱلْمُهَٰجِرِينَ فِى سَبِيلِ ٱللَّهِۖ وَلْيَعْفُوا۟ وَلْيَصْفَحُوٓا۟ۗ أَلَا تُحِبُّونَ أَن يَغْفِرَ ٱللَّهُ لَكُمْۗ وَٱللَّهُ غَفُورٌ رَّحِيمٌ

"And let not those of virtue among you and wealth swear not to give [aid] to their relatives and the needy and the emigrants for the cause of Allah, and let them pardon and overlook. Would you not like that Allah should forgive you? And Allah is Forgiving and Merciful". 📚An-Nur 24:22

On hearing this verse, Abu Bakr immediately said: *"By God! We do want that Allah should forgive us."* And he again started helping Mistah more than before.

Today,

Your wife or husband offended you and instead of forgiving, you chose to punish him or her. This is un-islamic.

*Lesson No 3:* The response of the other wives of the Prophet....

TO BE CONTINUED