*Name Ur Child Aisha*
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بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم
When the Prophet (pbuh) became ill, after returning from the farewell pilgrimage, he felt that he was about to die. He (pbuh) began to ask his wives whose home/room he was to stay in next. ‘All the wives - the mothers of faithful’ eventually figured out that he was trying to determine when he was due with Nana Aisha (r.a.) and the remaining wives then allowed him to retire in the Nana Aisha's house.
The Prophet (pbuh), then moved to Nana Aisha's home/room who took care of him day and night.
At the last moment of the Prophet's life, his head was placed on Nana Aisha's knees and his last breath was taken as he lay in the arms of Nana Aisha (ra).
Muslim Faithful!
Al-Dhahabi quoted a saying of the Prophet (pbuh) that, a Prophet's soul leaves its body in the place that he likes the best. Thus it is proven he (pbuh) died in his favorite place, the apartment of Nana Aishah (r.a.), and was buried where he died, in Nana Aisha’s home/room.
*Lessons:*
Every Obedient Wife Is Rewarded in This World & The Next.
Just as Allah (swt) and His Messenger (pbuh) commanded the man to be good in cohabitation (معاشرة) with his wife. Equally, Allah (swt) and His Messenger (pbuh) also commanded the woman to be good in cohabitation with her husband, obeying him and guarding chastity in his absence.
Nana Aisha (r.a.) reported: I asked the Messenger of Allah (pbuh): أي الناس أعظم حقاً على المرأة “Which person has the most right upon a woman?” He (pbuh) replied: «زوجها» “Her husband....” 📚 Authentic Hadith
Therefore,
The Islamic Sharee'ah stresses that the wife is under the obligation of obeying her husband. This remains unless he commands her to disobey Allah (swt).
*Working Class Wives:*
When a man and a woman come together in marriage and live together, there are bound to be differences in opinion between them, and one party must have the final say in order to resolve the issue, otherwise the differences will multiply and disputes will increase. So, there has to be someone in charge, otherwise the marriage will founder.. Hence, Islam made the husband the in-charge irrespective of whether he is earning more than the wife or less than the wife.
This is supported by the Hadeeth where the Prophet (pbuh), said: *“If the woman performs the five daily prayers, fasts the month of Ramadan, maintains her chastity and obeys her husband, she will enter the Paradise.”* 📚 Authentic Hadith
Sisters In Islam!
The fact that u are doing some businesses or working to earn salary does not give u right to RUB SHOULDER with ur husband. Yes. U may even earn 10X than him per month, he is still the COMMANDER IN CHIEF of the house, and should be respected.. Haven't you think about why u are married out by ur parents❓ Madam❗If it's JUST about food, clothing or shelter, your parents wouldn't have married u out. And this is why he should be fully respected irrespective of his income. And you should not talk to him harshly,, do not abuse him,, do not be inattentive to him,, and do not call him by any obscene titles ESPECIALLY infront of kids or visitors.
To end this episode,
Prophet's paternal aunt came to him (pbuh) for something and he dealt with her need, then the Prophet said: “Do you have a husband?” She said, “Yes.” He said: “How are you with him?” She said, “I do not neglect any of his rights except those I am unable to fulfil.” He said: “Look at how you are with him, for he is your paradise and your hell” 📚 Ahmad 19025
سبحانك اللهم وبحمدك نشهد ان لا اله الا انت نستغفرك ونتوابوااليك
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