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A GOOD ATTITUDE IS A GREAT BLESSING

*A GOOD ATTITUDE IS A GREAT BLESSING*

*"And verily, your Lord will give you (all good) so that you shall be well-pleased." [Qur'an 93:5]*

People are the mirror of the individual. If he behaves well towards them they will behave well towards him, so his nerves will be calmed, and he will be content, and he will feel that he is living in a friendly environment.

But if a person treats others badly and is harsh towards them, he will find that people treat him badly and in a rough and harsh manner. Whoever does not respect people will not be respected by them.

The one who has a good attitude will have more peace of mind and is less likely to be anxious and distressed or find himself in painful situations. In addition to that, having a good attitude is an act of worship to Allāh, the Exalted, and is something that He encourages a great deal.

Allāh, the Exalted, says:

*"Show forgiveness, enjoin what is good, and turn away from the ignorant. [Qur'an 7: 199]*

*"And by the Mercy of Allāh, you dealt with them gently. And had you been severe and harsh-hearted, they would have broken away from about you; so pass over (their faults), and ask (Allāh's) forgiveness for them; and consult them in the affairs. Then when you have taken a decision, rely upon Allāh, certainly, Allāh loves those who rely (upon Him)." [Qur'an 3: 159]*

The Messenger of Allāh (Blessings and Peace be upon him) said: *"The most beloved of you to me are those who are best in attitude and humble, who get along with people and people get along with them. The most disliked of you to me are those who walk around spreading malicious gossip and causing division between friends, those who seek out the faults of the innocent."*

*Hesitation, languor and going around a problem without hope, all lead to nervous breakdown."*

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