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Let's Change Our Mindsets About Marriage* *Episode 215 MARRIAGE IS A TEST

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*Let's Change Our Mindsets About Marriage*


*Episode 215*


*MARRIAGE IS A TEST*


Brothers and sisters, If you think your spouse is making your life difficult, then do these. Forget about the pain, forget about the discomfort, forget about the loneliness, remember, the Messenger of Allāh (Blessings and Peace of Allāh be upon him) underwent more than any human being could bear, yet He was patient and he emerged victorious. And today, 2 billion people are worshipping the right God because of his patience. So my brothers and sisters, be patient, for, by Allah, your patience will be hugely rewarded by Allah, and guess what, in the day of Qiyamah, you will be amongst those who will be sheltered by the shade of Allah. You will smile and laugh while your oppressor is crying and regretting. So be patient. Marriage itself is a test.


By Allah, By Allah, if any Man, takes a second wife, with the intention to simply keep her as a sex object, without giving her her due rights, By Allah, that man will be questioned or even punished by Allah in the day of judgement. Marriage is not a joke my brothers. It is not something done to fulfill sexual lust. Marriage is an ibadah. Don't marry women that you cannot even show to your family members because you were not honest from the beginning. Don't bring children to this world when you cannot treat them like other children. It is unfair and it is haram. Make it halal brothers. When you marry a woman and hide her it kills her. It causes pain. Every woman likes to be respected. Fear Allah brothers and stop this nonsense.

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