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Guidelines To Intimacy In Islam
Episode 38
Love Bites
Biting or sucking hard on one's spouse's body can leave marks, or love bites, particularly on the neck. These bruises are the result of burst blood vessels beneath the skin and last between 4 to 5 days, depending on the individual.
From an Islamic perspective, public display of affection is not permitted. Likewise,
anything that hints at a sexual encounter is frowned upon. Islam emphasises modesty and dignity, and prohibits acts that could lead to immorality.
'Sayyiduna 'Abdullāh Ibn 'Umarrelates that Rasulullaah صلى الله عليه وسلم passed by a man of the Ansaaar who was reprimanding his brother regarding shyness (Hayaa), so Rasulullaah صلى الله عليه وسلم said:
"Leave him, for modesty is from faith (Imaan)." (al-Bukhari 24)
Sayyiduna Abu Sa'id Al-Khudri relates that Rasulullaah صلى الله عليه وسلم said:
"The most evil of people in the sight of Allaah Ta’aala on the Day of Judgement is the man who has sex with his wife and she has sex with him, then he reveals her secret." (Sahih Muslim 1437)
Based on this, if a love bite is left on a part of the body that is normally covered, such as the stomach or back, then this is permitted. However, leaving a mark on an exposed area so that people can conclude what took place between the spouses is not permitted. If a mark is left on the neck, proper care must be taken to cover it until the mark disappears.
It is contrary to Islam to show off that their spouse left a mark on their body. This is unlawful behaviour.
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