*Dear Parents,*
What am about to say is very sad and disturbing, so bear with me.
When Allah Ta'alah gives us the responsibility of being parents it comes with a lot of sacrifices such as: behaving very well and appropriately, abstaining from bad habits, and engaging in all forms of goodness. I am not saying a parent cannot make a mistake, but i mean, parents should minimise making mistakes.
There are a lot of mistakes that parents make that affect their children emotionally, spiritually, morally and psychologically. There are some mistakes that change the mindset of children and turn them into bad people. For example:
When a child finds out that his parents are committing zina and that some of their children are not theirs. This is difficult for the children. And it can affect them badly in future and even in present times. Or when parents are harming other people in front of their children, it conveys a very bad message. Or when parents are abusing each other, for sure their children will find abusing other people's children especially women as normal.
But the one that hurts me the most is when parents are cheating in their marriage. This breaks the heart wallahi. And it destroys the relationship of parents and children. And it has severe effects on the society at large. As a mother or father, you should lead the way for your children. And mind you, wallahi lots of children know their parents are cheating. Don't take your children for granted. They are smart and they know it. I have listened to complaints of many victims who cried in front of me bcos they don't know how to change their parents. Mum and Dad, you are hurting your kids. Stop it.
All i want all parents to know is this, in the day of judgment, there will be judgement between parents and their children. And wallahi if you harm your child Allah will not make it easy for you. Bcos your children deserve a good parent. And remember, they are an amana to you. They are not yours. They belong to Allah.
To all those brothers and sisters whose parents are into one or two things, we pray to Allah to guide our parents, to guide us too, and to prevent us from mischief. Amin.
What am about to say is very sad and disturbing, so bear with me.
When Allah Ta'alah gives us the responsibility of being parents it comes with a lot of sacrifices such as: behaving very well and appropriately, abstaining from bad habits, and engaging in all forms of goodness. I am not saying a parent cannot make a mistake, but i mean, parents should minimise making mistakes.
There are a lot of mistakes that parents make that affect their children emotionally, spiritually, morally and psychologically. There are some mistakes that change the mindset of children and turn them into bad people. For example:
When a child finds out that his parents are committing zina and that some of their children are not theirs. This is difficult for the children. And it can affect them badly in future and even in present times. Or when parents are harming other people in front of their children, it conveys a very bad message. Or when parents are abusing each other, for sure their children will find abusing other people's children especially women as normal.
But the one that hurts me the most is when parents are cheating in their marriage. This breaks the heart wallahi. And it destroys the relationship of parents and children. And it has severe effects on the society at large. As a mother or father, you should lead the way for your children. And mind you, wallahi lots of children know their parents are cheating. Don't take your children for granted. They are smart and they know it. I have listened to complaints of many victims who cried in front of me bcos they don't know how to change their parents. Mum and Dad, you are hurting your kids. Stop it.
All i want all parents to know is this, in the day of judgment, there will be judgement between parents and their children. And wallahi if you harm your child Allah will not make it easy for you. Bcos your children deserve a good parent. And remember, they are an amana to you. They are not yours. They belong to Allah.
To all those brothers and sisters whose parents are into one or two things, we pray to Allah to guide our parents, to guide us too, and to prevent us from mischief. Amin.
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