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Are you a husband?

:::::::Are you a husband?:::::::

بِسْــــــــــــــــــمِ اللَّهِ الرَّحْمَنِ الرَّحِيم

If you are a husband this is for you.
Many times we receive compains from loving wives about their husbands. These wives are not actually complaining about maltreatment or abuse. Instead, they are complaining about the fact that their husband is not religious enough. So let me tell you what your good wife thinks and feels about your behaviour towards your religion and character.

-★-She feels very bad that you don't observe salah on time or you don't even perform completely.
-★-She feels bad that you are not taking lead because naturally, you should be showing good examples. A leader should lead by example.
-★-And she is feeling bad that your children wont be able to do good enough bcos you are also not doing it good enough.
-★-Maybe you have bad habits such as drinking or maybe you don't stay at home all day, you only come home to sleep when everyone is asleep.

As a matter of fact, only a good wife thinks in this direction. Most of these types of wives are feeling bad for you based on the saying of Allah, I quote:

 O you who have believed, protect yourselves and your families from a Fire whose fuel is people and stones, over which are [appointed] angels, harsh and severe; they do not disobey Allah in what He commands them but do what they are commanded.[66:6]

So your good loving wife is trying to save you from falling into the trap of Allah's punishment. Please don't be mad at her, she loves you and she wants you to be the best.
If you know you are that type of husband, it is not too late to go home and ask her to forgive you for all the troubles you have caused due to her attempt to correct you.

May Allah Ta'alah guide us. Amin.

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