Let's Change Our Mindsets About Marriage Episode 245 GOLDEN RULES FOR A RIGHTEOUS WOMAN

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*Let's Change Our Mindsets About Marriage*

*Episode 245*

*GOLDEN RULES FOR A RIGHTEOUS WOMAN*

1). Don't expose your husband's weaknesses to your family and friends. You are each other's keeper.

2). Never use attitudes and moods to communicate to your husband, you never know how he may interpret them.

3). Never compare your husband with other man, you've no idea what their life is all about.

4). Never forget you married him, he is your husband not your maid. Treat him like a king and he will show the world you are a queen, and you will reign in his life forever.

5). Never assign anyone to give attention to your husband, people may do everything else for him, but he is your personal responsibility.

6). Never blame your husband in public even if he was wrong. Rather protect him, encourage him and correct him in private and he will never forget you.

7). Never pretend to be sick/ tired/ not in the

mood for the purpose of denying him sex, another woman is looking and wishing for such opportunity with him, one woman's meat....

8). Never compare your husband with your one time sex mate or ex-husband in bed.

9). Never shout or challenge your husband in front of your children, it is not a good up-bringing, you are their teacher, they are carefully watching you even though you think they are just kids.

10). Don't forget to check your husband's dressing before he checks out of the house. You are each other's representation.

11). Never allow your friends to be too close to

your husband. You may never know their intentions. Set boundaries.

12). Never be in a hurry in the bathroom and on

the dressing mirror. Out there your husband is always surrounded by women who took their time on their looks.

13). Your parents, friends & families do not have the final say about your husband. Don't waste your time looking up to them for a final word. Be in charge of marriage.

14). Never base your love for your husband on

circumstances or condition even if you married him on those bases, now that he is your husband love him unconditionally. Circumstances or condition may change and if that remains your base, it will destroy your marriage.

15). Your husband needs attention and good listener like a babe, never be too harsh on him but rather listen and give him your attention.

16). Don't compare yourself with your husband. he is male, rather complement him, marriage is a teamwork.

17). Don't be too judgemental of your husband, he is your helpmate and the weaker sex. See him as such and your mind will relax.

18). A lazy wife is a careless wife. She

doesn't even know her body needs a bath. Keep

good body and oral hygiene i.e, your mouth and body always smelling fresh whenever you are together, poor mouth and body hygiene will irritate him, though he may not tell you.

19). Don't associate yourself with women who have wrong mental attitude and opinion about marriage. Unless you want to be like them, bad company corrupt good manners.

20). Your husband is as valuable to you as the value you place on him, Keep fresh; the pictures of a him that led to your marriage Recklessness and mental torture is unacceptable. Except you want it done to your uncle or son.

21). Fruit of the womb is a blessing from the

Lord, love your husband; children or no children,

irrespective of their gender teach them the ways of Allah, they will not depath from it even in old age.

22). You are never too old to influence your husband never keep malice with him, your marriage will be as peaceful as you want it to be. Never reduce

your care for your husband and children because of a strange woman or for any reason, they are you and you are them.

23). A prayerful wife is a better equipped

Wife, pray always, pray for your husband and

children, your children are your future.

Consciously and Deliberately Do This Things and You Will Have a Glorious Marriage.

Share it to all sisters and brothers pls.

May Allah bless you all. Ameen