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*Let's Change Our Mindsets About Marriage*
*Episode 246*
*DEAR BROTHERS,*
If you're serious, take her in marriage if you're a practicing brother otherwise keep your hands AWAY from another man's future wife!
There is natural hesitation sometimes associated with marriage which is meaningless. Don't make marriage a hard issue it's an easy thing to do, so either go and get married or leave her alone if you have no intentions to marry the lady.
Get married, plan in a ḥalāl way and be sincere in your aim and when you're sincere in your aim, as known from Ibn Qayyim, you will find the support of Allāh عزوجل surrounding you.
If you can not marry her, stop pushing her to Hellfire and consuming her precious time which she should be using in a beneficial way. Do not push someone's daughter in harm by indulging in ḥarām conversations, and keep in mind it is not lawful for you at all to speak to her in any ways which are not permitted.
She's a creation of Allāh, so fear Him and keep your hands far away from another man's daughter.
DEAR SISTERS, keep in mind, that a man has nothing for you if he has not taken you in marriage, and if all what he's interested in, is any sort of ḥarām, does not want marriage and so on, then steer clear of this evil doer. Any man can say sweet words but actions speak louder than words, but the Islamic attitudes of a man speaks even louder. Keep in mind you're selecting your child's father, so ask yourself, is he going to help them to Paradise or will push them to Hell because of his mentality and personality? There are a lot of clever deceivers and ignorant people who fool women but never really want marriage so be careful. Marry ONLY a practising Muslim with good character, the one who is willing to provide for you.
For the brother: stop yourself from speaking to her and stop harming His creation. Make sincere du'ā for yourself and do not fall in ḥarām.
I ask Allāh to ease your affairs, and grant you righteous spouses who will give you happiness in ḥalāl (lawful) way both Here and the Hereafter. Ameen
Jazaka Allahu khayran
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