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Let's Change Our Mindsets About Marriage. Episode 247 THE PIOUS WIFE AND THE PIOUS HUSBAND

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*Let's Change Our Mindsets About Marriage*


*Episode 247*


*THE PIOUS WIFE AND THE PIOUS HUSBAND*


♡ The Pious Wife


Marriage to her is one half of the deen.

The benefit Allaah has put in her is yet to be seen.

She wears her hijab for her Lord, to please and obey, She turns to Allaah for salaah at least five times each day.


She prays in the night and makes sure to awake you, And sprinkles you with water if sleep should overtake you

She protects her chastity with firmness because she does not desire to displease Allaah and end up in the tormenting fire.


She asks the people who know when matters need to be rectified.

She is not blinded by self righteousness and foolish pride.

She is humble and kind to her husband as Allaah has commanded.

Never leaving him alone, isolated, nor stranded.


She opens her mouth only to say what is best,

Not questioning her husband when he makes a request. She takes care of herself and never ceases to try

To beautify herself so to please his eye.


She is a pleasure Allaah has given to us in this life

Be thankful to Allaah alone for His blessing, THE PIOUS WIFE


♡ The Pious Husband


Marriage to him is one half of the deen

To please Allaah (swt) is more than a dream.


He wears his beard for his Lord, to please and obey

He turns to Allah for Salah at least five times a day.


He prays in the night and makes sure to wake you, And strives during daylight to provide and protect you.


He lowers his gaze with firmness because he does not desire

To displease Allaah and face His just ire


He asks advice from the ummah, and his wife too, Before making decisions that he might later rue.


To his wife he is humble and always most kind

Sharing his burdens with strength and clear mind.


He opens his mouth only to say what is best

Weighing all options ‘fore denying a request.


He takes care of himself and family too

Knowing that Allaah (swt) will see them through.


He is a pleasure from Allaah above

Be thankful to Allaah and His blessings through love.


~ May Allaah instil in us the qualities mentioned above. Aamiiiiiiin Yaa Rabb

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