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Let's Change Our Mindsets About Marriage* *Episode 182* *SLEEPING AND SPENDING OUTSIDE, AND GIVING EXCUSES

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*Let's Change Our Mindsets About Marriage*

*Episode 182*

*SLEEPING AND SPENDING OUTSIDE, AND GIVING EXCUSES*

You know... It is a sad reality that the majority of men today cheat. I personally conducted a social test and wallahi the outcome shocked me. Men whom you never thought could cheat are cheating. I m not saying all men cheat. But majority cheat, whether you know or you don't. 

But the most disturbing issue is how men sleep outside, spend on a prostitute, then come home and start to give an excuse. His wife is starving of sex, she wants to intimate him, but every time she comes he gives an excuse such as:

"I am tired, I cant perform"
"I having back pain"
"I am sick my stomach is paining me"
etc

Some cant even spend $1 on their own wife. But when you read their text messages, they lodge expensive hotel rooms which are enough to feed his family for months. Some you see them buying expensive iPhone x for a girl they sleep with, and leaving their wives with nothing to eat.

Wallahi this is dangerous my brother. Wallahi you will bear the consequences of your action. You married an innocent girl, separated her from her family, separated her from her home and friends, and then after doing so, you can't even make her happy? And you think Allah will go easy on you? No! No! Wallahi you will not succeed in this world. Even if you see life moving smoothly, Wallahi you are eating your reward in Dunya, you won't eat it in akhira. And Allah will never put barakah in your sustenance.

However, It is not too late. You can always repent. You can say sorry to her, change, make her happy. Wallahi my dear brothers, your inaction as a husband is what is triggering other women into committing Zina. And Wallahi, by Allah, you will share the sin with her, Bcos you didn't serve your responsibility. So go and make it right.

May Allah guide us. 
If you are a lady, share with me.



{To be continued In-sha-Allāh (If Allāh Wills)...}


"And keep reminding, because reminding benefits the believers." (Qur-ān 51:55)

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