Let's Change Our Mindsets About Marriage* *Episode 326* *I AM A SUBMISSIVE WIFE!!!* (what about you?)

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*Let's Change Our Mindsets About Marriage*

*Episode 326*

*I AM A SUBMISSIVE WIFE!!!*

(what about you?)

I find pleasure, joy, and fulfillment from being submissive to my Husband, you free to think I'm Timid or weak; but isn't it better to be Timid than be Stupid? I am a strong woman, with firm views and a clear concept of what I want out of my life. I do not serve out of shame or weakness, but out of pride and strength.

I will look to my loving Husband for guidance and protection, for never will I be more complete than when He is with me. I am good to go at Fajir and ready to work and walk with Him like a Muhajir. I know that He will protect my body, my mind, and my soul with His strength and wisdom. He is everything to me, as I am everything to Him.

His touch awakens me and His thoughts free me. Only in loving Him do I find complete freedom and joy. Are you Jealous? You had better be Serious in taking care of your husband, than be Jealous! His punishments may be harsh, but I accept them thankfully, knowing that He has my best interests always foremost in His mind.

That He strives to obey Allaah and follow the path of His Messenger gives me peace at mind, joy at Heart. If He desires my body for pleasure, I shall joyfully give it to Him and take pleasure myself from knowing that I have brought Him happiness. However, the pleasure of the flesh is but one facet of our partnership. The love, the trust, the sharing, the words spoken and felt; those are all parts of it too.

My body is His, and if He says I am beautiful, then i am. No matter what I look like to others, what I look to Him is what matters to me most. Hence, I hold my head high! My mind is His, to expand, to explore, to know only as He can. I have no secrets from Him… for secrets are a thing that would keep me from being more perfectly His.

Secrets would put a wall up between my Husband and myself, and I do not want walls, if you tell me something, be sure, He already knows. His lessons are not always ones I would seek on my own, but they are lessons He has decided that I need, and so I learn from Him. My soul is His, as bare to His touch as ever my skin could be when I calls on me. Never a moment goes by when I do not feel His presence, be He miles away or standing just next to me.

If I were to ever displease Him, His displeasure would be a blow to my soul, worse punishment than any lashes could be. The anguish of my soul that I feel when I hurt Him is harder to bear than any physical anguish I feel. I am grateful that He cares enough about me to spend His time and energy so freely on me. I have the easier job, to feel, to experience, to let myself go and abandon everything to Him.

I am His pleasure and His responsibility, and He takes both seriously. I am a submissive woman. I am proud to call myself that, my submission is a gift that I do not give lightly, and can only be given to the one who can appreciate that gift and return it ten fold. Only to my Husband who has that strength, will I give myself fully, for I am strong and proud.

 *#IamaSubmissiveWife#*

O Allaah! Make me better than what my husband ever expected of me and re-unite us togethe in Janat l Fridaoz. Aameen.

May Allaah accept it from you and us. Aameen.

*Allaahu l-Musta'aan!*

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