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Let's Change Our Mindsets About Marriage* *Episode 328* May Allah guide our brothers. May Allah have mercy on them. 🔞

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*Let's Change Our Mindsets About Marriage*


*Episode 328*


May Allah guide our brothers. May Allah have mercy on them. 🔞 



Brothers what many of you are doing to our sisters on social media is not right. Some of you would check a woman's marital status and see that she is married, yet you send private messages ( hi or hello or ya kike) . Even if she tries to tell you that she is married, you keep insisting on talking to her. Some would even say i know you are married, let's be friends. Come on brothers.. 🤔 Friendship with someone's wife? You hide your own wife or sister at home and you want to befriend a married woman? May Allah curse that relationship. 


Let me remind you my brothers. Wallahi these women are not stupid. Just bcos you see a woman on Facebook or Instagram, that doesn't mean she is a whore. Bcos that's what many of you think. And this is why you restrict your own wives from using social media. You think you are smart? Many of your wives use social media with fake accounts. So you can't play with Allah's qudra. Some men would even go to the extent of sending photos of their genitals to married women. What is wrong with you? Wallahi, i have advised the sisters to start publishing your chats on their page so that everyone sees your true color.


Same people would come and start attacking the sisters for inappropriate dressing or for simply wearing a makeup. Yet, you hide under your screen and send your genitals to someone's wife, sister, or mother. And the worst part is, most of you are married, some with 2 or even 4. What kind of precedence are you sending to the younger generations? If such happens to your wife, what do you do then? Divorce her? For the crime you also commit everyday? Many of you divorced your wives for talking to men, yet you are doing the same thing. May Allah guide you. May Allah guide you. You need this. Be fair in your dealings.


Sisters, if any Man contact you even though you warned him, just share his chats and let people know who he is. Enough is enough. We are Muslims, not kaffar. Stay within the boundaries of your Allah and do not transgress.

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