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 *Family Managers*

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بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

A Woman, whatever name she calls herself, being a housewife is a full-time job. In fact, amongst the duties of a good wife is to run or manage everybody & every activities of the family

In fact,

The Prophet (PBUH) said: “Were I to order anyone to prostrate himself before anyone else, I would have ordered the woman to prostrate herself before her husband.” 📚 Automatic Hadith

My people!

A good wife should take certain responsibilities very serious. Yes. Wives are charged with the responsibility of Turning the house into home.

But,

Is there any difference  between a house and a home? Yes,  there's:

Home is a place or an institution where people needing care lives permanently, especially as a member of a family or household. While a house is an ordinary building in which people meet for a particular activity.

Therefore,

For every woman to be a successful wife, she should win over her husband's heart ❤ and be a source of comfort to him by turning her house into a home.

Madam❗

The burdens of life weigh heavily upon the shoulders of men since they are responsible for maintaining and supporting their families.. In fulfilling this responsibility, the man of the household do confront many problems and obstacles outside of the home.

The amount of preoccupations and pressures upon a responsible man is enormous and multifaceted.. It is no wonder that the average lifespan of a man is less than that of the woman.

Now,

In order for the human being to be able to cope with the burdens of life, it is necessary to have someone to listen to and sympathize with him. Yes. And your husband is no exception😃. He may feel alone and in need of finding refuge and comfort amidst these pressures.. It is natural that the man looks towards his wife and family as a source of comfort and relief. Therefore, anticipate his expectations and needs please... Be cordial and warm when he first returns home after working and have refreshments or let him feel that you are at his disposal to care for his needs. Try not to overwhelm him by criticizing him the minute you see him.. Let him rest and recover his strength before putting up the demands of the family.

Madam ❗

Number of children you have should not be used as an excuse to abandon your husband if he return home. Yes. When your husband comes home, endeavor to drop everything you are doing, give him attention, start by forwarding some romantic smiles 😊 to him and a warm greeting😳. Yes. Give him more than he deserve interms of what will make him happy.. It is suprising that If some women have visitors, they greet him/her many times in a day, but if it comes to the Oga of the house who deserve more......🙆‍♀️.

Some women do make their husband suffer courtesy more. Remember that what is good for the visitors is also good for the family members😃.

Attend to his physical needs of fatigue, hunger, and thirst. Then, ask him about his problems. Yes. And if he is not willing to talk, be a good listener and sympathize with him. Try to express your genuine concern and then, help him realize that his problems are not as impossible and huge as he had thought. Give him encouragements of support to help him cope with the issues. You can say something like this: *"These problems are being faced by many people. With a strong will-power and patience, it is possible to overcome the difficulties as long as one does not let the problems get the better of you.. These problems, as a matter of fact, are tests as well as builders of the true character of a person."*

Madam❗

At times of difficulty, your husband is in need of your attention and love.. You should come to his aid and nurse him like a sympathetic psychiatrist and wife.. Don't charge to small devil because the economy is bad and your husband is not delivering like he used to, and.....

TO BE CONTINUED